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    I suppose this question is related to S&M but I'd like it to be interpreted broadly as well.

    Would you ever "cane" (could be a paddle, flogger, belt, large spoon, etc. as well) a man on testicles? What if he wanted you to?

    For those who have already done something like that, what was the experience like - for you and for him?

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    Never met anyone who wanted that, but sure, I'd do it in a second. I guess I'm one of those that likes to inflict pain for pleasure though.
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    Yes I would. As long as it fit into the confines of what we both considered safe sane and consensual.

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    I would do it for sure! How do I know I don't like something if I don't try it?

    I'd think it was an odd request... but after ten minutes I'd probably really get into it.


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    Caning as part of CBT? Only if it were a very thin cane and he put it in writing that he wanted it done. Most canes are too big for use on the balls. It can cause a lot of damage.
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    I'm awful... I have done this as part of my shows for ages (a lighter/not so hurtful version)... another version is for me to slam sit (as I call it) onto the guy's crotch area after I have put shaving cream down his pants.

    I'm evil Granted, I would totally be into it if the other person was consentual.


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    Quote Originally Posted by shaguar
    Would you ever "cane" a man on testicles? What if he wanted you to?
    There is a bigger problem. Substance abuse runs rampant in this country today, however the "War on Drugs" does very little to fight against this malicious, violence inducing drug "Testicles".

    Symptoms of a person doing "Testicles" is rather different dependant upon the gender. For males, you'll see an intense adulation while enjoying the drug induced high, almost unsure of their actions but moving very slowly and receptive to almost all forms of persuasion provided by the dealer, however the high is followed by a sever crash in which the user will most often claim to one or all of the symptoms including but not limited to: Claiming lack of memory, a desire to just be friends, vomiting, crying, requests for discretion, and in worst cases, outward denile of even WANTING to use the drug. This generally leads to temporary insanity, and even violant outburst towards the dealer.

    For females, they inevitably take the dealers money. One way or another.

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    ^^^^^^^^ Someone up there mentioned the Safe, Sane, and Consensual standards.

    I've taken up bondage modeling, and also doing a bit of dom work for photos and extra income, and I've turned more from SSC to RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink. If he puts in writing before the session that he knows he could get hurt very badly, and I'm not liable, I'll do whatever the hell he wants - and enjoy the hell out of it.

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    I have a question for the board too...would any of you ladies knife a man in the kidney? What if he wanted to have it done? Just a small knife, like 3 inches or so.

    If you've done this, can you tell me how it went for him?

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    OUCH this thread is horrible lol

    Mistress Cheyenne (www.mistresscheyenne.com or something like that) was at a show where a guy was suspended by his balls and was a little too heavy for that physics lesson. Both of his berries stayed nicely in their sac tied to the rope when the new eunuch hit the floor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin
    ^^^^^^^^ Someone up there mentioned the Safe, Sane, and Consensual standards.

    I've taken up bondage modeling, and also doing a bit of dom work for photos and extra income, and I've turned more from SSC to RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink. If he puts in writing before the session that he knows he could get hurt very badly, and I'm not liable, I'll do whatever the hell he wants - and enjoy the hell out of it.
    I've never heard of RACK until this. To me, the Safe part is very important. I don't know how I'd feel signing a waiver. Then again, I've never sought out the services of a pro domme either. It's usually me and someone else who I'm really close with and we're exploring. Not that into extreme pain/ blood, so I may never have a use for RACK, although I think it might be helpful in the instance of ball caning and the like.

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    I know, I'm exaggerating...but I want kids

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    I have a question for the board too...would any of you ladies knife a man in the kidney? What if he wanted to have it done? Just a small knife, like 3 inches or so.

    If you've done this, can you tell me how it went for him?
    As long as it was safe and consensuall!

    (My real answer, though, is no.)

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    I had a customer request I knee kick him during a lap dance. I did it and he enjoyed it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deni
    As long as it was safe and consensuall!

    (My real answer, though, is no.)
    This is what I'm confused about. I thought that Safe Sane Consensual was meant to encompass scenarious like this. (And I realize it was a joke about knifing in the kidney) BUT I don't think knifing in the kidney is safe - even if it's a little bitty knife, is it sane? No I don't think so.

    But under RACK this is plausible, as long as the person signed a waiver?

    Not to hijack the thread, but how far is too far in your opinions?

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    Er...I would say poking someone with a knife is too far, but others might say differently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shaguar
    I suppose this question is related to S&M but I'd like it to be interpreted broadly as well.

    Would you ever "cane" (could be a paddle, flogger, belt, large spoon, etc. as well) a man on testicles? What if he wanted you to?

    For those who have already done something like that, what was the experience like - for you and for him?
    I've never had that done to me... nor would I ever want it done to me. My wife, who retired from dancing last year, used to tell me stories about a client of hers that would purchase a VIP with her, He would then lie down on the floor, and my wife would proceed to jump, as hard as che can, over and over upon his groin. Apprently the guy got off on this... although I don't see how or why. The 'silver lining' to this dark cloud was that she got an extra $200 if she was wearing her stiletto heels.
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    I have done a lot of CBT, trampling, and ballbusting in the 10 years I've been a Dominatrix... unless the cane was no thicker than a pencil, and I only did it for a short period of time, I would NOT cane the testicles.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    I have a question for the board too...would any of you ladies knife a man in the kidney? What if he wanted to have it done? Just a small knife, like 3 inches or so.

    If you've done this, can you tell me how it went for him?
    I've had clients request me to cut of digits, and break hands... I refuse. I would not stab either.


    Quote Originally Posted by avacheetahs
    This is what I'm confused about. I thought that Safe Sane Consensual was meant to encompass scenarious like this. (And I realize it was a joke about knifing in the kidney) BUT I don't think knifing in the kidney is safe - even if it's a little bitty knife, is it sane? No I don't think so.

    But under RACK this is plausible, as long as the person signed a waiver?

    Not to hijack the thread, but how far is too far in your opinions?


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    Thanks, Paige. I get it now.

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    Since I have a set of nads I just thought I would add my input , for me fondling , licking and sucking can be part of my sex act curriculum . But I would never invite someone to hit, kick or tug on my NUTS ! Im uncomfortable just thinking about it . But I do realize some people enjoy this .Sorry not totally on topic .

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    The problems I have with SSC is that it is too vague, and there are wildly different views on its boundaries.

    To some, breathplay is neither safe nore sane.
    To some, any heavy bondage (house of gord type stuff) is not safe or sane.
    To some, and real SM (like insex) is neither safe nor sane.

    I'm not saying it is or isn't; but by acknowledging all the known risks of the play, and also by affirming that there are some other situations that may come up, I feel my bases are more covered.

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    Sorry, but if thats non-consentual, that does not sound good!


    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl
    I'm awful... I have done this as part of my shows for ages (a lighter/not so hurtful version)... another version is for me to slam sit (as I call it) onto the guy's crotch area after I have put shaving cream down his pants.

    I'm evil Granted, I would totally be into it if the other person was consentual.
    Id possibly cane someones balls depending on circumstancies. I would want to be sure about what i was doing first!

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    Be mindful that just because you signed a contract with someone doesn't mean the contract will hold up in court as "legally binding". For instance if the act around which the contract is based is considered illegal then any contract about doing it is null and void to begin with. There are alot of variables to take into consideration.

    More power to the guys who like to have people hit them in the bits and pieces with blunt objects. I ruptured my right one 3 years ago and I'm still a little shook up over it (didn't lose tho it thank goodness!) Out of all my injuries (a bunch) that was the second most painful behind a blown out knee- ACL, PCL, & MCL all at once.

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    I've never used an object.. but my ex was really into his balls being hit or kicked or squeezed really hard. I did it because he wanted it but I never got into it. I am not a fan of S&M in the bedroom if I'm the master. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, hehe.
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    Depends on the size of the cane. A little one? Sure, but I have to admit I would be squeamish about hitting him too hard.

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