Originally Posted by Deogol
Here it is.
Whenever these kinds of threads come through, I am going to post the reply:
Is This You?
Originally Posted by Deogol
Here it is.
Whenever these kinds of threads come through, I am going to post the reply:
Is This You?

Me?Originally Posted by Katrine
The second room was for two hours. We did pretty much everything (normal, no freaky shit). It didn't cost any more than if we just sat there.
And BTW I did not ask for anything she made all the suggestions and decisions on what we did. I never asked for anything. Not that it matters. She made the suggestions and I agreed to them.
Why do you ask?
Holy crap. I can't even bear to listen to them all. The first one is bad enough. I can't even believe the "I love you" on the very first message! And with a random sampling of the rest - he bought a WEDDING BAND?!? Ughhhhhhhhh . . .
Jay, do yourself a favor and listen to the voice mails Deogol posted.
"Before I conceived you, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life." -- Maureen Hawkins
"I just can't get over how much babies cry. I really had no idea what I was getting into. To tell you the truth, I thought it would be more like getting a cat." -- Anne Lamott




This is the most concrete, sensible advice in all of these situations, and its the one that hardly anyone ever listens too.Originally Posted by xbloodydewdropx
You have an infinitesimal chance of every turning her around to be what you want and hope her to be. You will only make it worse for yourself if you dont just move on.
Just....move...on.
OMG that is the funniest saddest thing I have ever heard. I need a customer like that. I probably couldn't string him along for so long but I sure could use $10,000!
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says is never accurate because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand." - Bertrand Russell
"It's just a matter of people having low self esteem and being way too easily offended." -Random Guy on a Internet Forum
In other words: Boo-motherfucking-hoo

NOTE TO EVERYONE.......THIS DOES NOT REFER TO ME! i THOUGHT IT DID FOR A SECOND THERE.Originally Posted by RoseWhite





Jay2006, I just think you dont want to admit you got a big huge serving of SS feed to you with a big spoon. If you cant handle your emotions in a strip club then I think you shouldnt be there.
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi





"but she doesn't do the things with other guys that she does with me."
yeah.............. ok.
she's obviously working you over for your money. what makes you think she's not doing all those extras in VIP with other guys? also, saying "i know this guy who has a great relationship with a stripper" means N.O.T.H.I.N.G
you do realize that we are all individuals right? we don't all share the same brain. a stripper isn't who someone IS, it is their OCCUPATION.
Last edited by Jay Zeno; 10-15-2006 at 01:02 PM.

I hate when I have to explain every freaking comment I make.
She doesn't when I'm there, what I don't know doesn't bother me."but she doesn't do the things with other guys that she does with me."
Nothing, I never said I'm the only one getting that.what makes you think she's not doing all those extras in VIP with other guys?
As I've been told a hundred times in this one post --- this is the nature of the business, now are you saying it's not? Or are you telling me something I knew since the thought of leaving the house to go there?she's obviously working you over for your money.
I didn't say one word about it being great did I? NO. I said if they have something than it's not impossible (not that that is what I set out for it just turned into that)."i know this guy who has a great relationship with a stripper"
Yea do you? if so why are you predicting this girls intentions, all comments in this thread are typical generalizations.you do realize that we are all individuals right?
Do I have to spell it out? can I copy and paste? ok then ---I just think (you dont) I want to admit (you) I got a big huge serving of SS feed to (you) ME with a big spoon. Is that sufficient?I just think you dont want to admit you got a big huge serving of SS feed to you with a big spoon.
I hope I was thorough enough.
In case anyone missed it my original concern was why she gave me her number, etc. OK we covered that, I get it. I'm ok with it. So I'm just a customer ok fine I'll be that for her. Next time I see her I'll tell her that and I bet all will be fine and our relationship will continue on a club only basis.
Well, this is getting too touchy for words. And as an aside, Jay2006, I don't think it would be healthy for you to continue your relationship/money exchange with this woman. In my opinion, you have attached too much to this whole situation (emotions and money you cannot afford). I would suggest backing off and perhaps finding another outlet for your time/money until you can accept the strip club as a fantasy land and nothing more. Best of luck and I wish you well.
(Man, I hate doing that to another girl. Had to be done, though.)





You are getting all uppity on us because you asked for opinions and we gave you truth. If you want a hug call Dr. Phil okay?
As long as the money keeps flowing your ITC relationship will continue. It doesn't matter if you tell her you are OK with it or not. You where a mark after the first time you took her to VIP. If the truth hurts too much then just log-off.
Strip clubs are a great place for customers to relax and hang with women that would not normally give you the time of day on the street. It's a fantasy , that's all. When she is grinding naked on your lap ask yourself, would she be doing this to me if I wasn't paying her?
FYI, when she tells you she doesn't "do this" with anyone else she means she doesn't do it with guys who don't buy dances. Chances are that whatever is on her menu with you was on the menu with the guy before you, the guy after you and the guy she is grinding on right now while you are whining on a chat board about her. Please, Please, PLEASE get real!!
Again, if you don't want to hear the truth don't come here asking for it.
Comprende?


Jay, a little advice from someone who has never seen the inside of a strip club. Hence my monikerYou want a real emotional relationship and not a business deal that you will find ITC. Strippers are wonderful business people and top at sales or they don't make it in the biz. Good on 'em all as long as they're honest tradeswomen! Go find a woman who wants the same thing as you and leave the dangerous and highly seductive fantasy of the club to those who can handle it.





so you're ok with her giving extras to other guys and yourself. you're ok with the fact that she's "just doing her job". you're defending all of her actions and the relationship you have with her.
i don't see what exactly the problem is. don't ask for advice when you don't want it.
That’s the truth. I met my ex (he’s my best friend, but he also claims I’m still his projectOriginally Posted by xbloodydewdropx
) in the club. He offered me a chicken finger, asked me what I was doing for New Years, gave me his number, and I called. Only time I’ve ever asked him for money, was once- when I needed to fill my gas tank. It was never business with him, but I know if I ever asked for financial help he would gladly give it to me and he knows I would never accept if he offered, he has tried already..
So, Jay, it wouldn’t be about the money
I had customer come in and go up to the vip from 8-3, he slept next to me. I didn’t even have to take off me dress. I never went OTC, I answered my phone, but didn’t give empty promises-- he was my last serious regular, it gets too complicated. The end.
Good! You haven’t started drinking the Hate-o-rade. So she made you feel great for the time you spent with her. Sure it was a lot of money, but you had fun and you claim she some how fixed you up. At first you felt great about it, then you shifted your focus onto her ("being with her means I'm good enough..blah blah") and you’re stuck. Not uncommon, happens to everyone. I’ve been a sucker, many times.On more than one occasion I've been next to some asshole who starts talking to me about how all the girls are just a bunch of xxxxx or what ever. I don't like that, and just walk away.
You can change that, without becoming a misogynist.
It would be best if you stop chasing the idea that she sees you more than a customer. It’s like going to a casino, getting a teaser, but eventually losing $4,500, then returning--hoping maybe this time you’ll win big. Admit you’re addicted, and also e aware it’s really not about her, but you wanting to fill some void. Attempting to fix it in a SC by sleeping next to a dancer in the vip, and going broke, WILL make it WORSE!
p.s When you stop visiting, she’ll probably give ya a call. Ignore it.
Recently, I allowed myself to go through some the same nonsense as you. (see "Am I Crazy for feeling this way" a few threads down from here) Sure, I could split hairs and say "Oh I was different because of this detail or that one". But as I've been told by others about my own post..."This is refreshingly clear of complications, except for the ones you yourself place on it".
Your going to battle with the replies you disagree with. Don't be nutty. Sit back and just consider all the replies as a whole. Some you my agree with some you my not so what? In fact, the best thing you can do is stand there, absorb all the bullet holes and arrows, take it all as what this is: a bitch slap back to reality. After awhile take a bow and tell the collective posters "thank you for you time", as I did (or at least hope I did).
This may sound insane, but I really did appreciate most of the posts to my thread.....At least the ones with some thought put into them. Sure I may have disagreed with some replies to me but my purpose was to gain perspective on what actualy happened rather than trying to convince others of my point of view. Before you reply to anyone again, consider your purpose for being here.
One thing's for sure; Don't to an SC when your just off a break-up. Years ago, I went to an SC right after a relationship went south and dropped 25 hundie in one night. NEWS FLASH!! Two ladies at a time in the in the VIP room really adds up!! Sure I had fun, but it was a real buzz kill to hear that your card was declined!! I could buy a house with the cash I dropped in SCs over the years!! LOL
Good Luck.
Jay2006 dont get all pissy just because there telling you like it is you wanted to know whats going on, btw look at it as a good way now you know whats going on at least there being blunt with you and not telling you lies, at the stripclub this is what we do is lie its just part of our job we have to fulfill the fantasy![]()

No, all the asumptions and misqoutes about what I said gets on my nerves a bit.You are getting all uppity on us because you asked for opinions and we gave you truth.
In my last post I said I am alright with it.As long as the money keeps flowing your ITC relationship will continue. It doesn't matter if you tell her you are OK with it or not. You where a mark after the first time you took her to VIP.
NOOO, she doesn't tell me about anyone (except for the wierdos), I watch her sometimes. Like if I see her I wonder if she's coming to me or still working and she stops to work. I don't follow her around stalking her but I do watch, I like to watch her. To recite what someone else probably said ...a strip club is where you go to watch women.FYI, when she tells you she doesn't "do this" with anyone else
Well I was asking at first now I find myself correcting all the words people are putting into my mouth.Again, if you don't want to hear the truth don't come here asking for it.
It's obvious most people on the negative do not understand the way I feel. Some posts here are right on. Others don't have a clue and make me out to look like something I'm not.
I guess so. We always arrange to meet early so I'm the first one, other wise it might be a little awkward.so you're ok with her giving extras to other guys and yourself.
I got the advice I needed. Now people are making up shit that didn't happen and predicting the way I feel and thats incorrect information, and whats worse are the people who reply to this incorrect interpretation to what I said as if I actually said it.don't ask for advice when you don't want it.
I'm about done with this post I got what I asked for and thanks those for it, all the other bullshit can be left out. It's getting too far off topic and confusing.
it's always lke that B21Q
They come on here asking, "does she really like me?" and we all send a loud and clear NO. They don't like the answer so they get more agitated and explain why in this case he's truly different.
gosh emily i should really read more of these post then because there pretty funny![]()
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