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    So I had one of those really squirmish situatons....

    The other day at work, the cigarette guy came in early and sat next to me and chatted. He is a goofball, and everyone jokes around with him in a fun, friendly way. So anyways, he gets up and asks the manager if he can get a dance from one of the dancers...she was like, um, yes? I don't think he knew I could hear.

    So he comes up to me and asks the question we all love: "What do I get in VIP baby?" in his middle-eastern accent.

    I'm like "why do you want to know?" Of course I knew the answer to this already and have no idea why I asked; then he replied "b/c I wanted to get a dance for you, so what do you say?"

    I told him no and that he creeped me out! I mean, come on! He's been working there for three years and doesn't know that he's going to get the same thing just as every other custy? A basic lap dance! And dancing for a co-worker in general just really gives me the "heebie jeebies" if you know what I mean....

    God this guy creeped me out. And the day just got better from there.....

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    Default Re: Co-Woker and Dance !

    A LOT of clubs have rules against dancing for co-workers for this very reason. Whether these rules are enforced, well, that's another matter, but I still think it's a good idea. But even if your club doesn't have an official rule, you can have your own policy, and simply explain it to him (or any others in the future) that way. Make it a 'nothing-personal-but' explanation and leave it at that.

    So did you end up dancing for him? Sounds like you felt pressured to do so.
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    Haeeeyyeeellll no! Lol. And after I told hom my decision, he looked at me, scoffed, and walked away. Basically saying "you're a bitch" without talking....

    F-ck em! That's what I say.....

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    Aww- that sucks that you had to look like the one that made it awkward. You didnt ask for him to want a dance and you were just being honest. I wouldn't have done it either.

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    My first night at lace the DJ totally perved all over me. He thought he was being so damn slick. He wanted me to give him a lapdance in lieu of his mandatory $15 tip, and acted like such a little punk when I refused. Pffffft, please. Thank god he only works sundays and I've never run into him again.

    Yuck.




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