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    Married 4 children too old to strip or not

    I have this sudden interest to become an exotic dancer but there are a few things that I need advice on. What age is considered too old? I am 38 and I am in pretty good shape. I excercise a hour or two daily because I love to. I have four kids and a few stretch marks that dont look so bad. would stretch marks put me out of this business? how can I mask them without surgery? I would only like to strip/exotic dance for maybe 3 months to a year to see how it goes. I do not want to make a long term career out of this considering my age. I currently work in a professional field of counseling/teaching and have 3 professional degrees from college/university. I am also happily married but feel this strong urge to be exotic, sensual and captivating to men. My husband thinks this feeling will pass. I want to dance and give men the illusion of fantasy although I would need some dance lessons/classes. Stripping is on my mind when I awake and before going to bed. I even attended a few strip clubs and yesterday I filled out an application at a club to become a dancer. I fell very passionate about this. Does this sound like midlife crisis or a bored wife and restless mother of four? Most people would think this is crazy for me to consider this being that I am married , have four children and 3 professional degrees. Any advice?
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    Just try.... thats all I have to say.

    Theres a girl at my club who has a kid my age (I'm 19) so shes around your age.

    And I have stretch marks and so do almost all the girls with kids.... under the light on stage you look differnt. Some girls look like night and day from stage to dressing room.

    You dont want to turn 60 and regret not doing it. Theres no hurt in trying it.

    Try it... if they hire you then your halfway there... Dont buy to much stuff. Try it and then just stop if you decide its not for you.

    I'm new so I'm sure other girls will have better advise but my opinion as a dancer and just a regular person is... JUST TRY IT!

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    So I'm not the only one!!! I thought I was crazy or sillly but now I know I'm not alone! I'm 36 with 3 kids and can't stop thinking about dancing either. I'm going to do it now. Thanks

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    Thanks! Your experience really helps me

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    It's nice to know that we are not alone. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Married 4 children too old to strip or not

    My advice:

    Make sure you are working in an area where people you know from your job will not ever EVER run into you....you said you are in/around a teaching profession.....I have run into teachers as well as students and their parents (some seniors are 18+). Yikes! Not good!

    As far as the age,

    Some of the best conversationalists at our club are the "older" ladies *isnt it sad that we consider 38 "old?!!"*

    I find that many of the businessmen enjoy the classyness and sophistication these particular ladies have to offer. If you need help/suggestions feel free to pm me :p

    Best of luck!

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    Hi
    This is my suggestion.....especially considering your career, maybe you can go on a mini-vacation/road trip and do an amateur night where no-one knows you. Ser. Then, you can decide whether or not to get a job.
    How does your hubby REALLY feel about it?
    Also, have you considered taking belly dancing lessons? That is pretty sensual as well and you can do it in front of others.
    Keep us posted, and btw you are NOT too old to strip!!!
    Cherlo

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    Default Re: Married 4 children too old to strip or not

    You are only as old as you feel! (See my photos in the gallery, I don't feel 42)
    I started dancing at 40. I'm now 42 and I still love it. I do quite well too.
    My favortie thing is when people try to guess my age. LOL!
    I have a 7 year old daughter, but she was very good to me.(no stretch marks)
    If this is something you want to try, GO FOR IT!!! You would only regret never trying.

    Good Luck.

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    Deaven, You look so "dammmnn" hot in your photo. I am so glad that you responded to my thread. You really inspire me to be comfortable with my age. Thanks!!!!!

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    Default Re: Married 4 children too old to strip or not

    Look in Picture Post section of this board and find the "over 30" strippers photo thread. There are plenty of "older" strippers... and if you are only wanting to do this for curiosity's sake.. I agree that you should do a road trip/holiday somewhere and just work there for a week or two to see how you feel.

    If you have children old enough to visit clubs then they have friends old enough to visit the clubs......and do you really want one of your children's friends to see you stripping? I still second the road trip idea. It would allow you to fulfill your curiousity without the worry of harming you at home (as such).


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    Why don't you try a few amateur nights first and see if you even like it? If you do then I say go for it!
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    You are never too old to be confident or sexy. And thats what sells. =) Good luck.

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    Thanks! Your are right. Being sexy comes from within first and then it shows outwardly. That has nothing to do with age.

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    male customers like variety and thats why clubs will have so many different looking dancers. i don't think the fact that you have 3 academic degrees makes it a stupid idea at all. i am 26 and i have a degree in psychology and i am currently in my final year of law school. dancers are smart women because they realise that they can capitalize on their assets. some people assume that we must not be smart enough to do anything else. give it a go it, don't sit around thinking about it just do it. i agree with the other post, if you don't at least try it you will probably regret it when you're older.
    as for dancing lessons, that will be provided at the club. i don't know any club that only employes experienced dancers.

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    Yeah - I was worried about my stretch marks when I started, I have some on my arms and hips from gaining and losing weight a bunch of times - but I havent had any kids. a LOT of the women that worked at my club did have children and had varying degrees of stretch marks all over their bellies. you really can't see them on stage in the dim lighting, or you wear costumes/lingerie that de-emphasizes your belly. there was one girl who wore a super short mini skirt and even when she was completely nude she would just hike up the skirt so it covered her stomach. i never even noticed she was doing it until i saw her changing in the dressing room and saw her stomach.

    also...yeah, a LOT of these women (on stripperweb) are intelligent and have degrees. I'm graduating from the University of Chicago this year. However, at my club, that was NOT the demographic. Most of the girls were fresh out of high school and a nice portion of them were pretty uneducated and/or just plain dumb. There were a handful that were in college or older and had degrees, or were just smart in general, whether or not they were formally educated, but that was maybe 15% of all the women at the club.

    I say go for it! It's a great experience to have, even if you only do it a few times.

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    Thanks Jade for the input. It's nice to know that all women at clubs are not perfect like the barbie doll types you see on tv shows such as bay watch. Lots of women really do have curves and flaws.

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    I say go for it! Age is just a number-I mean hell, look at Deaven! I'm praying to God that I look as hot as she does when I'm 42! And education? Meh! The are a LOT of us on here that are college educated (myself included) and no, we are not crazy! Well, maybe sometimes...... If it is really something you're wanting to do, go for it-but I would have to agree with everyone else as far as trying it out at place that is a good distance from where you are now. That way you can satiate your curiosity, see if you like it and you don't have to worry about running into anyone from your professional life. Let us know what you decide!

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    Default Re: Married 4 children too old to strip or not

    ABSOLUTELY NOT
    about half the girls at my club have kids.
    there is an dancer who is 41 at my club - i only know that coz i heard her tell someone, i would have thought she was younger and she was making more money than most of the girls that night.
    just go for it.
    before i started dancing i used to think - i wont start til i get my tummy a bit more flat and things lilke that but once u start u will realise that stuff like that doesn't matter much at all.
    girls of different shapes, sizes, looks and ages work at strip clubs and there is a market for each of them as guys dont all like one sort of woman. in fact in one night the same guy might buy a dance from a few diff looking dancers for variety.

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