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    For you girls that have worked in strip clubs, and have done private parties, which do you prefer more and why? Also, which made you most money?

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    in my experience, you make more money over all working in a club, but you make lots of money for way less work at private parties.

    eg, i might earn $2000/week working 5 nights in a club. on the other hand, i can earn $900/week working for 4 hours on a saturday night.

    private parties tend to be less consistant, yet the money comes lots quicker and easier and you don't have to hustle/compete with other girls.

    both have their pros and cons. that's why i do mon-thurs nights in a club, and private parties on saturday nights.

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    As someone who does private parties full time when I am home and overall I can tell you the money is definately not consistent and depends upon alot of factors. Yet once you have established yourself as a good quality showgirl with a few agencies then you will have more work also depending upon what shows you do (if you're prepared to do xxx shows and have more than one duo partner you can keep yourself busy enough).

    Private parties don't require as much hustling skills because most of the hustle should have been done for you by the agent (promoting you, etc) and sometimes you just go in, do the show, leave for the next show. It can be rather stressful as there is alot of travel involved and you are putting yourself in strange environments.

    Yet the payoff can be better overall than a strip club. Private parties are also more flexible.

    I also like private parties as I find I can more raunchy in my shows compared to the strip clubs. I definately have to tone myself down for the strip clubs plus private parties can be alot of fun compared to strip clubs.

    Where strip clubs excel is that you will be in one place the whole night so the customers come to you not the other way around (as you go to the party/event in re: private party work). Thus you can make as little or as much as you want since the patrons come to you.

    There is definately pro and cons to both. If the strip clubs weren't touching and more accomodating here locally I would also do two nights a week in a strip club.

    Being FT with the private party work really depends on whether there is enough work for you in the area you work within.....


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    Luckily, Brisbane seems to be great for private party work. I am making more doing this, honestly. I can minimum make five hundred for one hour of show work that I didn't even have to talk to someone...Or I can MAX at one-twenty where I did all the prep work! Of course, an hour straight anywhere is unlikely, but it's an example. But, I'm happier. The assholes can't touch me.


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    ^ $500 for an hour of show work?! really??!

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    It's an average of two-fifty per half hour of toy shows. Of course, you're not always going to do toy shows or even get an hour a week, but it's more worth it to me.


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    I can see her reasoning as you generally get the same if you do a toy show solo or duo so you can do one toy show at one place and then do another toy show at another place however still alot of places here in SE QLD only pay $200 for such a show (unfortunately after the agency comm. is paid).

    Plus all the private party work is generally concentrated on Fri and Sat so I have the rest of the week free to persue other work if I so desire..........

    I would take on my solo/independant work however I've just started and I realise it takes a year or so doing shows (and mainly doing shows) in order to be able to do so.


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    my agency pay $220 for a 30 min toy show. a 30 min duo toy show pays $250 per girl for 35-40 mins. i don't do them, but it seems that's what they pay. i'm surprised really... considering i get $100 for a straight, very tame, no open-leg 15 min show. the rates of pay aren't really that much higher per hour. i'd have thought i'd be a lot more.

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    Unfortunately there is no real lucrative work for those of us that are not XXX showgirls here in SE Qld. It is because of how competitive it is that the prices aren't higher, unfortunately. It is all because of the area.


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    the prices are basically the same here though. i'd always kinda thought that XXX shows payed like $300 or something.

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    This thread made me wanna start doing private shows. I love trying new things and it sounds like fun. Tell me about your first show, was it awkward, did you not know what to do. I think that I would like to attend one so that I know what to do before I actually do one. And also how in the world do you find an agency. What would you search for or look up, or does anyone have helpful website, anything like that?? Oh and what exactly does a toy show entail?
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    my first show (over 3 years ago hehe) was a disaster. i'd been stripping in clubs for about 6 months, and during winter the work really slowed down so i got into agency work via a friend. i started doing a bit of topless waitressing during the day for an agency (the same one i'm with now) and after about 2 weeks of that, they gave me a gig where i was to perform a "jug strip", which is where you collect money in a jug for a strip show and whatever you make, you keep (this can be really crappy, or really lucrative depending on the crowd. i hold the record at my agency for the most ever earned in a jug, i once got $365 for a 15 min nude dance). so i collected some money, and did my first ever private show. i was so nervous that i completely stripped off in the first 3 mins and i had absolutely no idea what to do as i'd only ever done lapdancing and tabledancing in the club!

    so yeah, the first one sucked. but then i started pushing for shows at every topless waitress gig i had, and within a few months the agency had taken me on as a showgirl, which meant i've never had to do topless waitressing again, hurrah!

    as for finding an agency, just look in your local phone book under "adult" (this may be different where you are, i can only really give advice that applies to australia) and you should see advertisements for strip-a-gram agencies. or just ask around.

    a toy show entails using dildos/vibrators/other phallic objects on yourself as part of the act. also known as a XXX show or an explicit show.

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    clubs in my area suck but private parties are great. a bad show is 200 or under, an ok show is 200-300, an average show is 300-400, a good show is 400-500, and a GREAT show is 500+. i work about 6 shows a week so say they are all average shows and i made $300 at each one, that is $1800 a week. and i'm a 20 year old college student working on my degree. i'm seriously hoping i'll never have to use it until i'm 40 and my agency refuses to send me out cuz i'm too old

    seriously. i love my job. i get paid to go to the craziest parties, have fun, meet lots of people, dance naked, and have sex with one of my college friends w/ a double ended dildo (one of my friends and i decided we should do it together that way we know each other and its less awkward etc). sometimes guys are assholes but if they are it's usually cuz they want you to dance on them but they are out of mooney. so don't worry about them or take them personally. even if you have a bad show, say you only make $100, $100 an hour is still veeeeeery good money in the big picture. it beats folding clothes and getting yelled at at the mall for $9 an hour.

    i would highly recommend private parties if the clubs in your area suck. i average about $1400/week in the summer and i'm expecting to only make $700/week in the winter... but that's still only working 6 hours a week. i feel like it can't be beat.

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    ^^Good for you girl! Love hearing from girls who love their job. I love mine as well, majority of the time. I do the in-club thing, nothing outside of there. For me, its all about my preference. Im too concerned with safety and I LOVE the energy of the club, that's kinda what I thrive off of. Love the energy when everyones having a great time...being on stage in front of so many people, making them have fun. Its great.
    But I think private parties would definitely be great in the right situation/with the right people. I do love that they really ant touch, since clubs are becoming more and more contact. I did one years ago but it was small, I do remember it being fun though. It would be fun to switch things up a bit. It would have to be WAY worth it though. I would want what I've made at my best night at work, b/c I could be missing out on that money.. And screening/bouncer for sure. I think the possibility of more money is defnitely higher at the clubs, as the others have said. You just have more opportunity for that huge f-ing billionare walking through the door and start handing out 1000's lol
    I would happily do some strictly dancing shows, just as I do at work. As for the *action* shows obviously would have to basically be dating the girl. THAT would be fun. In which case I would definitey take advantage, camming and everything... ooohh the possibilities and excuses for good sex I could think of. MMmmmm...
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    I always loved private parties better. The money is a sure thing and I know when I walk out I'll at least have a few hundred without tips. I often made the same amount at one show that I made one night at a club, in one hour. Plus I don't have to hustle. This is why I still sometimes do parties but will never dance in a club again. Not to mention my parties are strictly no touching and if guys are mad, oh well (I tell them this beforehand).

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    Its a great way to supplements your club income, you get to go to parties and meet cute guys and cool people, show off and get paid for it.

    I got paid $400 to spend a couple hours sitting nude in a hot tub drinking whiskey and then playing poker. Cant go wrong with that!
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    Private parties is the reason why I can make about 1300 dollars a week. If I just stick with the club (where I only work like 18 hours a week), I will only make like 800 bucks a week.





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    I would be doing private parties in ZERO seconds flat if I weren't married. The money used to be so so so good and I do miss the one on one.


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    I made more doing private parties plus is less work. At clubs I hated walking around asking guys if they wanted a dance, I've never had to do that at private parties. I like the fact that you get paid upfront at private parties.

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    it's been a while - but i've done both and i think overall i made a lot more doing private parties. i was at an agency and when i would go in to work for a night i'd get sent out to at least 1 party (i've done upwards to 4 parties in one night) and my earnings would really vary but long term they averaged out to more than what i've made in clubs. it's less hustling but more engaging since you can't hang around in the background when you don't feel liek talking to customers and it's hard work but it paid off. i had more fun too, basically i was getting paid to go to parties all night!!

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    no one mentioned anything about the security issue? im thinking about doing private parties but im wondering how were supposed to stay safe?

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    ONE HOUR COST! ! ! $200 for one girl, $300 for two girls, $400 for three girls, ($100 per girl, up to five girls then it is $50 more for the extra bouncer) the bouncer gets $50 from that set fee up to 5 girls. It is $50 more dollars if it is more then 30 miles from the office, and $100 if over 3 hours from office. $50 more if a mobile stage pole is wanted. it is $50 for and extra 1/2 hour for one girl,$75 for two girls, $100 for three, so on.....up to five girls per 1/2 hour, paid before dances will start.

    games and cost
    There are no photos, we will bring a Camera and will email photos to you. for $10 you can get a photo with the girls topless and for $20 a photo with them nude.
    $1.25 for stripper darts.
    $1 to $5 tipping. dollars fall so does top alot faster, $5 you can see the kitty., pulling your panties to the side or down for a glance.
    $1 to $5 shot funnel. pull your panties down a little and place a funnel on the top and roll up the money and make a shot. make $5 flash the kitty.
    $5 jello shot. you can take a jello shot off tummy (must ask for us to bring to the party)
    $10 body shot. lay on their back and you pour the shot off your nipple in to there mouth.
    $20 drink slide or beer bush. kneel and pour the drink between the breast so it runs over the kitty in to the mouth.
    $30 mouth to mouth shot. pour the shout in her mouth and we touch lips. (NOT OPEN MOUTH) and push the shot in to there mouth. like kissing (the shot is red bull, gingerale, and crown royal)
    $10 Monica Lewinsky Cigar. take a cigar and place it in your kitty. go in and out 3 to 5 times
    $10 Panties kiss. white panties we put on, rub the kitty a little . take them off and kiss them with red lip stick and sign our stage name.
    $10 to $20 whippcream runs. (off the lower back, tummy, arms and nipples$10- inner thighs, top of butt crack. top of panties line $20)
    $10 tickets for raffle off my outfit. or just by it for $50 (outfit dancers pick)
    $20 lollipop pick up or $20 pick up. you place a lollipop or $20 in there mouth and pick it up with your kitty. (no holding the lollipop or bill with teeth)
    $20 banana split. ( let them pull out the banana with there teeth.)
    $20 lotion rub. put lotion on her chest with the backs of your hands
    $20 one song lab dance. or $10 per girl stage and chair dance.
    $40 for full nude lap dance (3min max)
    $50 for two girls full nude on stage show
    $100 for girl on girl top less on stage
    $150 for girl on girl full nude privet
    $200 to see a squirt show when she cum. or double dildo action.

    All above cost are after payment for dancers to show. Not all dancers do all the tricks


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