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    Whats up, inspired from my other thread about "male attraction". Id like to ask this here since i think i can get some opinions. Im 19/Filipino/5'8 and some (most) of my friends are flip/korean/chinese/etc...mostly asian. Is it me or do asian guys seem to have an "obstacle" from getting with caucasian girls (specifically) . Is it the culture clash? height thing,lol? "tiny" penis rumor? I see more asian girls w/white guys than asian guys w/white girls. Ive asked some girls at school/work (caucasian girls) if they "like/go for" asian guys and they said not for relationships but just friends.

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    I guess lack of height and/or lanky build compared to the caucasian average may be a deterrent. I'm asian but have never dated any asian guy or girl, though that may also be due to geographical reasons. Also, many caucasian girls can't tell the difference between filipino, korean, japanese etc. so I doubt that subdivison makes much of a difference.

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    I don't know. Just seems like a huge cultural difference to me. They'd have to be very Americanized for me to be interested.

    The tiny penis doesn't bother me as much as the tiny hands.

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    I have a bit of a thing for tall Japanese men. I'm not short myself
    I had a Phillipino boyfriend when i was 16.
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    Speaking as a stripper in 'Hong'couver, I see one major issue:

    Culturally, Asian guys don't want to date 'dirty' girls, like strippers. Have sex with, yes, but bring home to mother? Hell no.

    That's a generalization, but often true.

    I've been interested in asian guys (they're not all short! My parents just came back from China and they said the teenaged generation over there are just as tall as caucasians), but it's just such a cultural hurdle...relationships are hard enough.

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    Dude, I looove Philipino guys! I'm black though. They're so cool and dance beautifully. I dated a Japanese dude. He was a sweetheart. He slowly introduced his culture to me and he was a rock guitar playin' hottie. What's not to like!!!

    You're kinda young to be worried. If you haven't found dating success by 30 than be worried. I'm sure all kinds of chicks will like you if you get out socially ==and don't think it to death. If you're in school join some clubs and hang out on campus and in one semester you'll have a clique and a chick!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    I don't know. Just seems like a huge cultural difference to me. They'd have to be very Americanized for me to be interested.

    The tiny penis doesn't bother me as much as the tiny hands.
    Okay well i take that back, at least for mine...lol. I guess 6 inches is "average"? and in response to Optimist, i like black girls too and im my whole life (im 19) i have had 4 black girls "like" me, 3 asian girls "like" me (past g/fs) and one mexican girl "like" me. But never a caucasian girl.... .

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    Yea, I agree with Optimist. Philipino guys, asian/Pacific Islander's are SEXY as hell. You are only 19 though. You'll get your chance to find a caucasian girl that likes you for you.

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    Darn you again CK, you always beat me to the punch. Anyway, I agree with Optimist, and Cinammon, I love me some lumpia (pants lumpia that is! ) !!!! Good luck with your skittle quest Black sheep!
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    I dunno... I personally find a lot of Asian men to be super hot. And I see a lot of mixed couples... Asian men with caucasian or black women.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JustJayda
    Darn you again CK, you always beat me to the punch. Anyway, I agree with Optimist, and Cinammon, I love me some lumpia (pants lumpia that is! ) !!!! Good luck with your skittle quest Black sheep!
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    I should add, the penis size thing is a myth! My Japanese friend was packin' if you know what I mean.<nudge nudge,wink wink>

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3
    Whats up, inspired from my other thread about "male attraction". Id like to ask this here since i think i can get some opinions. Im 19/Filipino/5'8 and some (most) of my friends are flip/korean/chinese/etc...mostly asian. Is it me or do asian guys seem to have an "obstacle" from getting with caucasian girls (specifically) . Is it the culture clash? height thing,lol? "tiny" penis rumor? I see more asian girls w/white guys than asian guys w/white girls. Ive asked some girls at school/work (caucasian girls) if they "like/go for" asian guys and they said not for relationships but just friends.

    *Cliffs
    Q: Do white girls go for asian guys?(you be the judge)
    (Filipino in my case)
    im not really sure,but Im a White Male and I have ONLY dated Asian females in my life.Current GF is filipina.But Im not sure how it works in reverse,sorry.

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    In my twenties I had a wonderful affair with a man of Japaneese hertiage, but he was born and raised in the US, so there were a lot cultural similarities between us. Damn, he was so hot with rippling muscles and 6 pack abs. mmmmmmm, yummy!


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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3
    Okay well i take that back, at least for mine...lol. I guess 6 inches is "average"? and in response to Optimist, i like black girls too and im my whole life (im 19) i have had 4 black girls "like" me, 3 asian girls "like" me (past g/fs) and one mexican girl "like" me. But never a caucasian girl.... .
    Am I the only one who sees problem with the fact that he is 19 and has a number of women "like" him already, but he is lamenting that one particular ethnic group hasnt yet?

    Women of any race and ethnic background arent conquests to "get". if thats your focus, be happu who you "get" and do not lament who you "dont get".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John
    Am I the only one who sees problem with the fact that he is 19 and has a number of women "like" him already, but he is lamenting that one particular ethnic group hasnt yet?

    Women of any race and ethnic background arent conquests to "get". if thats your focus, be happu who you "get" and do not lament who you "dont get".

    I don't see a problem with it especially since he is 19 He has a healthy curiosity for diverse punnany! He sees women with similar ethnic backgrounds to his dating Caucasions, and wants some damn reciprocity! Nothing wrong with that, IMHO
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    I'm half Asian but I look very caucasian. I'm 5'8" and I have height issues with most Asian men. If I'm towering over you in 4" heels, I'm just not interested. I've only met two Asians that were acceptably taller than me and one is my cousin (who's also a half breed).

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    Well, part of your problem might just be your group of friends. Nothing against your friends, I'm sure they're great, but you say that the majority of them are asian. If you are hanging out with mainly asians, then that's the group of people that are going to get to know you, and end up 'like liking' you. *wow i feel like i'm 14 again* Also, in my experience, it is intimidating to approach someone if you are of a one culture and they, and all their friends, are of another.

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    Lets see, dating wise I never had luck with Western Women... Asians, yes more than luck. You seem to have the opposite problem of me. I'm Caucasian and have not really had much luck with white women. However I've been very fortuante with Asians. Koreans, Japanese, Chinese, etc. It does not really matter in the end, they are all women, and there are good ones, bad ones, and all the others in between.

    SxyBrat is on to something. If the majority of your friends, are Asian and know Asians, your more likely to meet asians. It is just a matter of odds, so increase them.
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    i had a gorgeous japanese bf for a while there. has was about 6ft and just divine... i think he liked having some gaijin hanging off his arm in tokyo so all the little shinjuku girls would give him the evil eye.... (never introduced me to his mother though, he feared for her heart)

    i do recall making out with this super hot guy from hong kong... someone mentioned the abs up there ^^^ and that's definitely something the asians have over the white boys, that's the ability to shred up. he was also taller... i'm 5'8 so i have generally 6ft minimum.

    let's face it, prior to getting married, i was into anyone hot... regardless of which continent they started on.... rowr... (swat swat). it's a result of growing up in NZ, which is practically a multi-cultural train station...

    as for drawbacks for the asians fellas... i can't think of any! (except maybe working too hard)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John
    Am I the only one who sees problem with the fact that he is 19 and has a number of women "like" him already, but he is lamenting that one particular ethnic group hasnt yet?

    Women of any race and ethnic background arent conquests to "get". if thats your focus, be happu who you "get" and do not lament who you "dont get".
    Whats up, dont get it twisted. I was simply taking an interest to caucasian women (dating outside my race). And thank you JustJayda ^_^

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    Quote Originally Posted by sxybrat07
    Well, part of your problem might just be your group of friends. Nothing against your friends, I'm sure they're great, but you say that the majority of them are asian. If you are hanging out with mainly asians, then that's the group of people that are going to get to know you, and end up 'like liking' you. *wow i feel like i'm 14 again* Also, in my experience, it is intimidating to approach someone if you are of a one culture and they, and all their friends, are of another.

    Ok, my brain hurts now.
    Oh sorry bout the brain thing ^_^ but well i do try to "mingle" with the caucasian girls at my school but it just seems like....eh iono its kinda hard to explain. Put it this way, im not "Abercrombie and Finch" enough for em. And they arent "hip hop" enough for me (not that i care) but it just seems like asking a Snoop Dogg to mingle with Jewel....ahh well you know what i mean
    I think what we need to find is some common ground

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3
    Put it this way, im not "Abercrombie and Finch" enough for em. And they arent "hip hop" enough for me (not that i care) but it just seems like asking a Snoop Dogg to mingle with Jewel....)
    Well there you go. You just answered your own question my friend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3
    Oh sorry bout the brain thing ^_^ but well i do try to "mingle" with the caucasian girls at my school but it just seems like....eh iono its kinda hard to explain. Put it this way, im not "Abercrombie and Finch" enough for em. And they arent "hip hop" enough for me (not that i care) but it just seems like asking a Snoop Dogg to mingle with Jewel....ahh well you know what i mean
    I think what we need to find is some common ground

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