well, last night one of my old regulars came in. i haven't seen him in probably 4 months. now, i knew that i had gained a bit of weight, because the last time he saw me i was having food issues, and dropped a shitload of weight. (i was very skinny apparently even though i couldnt tell.) well anyway, he got a champagne room which was cool cause he hadn't done that very often before. and we were talking and doing laps. and he told me not to get offended, but as a person who has had food issues i can't help but take it personally... he said i look 'curvier than before.' he said it wasn't bad and i looked good, but that killed the mood and just upset me and today i can't stop thinking about how if he said something i must really have gained weight. ARGH it sucks
even though i know i'm not fat i feel fat and that comment doesn't help.
why do guys say stuff like that?



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One Texan once looked me up and down on stage and yelled, "DAYUM, yer wuna them'ar breeeeedin' wimin!!" LOL. Dumbasses. I knew it was a compliment but still, he could've chosen his words a tad better.
I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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