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    Default Strange reaction to dancing onstage-Advice

    So sometimes when I go into work I starting feeling this knot in my stomach about dancing onstage. I don't know why...insecurities or something I guess...but I am not shy and I like being onstage.

    The weird thing is, sometimes when I watch a good dancer before I go up, it puts me in the "zone" and I can feel that I am doing great onstage. Like my performance is just hot and flows really well. But it is not like something I can call up on command. When I feel insecure or nervous, I look ok onstage, but inside it feels like torture. 3 songs=1 eternity.

    How can I learn to put myself in the "zone" on command? I know this is just a mental block.

    Incidently, it has been DEAD since the end of August (season starts around Thxgving)...and I find it much harder to put on a good show when there are so few peeps at the club.

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    Default Re: Strange reaction to dancing onstage-Advice

    I know what you mean about the 'zone'...but lots of experience (must be well over 2000 stage shows I've done by now) has shown me that it doesn't translate to the audience.

    You might feel like you did a crap job, but the audience will respond to the vulnerability on your face (or something). Or, you might feel like you kicked ass, but get no tips because
    everyone was too entranced by your quick motions and forgot to get up.

    Just do what makes you happy on stage. Seriously- that's the #1 best way to have a good show and make money. Don't worry about the audience. It's YOUR stage, YOUR show!

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