Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
Results 26 to 41 of 41

Thread: How much does "cute guy" matter?

  1. #26
    God/dess ExoticEngineer's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2006
    Location
    Arizona
    Posts
    3,335
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 59 Times in 29 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    LOL!!!!

    Bobbi: "You're cute....too bad you're broke."

    Cute Guy in Club: "But I AM cute."

    Bobbi: "AND broke......later studly!"

    No sugar, your studly body and nice eyes and cute smile do NOT get you anywhere...your big fat wallet and your willingness to open it however....Now THAT'S a different story!
    My friend sent me a quote on this one....

    "My horniness, and your hotness, are in direct proportion to your income."




  2. #27
    Featured Member teeth_of_the_hydra's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2006
    Location
    The Wild
    Posts
    1,409
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 23 Times in 10 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Oh, ladies... let's remember that flies are better caught with honey than with vinegar...

    Cute customers are wonderful! However, cute guys just hanging out in the club (i.e. NOT CUSTOMERS) are nothing we get excited about. Of course I would always rather have a cute guy buy a VIP than a big, fat, stinky, drunk, hirsute dude. Especially if you're not obese and I can actually perform all sorts of impressive contortions on the couch. You'll love it too; we'll have a great time!

    However. I would rather have that big fat stinky hairy drunk guy buy a VIP than no one at all. So yeah, it's awesome that you're cute. Be a cute CUSTOMER and it'll be more awesome.

  3. #28
    Moderator yoda57us's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    at the Y
    Posts
    10,035
    Thanks
    2,878
    Thanked 5,834 Times in 2,332 Posts
    My Mood
    Goofy

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by teeth_of_the_hydra
    Oh, ladies... let's remember that flies are better caught with honey than with vinegar...

    Cute customers are wonderful! However, cute guys just hanging out in the club (i.e. NOT CUSTOMERS) are nothing we get excited about. Of course I would always rather have a cute guy buy a VIP than a big, fat, stinky, drunk, hirsute dude. Especially if you're not obese and I can actually perform all sorts of impressive contortions on the couch. You'll love it too; we'll have a great time!

    However. I would rather have that big fat stinky hairy drunk guy buy a VIP than no one at all. So yeah, it's awesome that you're cute. Be a cute CUSTOMER and it'll be more awesome.
    Okay, I'm confused. Are you using the honey or the vinegar here?
    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Sophia_Starina is a sensible stripper...Naked all the way.....
    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

  4. #29
    Featured Member AkashaM's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2004
    Location
    Big City of Dreams...
    Posts
    870
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 31 Times in 15 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    I think we can all agree overall that being a young hot guy in a SC gets LESS attention from dancers. Its simply based on our experience in the business that if it walks like a duck...

    If there is no one else around, or she's the type of dancer that doesnt "cherrypick" customers, then you will be approached. If you want to see this phenomenon in action, bring a friend that women fall all over OTC; only the green, neophyte strippers will approach him first. The more experienced dancers will approach the rest of your party first.

    The only "hot & heavy" dance I gave to a young guy was a bollywood star (I'm serious) who was in town for the Bollywood awards. It was cool b/c no one else knew that he was a major movie star in India.

    Hey, I have a thing for young Indian-American guys...they always spend and they are usually hot.
    I'm getting my Dial-A-Stripper service up and running again. If you are in NYC or NJ and are interested in private party dancing, email [email protected] with your SW handle, contact info, photo (if you have one) & best time to call and I'll get back to you asap.

    If you're having a party and need strippers, email me with the details and any questions you have. Thanks!

  5. #30
    God/dess Pretty_Penny's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Location
    your moms house
    Posts
    5,050
    Thanks
    269
    Thanked 648 Times in 256 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    there's not much i can add to this thread other than my own personal opinion.

    for me, money is my #1 concern when looking for a customer to spend time with. my second concern is how well they are treating me besides the money. by that i mean, are they treating me like a human being, are they respectfull and polite or are they rude and bitter? the next thing i would conisder is how much i like being around them. if both the things i mentioned previously are equally met, it will come down to chemistry/relationship between myself and the customer, if i had to pick between customers that is. of course there are expections. i have a few customers whom i consider friends that i will spend time with even if they don't spend as much as others, but only to reasonable extent. i'm still at work afterall. now, if all of the above mentioned things are exactly equal, do looks matter? i suppose they would on some level. if i'm given the choice between two guys who are both spending the same ammount, both pleasent to be around, and i get along well with both of them. i suppose i'd be inclined to go with the one i was physically attracted to.

    as for the second part of your post, the good ole "are you ever turned on by giving a lap dance?" i have been, but it is not often. also, there's a difference between being turned on by the dance and being turned on by the customer. i like feeling sexy, so it's not difficult for me to feel sexual during a dance. however, i consider that to be seperate from being attracted to the customer. i -have- given dances to customers i was sexually attracted to, but it's very rare. i'd say it accounts for maybe 2% (or one out of every 50 customers) of my dances.

    like most girls i know though, i will drop a hot guy in a heartbeat for someone with money (at work of course). a guy would have to be absolutely breathtaking (read: jonathan rhys meyers) for me to lose money by sitting with him. even then, it would still depend on what bills had to be paid.



    *edited* ....... nah i'm lying. i'd let my electric get shut off for jonathan.

  6. #31
    God/dess Casual Observer's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2004
    Location
    Boston MA
    Posts
    5,670
    Thanks
    35
    Thanked 144 Times in 74 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    If being attractive was a prerequisite for receiving attention in an SC, most of us would be SOL.

    Money talks and comeliness walks.

    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

    William F. Buckley, Jr.

  7. #32
    Veteran Member lwtex52's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Dallas, ByGod, Texas
    Posts
    658
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by miss cleo
    Sometimes it works against u to be a cute younger guy cos we all know that most of u think that it means you ll get free dances or special treatment, if i ssee a cute guy with his not so cute friend i ll talk to the friend every time.
    Now you tell me. When I was a cute younger guy, I thought girls wouldn't talk to me because both of my teeth were crooked and I had a nose the size of Cincinnati.
    My latest conspiracy theory: I am convinced that Dick Cheney is, in reality, Elmer Fudd.

  8. #33
    Veteran Member bella du jour's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Location
    NJ
    Posts
    397
    Thanks
    7
    Thanked 51 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Cute does NOT matter... though I will say this:

    I have met one or two customers whom I would spend time with and actually ENJOY being around regardless of the money being spent (or not spent). Generally these are regulars with whom I have built a rapport... and whose humor, intelligence, etc meet the high standards that I demand of all my "real life" relationships. I mean, of all the 1000's of men I meet it only goes to figure that one or two of them might be awesome human beings. The fact that I may or may not do dances with them has little effect on how I feel - if I like someone as a friend then money has nothing to do with it. But of course if I'm at work I'm there to make $$$... so it's not like I'll be hanging out with these guys shooting the shit all night... they might just be the bright spot in an otherwise dull evening.

    Meh. Then again I'm a noob
    Maybe I'll come to dislike them all equally with time. Though really I'm too much of a people person for that.




    All about my boobs...

  9. #34
    God/dess Mastridonicus's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2005
    Location
    Paradigm City
    Posts
    6,784
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 14 Times in 7 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by bella du jour
    I have met one or two customers whom I would spend time with and actually ENJOY being around regardless of the money being spent (or not spent). Generally these are regulars with whom I have built a rapport... and whose humor, intelligence, etc meet the high standards that I demand of all my "real life" relationships. I mean, of all the 1000's of men I meet it only goes to figure that one or two of them might be awesome human beings.
    I'm glad you came out and said it. It's nice to know that we are human after all.

    You wont grow numb to it if you realize and maintain your highstandards even though you'll meet far more people that pay for attention in these environments, even when they possess qualities that match your high standards
    People are not ruled by their memories.

  10. #35
    God/dess
    Joined
    Jan 2005
    Posts
    3,422
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 16 Times in 16 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    I'd have to say that my number one concern about who I dance for is 'creepiness' above money...above all else. A guy who 'gives me a bad vibe' just isn't going to get a dance from me because I know I'll hate it, and so he won't like it either. Mind you, the 'creeps' are by and large those who want more than what a 'dance' should entail anyway. Or they are those that wear no underwear with sweatpants, or don't bathe, or something like that. If they are creepy-gross, they can have an airdanceif they ask, but c'est tout.

    But creepy can be young or old, ugly or attractive. One of the creepiest guys I ever danced for was some 'good looking' young, rich hot shot. I ran away from his sociopathic ass as soon as I could.

    My favourite customers are never the ones I am 'attracted' to. I am a rarely 'attractable' gal as it is (in SC as well as just in general...ha, I consider myself pseudo-asexual at times). My favourite customers are the respectful kind who spend money on me. More money is great, but not pushing the boundaries and just being a nice guy will get you "molly-*hearts*-you" smiles the whole dance.

    Edited later to add- yes, I do realize that some 'cute young guys' spend good money, and I like it when they do. But they usually want deals too. Always asking for two-for-ones, cuz the dance would be less work with them . One actually asked me to buy him a beer after the dance because 'his time was worth something too' .

    The only thing I like better about dancing for younger guys is that I am more ballsy with them. I am less deferential (I am not yet 100% socialized as a take no shit stripper) to their bullshit. Surprisingly, it doesn't seem to bother them. Last fri night i finished song 4 with young dude, and asked if he wanted a fifth. He said "then do I get a free one?", all puffy chest and look-at-me-walking-away look in his eyes. I said "no". But he got a fifth dance anyway.
    Last edited by mollyzmoon; 10-16-2006 at 09:20 AM.

  11. #36
    God/dess doc-catfish's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    123 Tornado Alley Way, Hooterville USA
    Posts
    6,322
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 36 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Okay, after three pages of this I do gotta say that considering most of gals who post on SW are serious about their jobs, this claim that money, and not looks is the primary if not only factor they take into consideration, I can perhaps believe them, and I specify them...BUT...

    It does have to be mentioned again that the gals who post on here are NOT a representative sample of dancers as a whole, and its been an observation of mine over the last few years, there seems to be a new crop of dancers for whom "work" is just a means of partying on the cheap with people their age. They seem to cling to these younger/more attractive customers or at the very least give them a more generous amount of attention than an older/less attractive one for the same amount of money.

    So, as painful as it may be for some here to swallow, I must conclude begrudgingly that what the OP is asking about here is to some degree true, even in an environement specifically created to give the illusion that it isn't.

    This is yet another reason why I prefer the company of the older, veteran dancers, who have the wisdom to realize that what these newer, less experienced dancers are doing negatively impacts everyone's money, because they know that illustrating to the older/less attractive customer that he's still a loser gives him a disincentive to spend, or even walk in in the first place.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

  12. #37
    Featured Member lunchbox's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2005
    Location
    falling from grace
    Posts
    1,943
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 8 Times in 6 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Cute doesn't matter, but hygiene helps the ladies come to you.

  13. #38
    Featured Member GenWar's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Location
    North Central New York State
    Posts
    1,107
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    QUOTE=doc-catfish:
    It does have to be mentioned again that the gals who post on here are NOT a representative sample of dancers as a whole, and its been an observation of mine over the last few years, there seems to be a new crop of dancers for whom "work" is just a means of partying on the cheap with people their age. They seem to cling to these younger/more attractive customers or at the very least give them a more generous amount of attention than an older/less attractive one for the same amount of money.

    So, as painful as it may be for some here to swallow, I must conclude begrudgingly that what the OP is asking about here is to some degree true, even in an environement specifically created to give the illusion that it isn't.
    ---------------------------------
    You know, Doc...I wasn't gonna say anything...especially in CC...but since you "opened the door", I'll go there.

    Does being "cute" or an attractive guy matter? As doc has pointed out...to the intelligent, hardcore professional dancers, not one whit. When I imagine the consummate professional stripper, the picture in my head is Emily. I have been to her club several times. She is sweet, nice and is always happy to chat. But she is there to work, we both know it, and after the pleasantries have been exchanged, I either start spending or she moves on. I am lucky enough to be self-aware enough that I don't have an issue with this. If I weren't, I doubt she'd have much use for me, spending or no. That is the type of dancer you'll find here, `tea and that's the opinion you'll get. (and you got.)

    But this is not the sum and total of the population of strippers out there. If you try (and I do) you can and will find those dancers who are not necessarily there with work as their primary motivation. Some do it for fun, some to get drunk on someone else's dime, some for a thrill, whatever the reason. Most don't last long enough to ever become ATFs or even to form a long term "regular" relationship, because, as is often said, this job is not for the uncommitted. But on a given Saturday night, in a given large town club, you can find a few of them. And, yes, you WILL need to be "cute" to attract them. I work on a regular basis to master this methodology. And I am stymied by the fact that I am not "cute." I am friendly, clean, nice-smelling and willing to spend. If I can get passed the "cute" thing, I am usually good to go. But, a lot of times I cannot, so, your hypothesis has a grain of truth. As much as the pros around here don't want to admit it.

    BTW, the idea that you are cute and attractive, however true or false it may be, is generally REALLY irrelevant in an anonymous internet situation. Here's my advice for this question...go to the club, buy a couple of dances, and enjoy the fact that the ladies there will sure act like they think you are cute and attractive. If it floats your boat, you can probably even get them to tell you how cute and attractive you are, with the right dispensation of cash in the right directions. Have fun...it's great, isn't it? And that really is the point of all of this...

    -gen
    "See, believe it or not (and I don't care whether you do), it's never been about the sex. I get sex at home, anytime, and we like it, and it's good for both of us. No, my stripclub experience has been about acceptance, and affirmation, and desirability...There have been some women who have a personality that just clicks with mine, and in the faux-sex atmosphere of the club, it's a mix that is completely seductive." - Jay Zeno

  14. #39
    Moderator yoda57us's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    at the Y
    Posts
    10,035
    Thanks
    2,878
    Thanked 5,834 Times in 2,332 Posts
    My Mood
    Goofy

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Have to agree with Doc here: The ladies on this board take their jobs and their income seriously. Sadly this is not the case with a lot of the newer breadof dancers I'm seeing. I also prefer older ladies for a number of reasons not the least of which being that they don't deal with the pretty boy BS.
    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Sophia_Starina is a sensible stripper...Naked all the way.....
    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

  15. #40
    God/dess Jenny's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2002
    Posts
    9,746
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 50 Times in 31 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by greentea
    At a strip club does it help you any if your an attractive younger guy? will the girls be more drawn to you? or is it really ALL about money? do looks play any role in how a stripper treats a customer? just curious,thanks.

    and....have you ever been turned on by giving a good looking guy a lap dance?
    Okay, 2nd part first - yes. I have also been kind of turned on giving non-good looking guys lapdances. Stripping tends to = complicated relationship with your sexuality.

    1st part - yes, I guess so. Times that I have opted to "opt out" of working, would I sit a) with a good looking, funny, entertaining guy, b) a homely guy/guy I would never be attracted to, funny entertaining guy c) with a guy who was good looking but not funny/entertaining to me or d) by myself. I can tell you right now that (C) would never happen. I might go with (D) if I was pouting (and I am very pouty, so I will usually go with (D)). In the event that some guy has been interesting/entertaining to me in a way outside the norm (the norm being that I kind of work myself up to being interested, so I'm interested at the time, but the interest is artificial)... hmm, I don't think I've ever actually been faced with a choice between (A) and (B). Literally, I don't think that has ever happened. In the unlikely event that they were equally interesting and funny, I imagine I would go with the sexy one.

    However, if equal amounts of money are involved (note in the above scenario, no money is involved) I can imagine that most girls would prefer the good looking guy. There might be some quantum involved - like who is more likely to become a regular or whatever - but ultimately, yes, I think that dancers are people, and like all other people will - all things equal - privilege the more attractive. I do think that dancer are capable of having a good time, and when that happens are capable of "getting carried away" - that is hanging out for really long time for paltry money, but it is not usual for girls to "get carried away" sheerly over looks. Like, cute boys will not generally make you forget your wallet, but an unusually good time might.
    I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth

  16. #41
    Veteran Member badpixie's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2005
    Location
    PDX
    Posts
    239
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts

    Default Re: How much does "cute guy" matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    It does have to be mentioned again that the gals who post on here are NOT a representative sample of dancers as a whole, and its been an observation of mine over the last few years, there seems to be a new crop of dancers for whom "work" is just a means of partying on the cheap with people their age. They seem to cling to these younger/more attractive customers or at the very least give them a more generous amount of attention than an older/less attractive one for the same amount of money.
    This is very true. I work in a club where probably 75-80% of my money comes from dances instead of the stage. There is very little stage money (compared to the divey clubs in Portland where you are up constantly, or the nicer clubs downtown) because most of the customers like to sit at the tables and wait for girls to approach.. either to buy dances or suck up time and attention.

    There are a lot of girls who will sit with a table of young guys for hours and hope that someone will open a wallet. Meanwhile, they may not even be offered a drink (young guys who think they're hot shit like to offer a few of their nachos or french fries instead.. are we in the junior high school cafeteria?). Or they might get way too drunk, because the guys think it's hilarious and they want to party and get the girl to leave with them.

    I see a lot of girls spending too much time with young guys, and also the "I'm soooooo rich look at these expensive drinks I'm getting" types who never open their wallets. If dancers didn't humor these types so much, maybe there wouldn't be so many. The egomaniacs and the "I'm so hot I'm entitled" kids hate to be ignored, so maybe they'd just leave the club bitching about how bad the "service" is.. and maybe they wouldn't come back.

Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12

Similar Threads

  1. "Gay" guy in my class asked me on a "date"
    By greenidlady1 in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 05-24-2010, 03:35 PM
  2. Barney Frank says: "Profits don't matter."
    By Eric Stoner in forum Dollar Den
    Replies: 23
    Last Post: 08-22-2009, 01:29 PM
  3. Guy to Guy question about "Stripper Chat"
    By slims099 in forum Shop Talk
    Replies: 43
    Last Post: 08-19-2007, 01:35 AM
  4. "Sweetest Sin" corny or cute?
    By AkashaM in forum Music Mix
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 08-04-2004, 07:37 PM
  5. Does it matter how "BIG" your butt is?
    By daphned in forum Body Business
    Replies: 20
    Last Post: 08-02-2004, 01:44 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •