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    Angry bad dancer

    threre is a girl i work with that i cant stand. at my club were strickly stage and thats where i make all my money. when i first started 2 months (my 3rd night )ago i was paired up with another girl. the set up for a shared stage is each on one side of the stage. song ends, pick up your money and switch sides. easy enough. now there was only 2 guys at the stage and they were tipping good.she danced for them first the song ended she never piced up her money nor did she switch. arggg. next song ended she picked up and switched. yeah. time to switch. she does it again. sets done now. now a week later i was piared up with her agian. the same sh**. now i may be the new girl but noone is going to rip me off. so it came time to switch she didnt pickup her money to save her spot when she went over to the pole thinking i wouldnt switch. not only did i switch i collected my tips and hers ! oh well she should have picked it up. she was pissed but couldnt do any thing about it. needless to say she never did that to me again. well 2 weeks later we ha a party of milatary boys come in. the stage was mine and they were all about me!! this same girl decides shes going to hustle them while they are watching me. she distracted them and cost me money. she goes up and makes her money. not as much as me though. they liked ME!! well i go back up and when one cat was tipping me she went to distract him. so i movved to the next guy. she moved on to him too. this continude throughout my whole set . the guys left the stage when she went up cause they didnt like her. thats what they told me. same thing happened again last night. a big spender was all about me and she actualy took him from the stage during my set. this guy was tippin $20+ per song and this was my last set. when i was done he gave me $40. now this girl had been hustling him my whole set and didnt make anything off of him. he wanted me no matter how hard she tried to direct his money twards her it didnt work. i did speak with management and they said they will take care of it. we will see. if it continues is there a nice diplomatic approch i can use(we just lost 2 girls and we have 5 left ) or should i let my balls drop and put her in check?

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    Default Re: bad dancer

    although it is annoying what she is doing you probably still shouldn't have taken her money off the stage that 1 night. it def made her more pissed and set out to annoy you. unfortunately, girls will try to hustle your custies while you're on stage, that happens anywhere. if they like you better than it doesn't matter.
    i don't know, i guess although you don't have to havefriends there i don't try to make enemies @ work either.
    maybe just talk to her and explain what you think and see if shes doing it on purpose or is just catty and annoying to everyone.

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    I try not to get involved when someone is pulling that passive agressive crap. Maybe tell your manager you won't work on her shifts. But with only 5 dancers there per shift that may be difficult, but you might ask anyway.

    If you must work with her maybe try keeping a squirt bottle filled with water near your stage, and when she starts coming around the guys you are dancing for, squirt her with water, then squirt yourself to make it look like it is all part of the act.

    I've done it to out of line customers, and it works like a charm. Also works on cats and dogs who are misbehaving.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Ocasionally I've had a simular thing happen. I makea point of explaining th rules to the dancer afterwards, although the girls usually know already. Some just think they can get away withit. Its very easy though whilst on stage to dance over to the other side and quietly say "Oi you're meant to swap sides." or "Hey,fuck off!" or to point etc (-:

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    the water is a good idea!!!!!!!!!
    Personaly i would just tell her. I would be like.. " Look missy. Switch bitch" lol



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    Default Re: bad dancer

    Don't put her in check...it will just create more drama. Not a good way to diffuse the situation. And do you really need more drama at the club? Probably not.

    Here's a thought:
    You could try to turn it around and make more money by playing off of each other. One girl (who I WISH still worked in my club) was so adept at playing off of the other girls, not necessarily just her friends, but everyone. I'm still trying to figure out how to do this without making the other girls feel threatened that I am going to "steal their money". More experienced girls get it and can work with it, but most newer or younger girls are too insecure.

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    Default Re: bad dancer

    If you're making the club $ more than or equal to her then tell them you're going to another club and they can have her. They will do something about it if they think they are going to lose the girl the guys like.

    If not say something to her. If that doesn't work play dirty. Hopefully you won't have to. Or get the custies to tell mgmnt that they were enjoying your time and she rudely cut in and why is she working there.

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