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    A month or so ago , I wrote about a girl I work with at VIPS . She was up to no good and hooking, trying to use me as bait to lure customers into the deal.

    I did go to mgmnt about her. I literally felt I had no choice. With all the issues at hand here at my home club, the last thing we seriously need is a prostitution bit going on while we are trying to just stay afloat.

    The Mgmnt said they'd have to catch her up to shit. Which obviously is the way to go about this. He said She said wouldnt be the way to professionally handle this situation.

    In this time, I haven't worked with her. I've been far too focused on just surviving to socialize with her as it is. The other girls in our so called "group" are well aware that mgmnt is watching her. Although none of them have said anything to her. Its' like we all just want her caught without having to be there when it happens. We sorta see it like she's going to get what's coming to her.

    her behavior the last few weeks has been extereme. I mean, insane. One day its

    " everyone hates me because Im prettier then them. ".

    Then its

    " why doesnt the bartender like me? I mean he sucks Ihate him but its me and i'm hot why would he say he only fucks asians. I wouldnt fuck him anyways..if I did it would be out of pity"

    Going on to

    " Well girl X said you were crazy because there is no way you use to or have made 3 grand in one night at the other club, but she's just a jealous little girl and she doesnt understand anything so i wouldnt give it weight.....but she did say it ".

    and ending up with

    " I can't go to work Nikki ( my stage name ) because of this latex its ripped open my sutures and now I have to get my breasts redone, the dr won't redo them without charging me 2200 dollars so Im going to sue him as it is. And its totally his fault that it keeps opening up and now I cant' work ".

    Can I just say this much , Or just to sum it all up. You shouldnt' SHOULD NOT have sutures opening 8 to 10 weeks after breast Aug. If you have sutures still after a SIMPLE breast augmentation 10 weeks then you have fucking problems. I have had my tits done. The stitches that didn't absorb were removed at my 6 week follow up. Hell they might have came out at 4 weeks. I can't recall its been 6 fucking years. Your scar doesnt just rip open! Its solid skin that has fused and grown back. Unless its cut physically I can't see how for the life of me it would just open up . And if it did., wouldnt your ass just go right back to the DR asap or even the ER?! Why would you go into work and apply latex to it for weeks then complain? IT makes NO sense!

    I can handle a liar but a toxic person I cannot. This girl is nuts. She is attempting to turn each of us girls in this friendship circle against one another. She's doing so by telling the russian girl we are friends with shit that is fucked up like " we need to use Nikki to make money , we can't afford to lose her ". Who says that shit? And to think it wouldn't fucking get back to me.

    We all hate being used, we all know the KIND of girls in the clubs that can't rely on themselves to make money out of certain types of men. You know the type of men that are NICE people and not being sleazy scummy fucks . So they take the girls with personality and charm and just use them ( them being me at this point ) to do the talking and convincing to stay longer.

    I will NOT fucking put up with this shit. NOT in the god damn least. I can't work around her. its killing me. I need to work but seriously I can do without the drama. I have enough on my own, without her lending me some of her shit.

    She's also the one that's constantly trying to get me to go to another club since the shorts and latex thing started happening. She wants me to go with her to dance fulll nude. Well you know what I won't. And the reason I won't is because I am no longer with the mental capability to handle that sort of situation. When I was 18 and 19 I barely made it through. I dont like nude clubs, I dont like the patrons that are regulars in Nude clubs..in general. I am also a mother of 2 sons. If my sons were to find out that I do this for a living i believe in my heart that handling a mother that takes her top off is one thing., but a mother that shows her pussy ..that's an entire other situation. My boyfriend doenst care either way, as he puts it he knows what he signed up for when he began dating me , which is a dancer. However, I like to again have as much little bits of drama as possible. So i just attempt to stay out of full nude clubs all together.

    This girl swears I wont dance nude because of my S.O. which is shit. She runs her mouth to other girls who now look at me as if Im with some controlling abusive asshole boyfriend. That seriously couldn't be further from the truth. hell he doesn't EVER have an issue or anythign with my job. I swear to god. So now i get those pity eyes from other girls, that " if you need to talk " speech. Its irritating and im constantly defending myself.

    I decided this week while I was away to cut ties. I wrote her a txt msg , because calling her would solve nothing. I wrote a simple " please do not contact me again. You do nothing but talk about me behind my back and I dont think you are a good person. I no longer wish to speak to you ". that was it.

    at least on my end

    i get everything from


    " who ever said taht is making it up "

    to the

    " girl you are traveling with said this and that about you "

    and the final

    " my mom is in the hospital and this is the last thing I need, please dont talk to me anymore"

    may I just say i wasn't even responding to these fucking msgs. So she was basically talking to herself.

    yesterday I talked to girl X and she said psycho claims i've called her phone 30 something times. May I just say... she called me 14 in one day. I have NEVER once called her. NOT ONCE. ontop of it

    today she sends a msg to my phone around noonish saying her mom is now out of the hospital and we should talk because she doesnt want to have to fight me.

    Bitch please. This girl is so fucking dramatic and so fucked in the fucking head that I cannot handle her. Shes nuts .

    So what the fuck do i do now. Do I call and talk to the manager that has spoken about her to me before?

    Or just leave it be and avoid her ass. Oh by the way. Her sutures must have healed themselves because in a matter for 4 days she is now coming back to work and covering the shit with latex...explain that one

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    OMG!!! Its been a full moon for the last few months solid I think!!!! To answer your question, ignore her if all possible Tart! Please, ignore her. Soon she will get caught being "dirty", and she will be fired. When that happens, I'd change my number.
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    So i wanted to update this a bit. This was posted ..what a week ago maybe? At any rate today I've had again yet another wonderful mass amounts txt msgs. From the crazy bitch.

    She has now convinced her crazy self, that everyone is against her. Because she is oh so beautiful. Ontop of it all she has threatened to go to the management over this. Yes over her txt msging me and me NOT responding. I mean wtf.

    I'm at dinner tonight with my bf and I get another txt msg with a straight up threat and some other shit and lies that she's going to go management .

    I had to literally stop dinner, drive to fucking work..the while wanting to KILL her. go in and speak to management . I had to go in there with this highschool fucking drama and say , look this girl is threatening my job..my life..everything and why because I dont want to talk to her because she is NOT a good person .

    Man I hated that shit. I swear to god I was in there apologizing for the entire ordeal but they were very understanding and i showed them the txt msgs and stated my case.

    I swear to god ihaven't written her or talked to her at all. I just can't grasp how insane...my god.

    I just had to vent

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    wow, seriously crazy. I hope that bitch gets fired. It's funny that all the people that crazy that I have ever met all thought the same thing.... that people were just jelous of them. You think they'd get it eventually.
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    well, print up your phone records and bring them to management to prove that she's calling you, but you ain't calling her.
    next, go to the police and show them a copy of her threats and the phone record. Get advice, get a complaint on record, and consider getting a restraining order.
    Next, contact your phone company and get her phone number blocked (or your number changed.) It might also help to turn off your text messaging for about two weeks an then turn it back on.

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    Yes, I think if you make a report and put out an order then they make her go to anger managment o rsoem shit, as well as pay out the ass for other fees. I've heard it costs up to 1500. Thats a lot of money being blown by people acting crazy. Make her pay. - er, um, that could be just because I'm in sort of a spitefull mood right now, but, yes, make her pay!
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    Jeez,I feel sorry for you.I think every club has a dancer or two like this.I would just avoid getting close to other dancers and not give them my phone number.

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    ive seriously considered going to the cops. If anything just to prove a fucking point to this psycho. I did go into work yesterday to talk to management and I did show the text msgs. My phone records are always uptodate and availble through my provider online. So proving that i've not txting or calling won't be an issue.

    my manager said to bring him my phone everyday before start of my shift if sh'es phoned or txtmsged.

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    Girls I am sorry you have to go thru this! I wish I could say more to you but I dont want to get in your business. Please just be careful. Sometimes those girls like to seen certain bad people your way, when they see you make more money than them! Most of the girls in thier have issues, but they make money. One of the manger is connected with the police department. He use to work for the police also! So hopefuly you can get this thing nip in the bud.
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    Wow, this is really ridiculous. She sounds like someone I know. Jeez. Isn't it great to be an adult and still have to deal with this idiocy, like grammar school or HS? It's sad that you would even have to bring your phone to your manager to prove anything. Is VIPs really worth it to stay and put up with this? What about any of the other topless clubs? I'd want to get the hell away from this nutcase.






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    yah ive talked all i can to them. I went once with the entire " she's hooking while im sitting next to her " bit and now with this.

    It sucked asshole to have to stop my fucking night ...go in there on my day off and call a meeting over such childish crap. But as I see it, what else can i do? i had to beat her to the punch.

    When he asked why she was doing this the only answer I can offer up is " because I refuse to talk to her".

    She's so fucking crazy that she's telling me she's called " girl x" and confronted her , because crazy ass believes Girl X must have told me something to cause this entire thing. Well the deal is no one told me shit. I just simply dont want to hang with her or be associated . Given what she is involved in.

    She goes from that scenerio, to then telling me she hopes that i am happy for ruining her friendship with girl x. whom just an hour prior in a txt msg she claimed she hates.! wtf.!!

    and there is another girl in this entire saga of shit. and her stance on this is wtf as well. Crazy is begging girl XX to call me and to talk me into speaking to her again., pleading withher. and then claiming Girl X was talking about her as well. which isn't fucking true

    she's trying to isolate people, all into feeding into her insanity.

    The only thing I can truly grasp in all of this is that she is a sociopath. She has no friends ,and im not even kididng on this. She has no real standing relationships with men her family etc.

    hell she told me she thought her ex was bi polar because he called one day and begged to come over and she refused , then the next day when they had offical plans he basically backed out and wouldn't let her meet him at his house, or let her in. So she then drove over to his house and banged on the doors and windows, she then went to a bar and he met her there outside ..he refused to go in. She said she didnt get it and he must be bipolar for all his actions.

    Now that ive gotten the entire story and know that this same guy called her mom and begged her mother to talk to crazy and ask her to NOT phone him...that he's also changed his numbers ...he's sent back letters she's mailed to him..changed his email..

    its like WTF. this woman is out of her mother fucking mind.

    Shes 31 or 32, un married... no relationships with anyone that i can tell, no friendships.. will never be anything other then a dancer EVER ( nothing to ever fall back on when this job wont be an option ) she hasn't had any children, she has kept it where no one can love her and she wont have to love anyone else.

    In her way of thinking she sees it as everyone is jealous of her and her looks, which is why they all hate her. Let me tellyou. there is nothing remarkable about her. I've seen and I work with some of the most amazing women to look at in all of chicago land ,she isn't one of them.

    her actions actually freak me out more then scare me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hello_Kitty27
    Wow, this is really ridiculous. She sounds like someone I know. Jeez. Isn't it great to be an adult and still have to deal with this idiocy, like grammar school or HS? It's sad that you would even have to bring your phone to your manager to prove anything. Is VIPs really worth it to stay and put up with this? What about any of the other topless clubs? I'd want to get the hell away from this nutcase.

    well hell we live in the same city it might be her! if her real name is Christine...

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    Nah, the twit I know isn't a dancer. But they sound ALOT alike now that you've described more. Scary stuff, huh? To think there's more than one person like this. After being actual good friends for years, I finally had to call it quits b/c I can't take the constant calling and lying and what not. She also has no real relationships with people and makes up the most random stories that make no sense. If I ask her a question about them, she flips out and starts yelling at me. It's kinda humorous actually.

    OK anyways ....enough about my crazy psycho person. Good luck with the situation. I'd stay the hell away from her. It's hard though, b/c she'll probably never stop acting like this. Hopefully she'll do something to get fired for really soon.






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    if it helps any this girl supposedly tells other people she's not a dancer but a bill and data entry for her mothers medical offices.

    So who really knows whats going on with this fuckin' chick.

    You know i dont give a rats ass if she gets fired., i just want her to mentally sober up. She is not healthy at all in the head, and if she could just go the rest of her life without calling me i'd be soooo happy.

    at work I seriously worry nothing about her. this could all work to my benefit. I won't sit around and socialize...I'll try and stay in the champagne room in order not to look at her. it can work to my benefit.

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