I'm 34 and just now started going to this one club about 4 months ago. Nothing too special.
Then about 9 weeks ago I met this girl who is amazing, she's the best IMO. She doesn't just go and take her clothes off on stage she puts on a real good show.
I thought this girl would never give me the time of day.
That is until we bumped into eachother and later ended up in the champagne (VIP) room for an hour. This is a full nude, full contact club. Everything can, does and a few weeks later did happen in the vip room. First time we did a lot but I said I want to hold her and talk (I just got out of a 6 year relationship and my parents health etc.(which we didn't talk about any of that). It was like we met in a normal place and were on the couch at home. When time was coming up she gave me her number and I got hers. She said she really liked how we just hit it off so well and she would like to get to know each other better outside the club.
So I call her and she never answers, I always leave a message and she never gets back to me.
I did get her once and we met up, did a two hour vip and hung out in the club the rest of the night. She did have to work, so I watched her and wondered if this turned into anything serious if I could handle this type of thing. I think I can because I really respect anyone who's good at what they do. She seems to make way more money than most of the other girls. She doesn't look to see if I'm looking (and I'm not stalking her) but she doesn't do the things with other guys that she does with me. Like once when I left the club we made out right in front of the management and I left. No one does that in the open.
Then I caught her on the phone again and we set up a "date" on a slow day at the club. She says she has to work so we had to do some dances. We did some four song dances ($100) and management keeps track of that. She charged me half and paid the other half with the money she already cashed out. Then she started buying me drinks. I got club hats, shirts, etc. All free. I even sat by the stage once and after her dance she let me pick up all her money and sort it out, she even left and came back while I did this. She trusted me with all her money.
Now I'm nothing special, I don't think my mentality is typical compared to most customers in a strip club. I think I wear the same pants about every time I go there and some shirts you can get at wal mart, no jewelry, nothing. And yet she brags to her friends in the club and wants them to meet me. She is amazing I watch her walk through the club, everyone looks at her, at least more than they look at other girls. And it's known I'm there for her because when I am approached for a dance by other girls I say I'm here for her, and they walk away quick.
Yet the problem remains, she never calls me or messages me back. She lives about 1 1/2 hours away and the club is about the halfway point.
Oh And I've spent close to $4500 on her in the past 8 weeks and thats not easy for me. I don't regret one bit of it, it was worth every penny to me.
And it was made clear that anything outside the club is not paid for.
I know I'm probably a real dumbass. can someone take a guess on whats going on here?
I'm fine with a "that was good lets do this again" when we come out of the vip. I'd keep coming back. But the promise of being friends outside the club and her not keeping up on her end of that deal makes me a bit mad. Why does she say this?
In fact I went there last night and spent some quality time with her, she wanted to do a vip room and I said no to see how it'd go after that if I had said yes, she wouldn't have had to work the club the rest of the night but she ended up having to.
It went ok I sat, drank, watched tv, she came to see me, but at the end of the night she left without saying goodbye. She told me she was going to cash out and leave and to wait for her, but I asked a girl I sort of know if she was still there and this girl said she left already.
I think I'm done with her after this unless she calls me with good reason.
I'm an idiot I know. I don't usually obsess over people like this but when I see her coming to me, everyone in the club disappears and its just me and her...damn.




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