So this guy has been coming in to see me once or twice a week for the last few weeks. He's starting to make me really uncomfortable. He's right in the middle of a divorce -- when I met him, he had just moved out into his own apartment -- and seemed very sweet at first, just wanted someone to spend time with and talk to. But now he's fixated on me to a bizarre degree. I've never led him on; when he's asked me out, I just change the subject. But tonight he told me he thinks about me constantly and thinks we would have beautiful children. Then he asked me to marry him. I can't even remember what I said. I think I just started rambling about something else. It gives me the creeps. Obviously, I need to be blunt with him that I won't see him outside of the club. I don't usually have a problem being blunt, but this guy scares me...



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The creepiest part was when he went 'I could show up at your place'. I was pissed and freaked.. he still lurks on here and I hope he reads this so he knows how much of a loser he is.
he and his wife just weren't getting along, and he was there almost every night to see my friend. He would seriously come in and cry on her shoulder. She wasn't attracted to him, and as bad as she felt for him, he spent little money on her. She didn't know how to excuse herself to go make more money. After a while she started to feel like maybe he would bring up his daughter's death so much because he knew no one with any consideration would get up and walk away from someone pouring their heart out about their dead child. He'd buy drinks and tip her a little onstage, but that was it. Cheap therapy?

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