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    So I have been seeing this guy for about a month. Nothing serious, but when I finally went to his place I saw pics of him and his kid. Apparently he has a baby he didn't mention and the kid lives with his mom. He moved out to LA 4 months ago for work and he says he isn't married anymore. However, he has a framed wedding photo in his office. I am not taking this guy seriously anyways, but it would bother me if he was still married and he had to move from NY to LA for work.
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    Yeah, he didn't tell you about the kid or "ex-wife" that means he still is. I would think so.

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    Not talking about a kid I understand. Not letting you know he has an ex is something else. Especially if it is recent or not yet final.
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    probably good that you're cautious, but that's not a lot to go on. I wouldn't go jumping to conclusions yet.

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    ^ oh but i would. How in the hell do you just "leave' out the fact you have a kid? I mean...how does that happen. yah not first date material but after that..it should comeup. LIke yah I moved from NY to LA for work..I really miss my child. blah blah blah.

    Didn't mention the kid... 10 bucks says he is still married. and out there for 6 months for work and will return to NY or is waiting to get stable and then move them out there.

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    If I had a kid, I would talk about the kid.

    If I had an ex, I would NOT be talking about the ex. Blah!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart
    ^ oh but i would. How in the hell do you just "leave' out the fact you have a kid? I mean...how does that happen. yah not first date material but after that..it should comeup. LIke yah I moved from NY to LA for work..I really miss my child. blah blah blah.

    Didn't mention the kid... 10 bucks says he is still married. and out there for 6 months for work and will return to NY or is waiting to get stable and then move them out there.

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    Dude is def. still married.

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    Seems odd that he wouldn't have mentioned having a kid...I won't say he IS married, but I'd be cautious for sure.

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    Didn't mention ex - perfectly understandable.

    Didn't mention kid - somewhat understandable, but not complimentary. He doesn't want to hit the girl with too much of his baggage too early on.

    Framed wedding picture in his office. Not understandable, unless he's carrying a sun-hot torch. You have an ex, you take down the cutesy couples pictures. He's either married or so not over it. 98.5% chance of being married and had an "oh, shit" moment when you looked at the wedding picture.

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    Ive dated guys with kids before and in time (not like months more like a few phone calls) he tells me he has a kid. Usually in the first 2 weeks. Framed wedding photo doesnt need to be there if he's divorced. Its ok to have pictures but that part of his life is "over". I agree with Zeno the "cutesy couple pictures" dont need to be there. I would straight up ask him.
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    Yea, I think he's married too.







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    Jeez...I didn't see the part about a wedding picture! Ok, change my answer...something's really weird about that.

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    It's a little funny...when you(I, we) know the answer. Yet we must see with different eyes.

    Most likely he is...the odds against it is very very slim. I always say it's a 99% chance because the 1% is a like winning the lottery.

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    I agree that the wedding pic is odd....even if he's no longer married, he still obviously has emotional issues to deal with (clinging to the past, not facing the divorce, etc).
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    Just ask him if he's married.
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    you'd think he'd try to cover his tracks more. I'm interested in how the conversation about the ex went down

    I doubt he's still married, If he's withdrawn about the kid, I can see him keeping the picture up to diffuse questions about it's disappearance, however, with the OP he should be very honest. Time will tell.
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