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    At a strip club does it help you any if your an attractive younger guy? will the girls be more drawn to you? or is it really ALL about money? do looks play any role in how a stripper treats a customer? just curious,thanks.

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    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    and....have you ever been turned on by giving a good looking guy a lap dance?

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    How many is this now? 200? 1000?

    YES, it is all about the money. NO, you won't get anymore attention than the old fucks with 10 times the money in their pockets. We might have a little fun with you during that one dance you buy, but we'll spend a whole lot more time and attention on the guys spending more money.

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    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    what she said

    except I want to add that it's not all about the money though. Sometimes it's about the drinks or drugs.

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    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    so it doesnt turn you guys on at all to give a cute guy a lapdance??

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    no, not really

    Most of us are so numb to dances that we have completely distanced ourselves from the customer. I don't even feel your hard-on half the time even though I know it's there, if that makes sense.

    Besides, I need more than cute to be into a guy, which is relative anyway.

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    Young and "cute" barely register on my radar. They are utterly unimportant. As long as you are polite, don't smell bad, and are paying me, my attention is totally yours. I don't care if you were voted Mr. Young Cute Hot Shit 2006 -- if you can't manage to fill all three of those criteria, I ain't gonna be spending much time with you.

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    Sometimes it works against u to be a cute younger guy cos we all know that most of u think that it means you ll get free dances or special treatment, if i ssee a cute guy with his not so cute friend i ll talk to the friend every time.

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    I cant agree more then what the girls have said so far...

    To the forum topic starter - I go to WORK to make MONEY just like you.... I dont care if you have a bald head, fashionable or nonfashionable clothes, you are young or old, you are a lawyer or a factory worker - as long as you are paying me I will be yours for the whole 7 minutes you pay me $50 for! (if you pay me more, I might offer a good conversation!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss cleo
    Sometimes it works against u to be a cute younger guy cos we all know that most of u think that it means you ll get free dances or special treatment, if i ssee a cute guy with his not so cute friend i ll talk to the friend every time.
    Hehe. Yeah, me too. I don't go to work to socialize or flirt with cute guys. If I want to do that I'll go to a nightclub where 1) I pay alot less to go in than I do at work 2) I don't have to get quite as primped up 3) I am not trying to make money! duh. We go to work to........surprise: WORK.

    Agreed that alot of the "cute younger guys" think they're gonna get something special or that they're somehow more deserving than the ones who are paying us That's about the most backwards thinking ever. We're at work, remember??

    Greenieboy. NO, it doesn't turn me on to dance for a cute guy anymore than it does to dance for the guy who pays me, tips me, doesn't give me crappy attitude, etc. In the strip club, it doesn't work the same way it does in a nightclub. Because we're at WORK. You getting that theme yet?

    "Cute guy" is the absolute LAST thing on my list of reasons to approach a guy a work. Actually it's not even on the list at all. I have never once approached a guy at work because he was cute. I have avoided them for that reason though - cute doesn't pay the bills, baby.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greentea
    At a strip club does it help you any if your an attractive younger guy? will the girls be more drawn to you? or is it really ALL about money? do looks play any role in how a stripper treats a customer? just curious,thanks.
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    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Depends how drunk I am. If I'm completely sober (and I generally am), I won't care very much what you look like. It absolutely is all about money. I'm at work, after all, and I'm not there to find a boyfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss cleo
    Sometimes it works against u to be a cute younger guy cos we all know that most of u think that it means you ll get free dances or special treatment, if i ssee a cute guy with his not so cute friend i ll talk to the friend every time.
    Chiming in here in agreement - if ANYTHING, it might work against you: I remember it even being discussed as a tip in Hustle Hut. If you see a cute guy sitting with a not-so-cute friend, direct your attention/sales pitches at the not-so-cute one. He'll appreciate it more and thus (which is the entire point, greetea) compensate you for it.

    Cute, young customers are most likely, in fact, to also fit two major criteria of customers we can't fucking stand, namely customers who have (1) a sense of entitlement, thinking that because they're so damned cute they might get something for little-to-nothing, and (2) no money.
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    Wait... you mean the rest of you don't go to work, desperately hoping that some cute guy will show up, engage you in dull conversation and maybe buy one dance? Darn. I knew there was a reason I keep leaving with negative money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz
    Wait... you mean the rest of you don't go to work, desperately hoping that some cute guy will show up, engage you in dull conversation and maybe buy one dance? Darn. I knew there was a reason I keep leaving with negative money.
    Well to be fair,I wouldnt knock "just one dance" from any guy.No guy has to buy any dances from a girl,its still a compliment and a nice gesture when a guy spends even some of his hard earned money on you.

    There are some girls who dont even get that "one dance" from the guy,so Im not saying you should feel lucky to have 1 dance,im not saying that at all,but I wouldnt knock it like its nothing either because it could be worse,he could have not accepted a dance at all.

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    you're right. There is nothing wrong with guys who buy one dance. her point was that cute guys don't really spend that much. $20 is still $20, but the less attractive ones spending more will always win.

    $20 is a lot to you, but it's usually jsut a fraction of our housefee.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    her point was that cute guys don't really spend that much.
    And that cute guys who expect to get more for less because they're cute are even cheaper.

    It is true that one dance is better than none. Definitely. And that a customer's money shouldn't be treated ungratefully. But you can certainly see why we don't invest any real time in a guy who probably isn't going to buy multiple dances/champagne rooms, can't you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz
    Wait... you mean the rest of you don't go to work, desperately hoping that some cute guy will show up, engage you in dull conversation and maybe buy one dance? Darn. I knew there was a reason I keep leaving with negative money.
    It's called a "Stripper Attendant".

    I perform this laborious task.

    I get payed by strippers to show up at clubs and relieve them by being the one club goer that they decide they just need to cut loose and remind themselves why they are here.

    I show up, and invariably I will be swarmed by all the dancers, like a pack of dogs on a three legged cat. I nonchalantly pick the girl that my boss told me needs to be reminded, and I get a dance. Generally I pay for the first one to let her know I'm a custy.

    After about 100 free dances, receiving her phone number, real name, some flowers (they never get me my favorites), offers of commitment and love, they charge every customer on the floor asking in hopes to find a minister and/or a priest to marry us however I have to decline, hand out a little pamphlet, and tell her I must be on my way.

    This both energizes the dancer and reminds her why she's working, to find the perfect guy. It's not about the money, it's about the stripper finder her one true love.... sometimes they forget this... I am just here to steer them back on the path.

    I just do what I can.

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    Mast, how I love thee. You can be my attendant any day!

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    I liked dancing for guys with nice bodies. You know, those cut, rock hard abs. A lot of young athletic guys had that. But overall, I spent far LESS time talking to them before I went in for the kill.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    what she said

    except I want to add that it's not all about the money though. Sometimes it's about the drinks or drugs.
    LOL Emily.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    you're right. There is nothing wrong with guys who buy one dance. her point was that cute guys don't really spend that much. $20 is still $20, but the less attractive ones spending more will always win.

    $20 is a lot to you, but it's usually jsut a fraction of our housefee.
    I dont think 20 dollars is alot,but its certainly alot more than the guy saying "no" to a lap dance request,thats all I was saying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseWhite
    And that cute guys who expect to get more for less because they're cute are even cheaper.

    It is true that one dance is better than none. Definitely. And that a customer's money shouldn't be treated ungratefully. But you can certainly see why we don't invest any real time in a guy who probably isn't going to buy multiple dances/champagne rooms, can't you?
    Absolutly,I understand why youd spent more on the guy doing the champagne rooms etc.And you should spend more time towards the guys who spend more,I just wouldnt "poopoo" a single lap dance,because its still something.

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    Not much once youare broke...........

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    Quote Originally Posted by greentea
    Absolutly,I understand why youd spent more on the guy doing the champagne rooms etc.And you should spend more time towards the guys who spend more,I just wouldnt "poopoo" a single lap dance,because its still something.
    okay, it's $20...and we'll readily accept it just as methodically as we accept it from anyone else but we don't really get that much more excited over it versus nothing at all. (I realize I'm speaking for all dancers here, but I think the majority feel this way.) It's like you could say, "it's better than a speeding ticket" when you get a parking ticket, but it doesn't mean you want a parking ticket either.

    back to the original question....your cute guyness doesn't help. It can actually hurt you.

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