So i brought up my idea of dancing next summer to earn some money so i could afford to live with my boyfriend, clear some debt and give me some spare cash to get through the next year of uni.
his response: "it's degrading"
I pressed him for more information and he just kept repeating that. Well you see i don't see it as degrading in the least. If it's degarding to anyone it's for the custies that would pay to see me.
He said that he would stay with me if i became a dancer but pulled out the most childish line imagineable "i'll tell your parents". As much as i accept the job, my parents just wouldnt and i don't want to hurt their feelings.
Well this is one great spanner in the works for me.
He said why don't i just get a "normal" job and i said it WAS a normal job. so called "Normal" jobs just don't seem to agree with me. I couldn't handle working in a call centre, nor a shop and have contented myself by selling lingerie/clubwear/shoes on ebay to tide me over.
But in order for me to get a real nest egg together to get me through the next year (i will be going into third year which means i couldn't work after uni) working in a shop for £5 an hour isn't going to help much unless i work 24/7.
I would like to hear some points of view. I love my boyfriend and respect his feelings but when he said i would be doing something he disagreed with i thought " well i'm a vegetarian but i accept that you eat meat!".![]()
Perhaps you think i'm disillusioned about what the world of exotic dancing is really like,in which case please educate me![]()
me x



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