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    i work in a club where the women's bathroom is connected to the dressing room. you have to walk through the bathroom to get to the dressing room. i know this is fairly common in clubs, as i've worked in 3 that have been set up this way. anyway, WTF is it with female customers thinking it's ok to walk right into the dressing room? on one hand, i understand. they're usually drunk and it it's -right there- by the bathroom. on the other hand, it does say ENTERTAINERS ONLY. usually when they come in, it's not by accident. they typically stand there trying to chat us up while we're changing or freshening up. most of them have been nice and positive (esp the older women for some reason) but occasionaly some bitchy woman/girl will wind up back there pressing questions about our job. if they're sitting with a large group of people who're spending money, i don't want to piss them off because they might get the table to leave. but, they invading our "zone" back there. the dressing room is where we can relax/change/refocus/etc it's a little difficult to that with drunk-o-woman standing there. how do you guys usually handle this situation?

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    Ask them if they're going to be performing that night, then escort them out when they say no. Tell them they're welcome back when they're dancers. Get progressively more insistent if they resist.

    On a side note, what tools. Seriously. Do they walk in the employees only lounge at Walmart?

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    is there a housemom? She should tell them to GET OUT

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    is there a housemom? She should tell them to GET OUT


    Twas what I was gonna say. If there is she needs to say something that way it doesn't hurt ya'lls ability to get money from their table. If there's not....just politely point her in the other direction.

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    hah, our dressing room IS the ladies room. Hows that for classy?
    I hate the customers who think they can just hang out there all night and smoke the place out.




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    Our club has security that sits right by the dressing room door. They'll stop any custy's from going in. Even if someone did get by- the housemom would make them leave.

    How annoying that must be!

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    At my club the dressing room and bathroom is separate, but the female custys use the dancers bathroom in the back, only the men's restroom is on the floor.

    Girls will just lounge in there and probe whatever dancer walks in the door, hold up the stalls, talk on their cell phone, and smoke. There was even a couple who found their way back there and was having sex in one of the stalls. Women are like pack rats when they go to the bathroom. There are only two stalls and I don't want to have to answer 50 questions just to take a piss.

    I have gotten security on several occasions because some of these female custys won't leave, have been obnoxious, take over the bathroom and just stand there and gawk at you.

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    Oh my Lord! I've never seen that. I've seen men go "Oooops" and walk into the dressing room but not women!

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    It's bad enough that we have to share the main bathroom with customers (rather than having one of our own in the dressing area). I'd probably have to smack a bitch if I saw one in the locker room.

    Yeah, the female custies have been getting to me lately. I'm not usually one to threaten smacking a bitch. lol. Luckily, there are several gals who are that type who would probably do it before I ever had the chance. Slight animosity in the club with the Sat. night female patrons.
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    ^^Uh huh. They treat it like a fucking nightclub and then wonder why we don't like them Stoopid bitches.

    We have to deal with that shit on occasion. Most of the girls at my club have a rather effective "ignore and look REALLY annoyed" switch that gets the point across pretty quickly. If some bitch pulls a stunt like described above - just hanging out in the dressing room and bothering the dancers, I would get the manager and have HIM deal with it. Keep doing it and it'll get on HIS nerves enough so he'll do something to prevent it

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    thats just plan ridiculous that the patrons bathroom is connected or or hell in the dressing room itself. thank god we don't have that problem.

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    ive never worked at a club where the bathroom is that close to the dressing room. is the sign on the door to the dressing room? that would bother me pretty bad...i woud tell your manager or house mom to make it more clear that room is for entertainers only. maybe keep the door shut and the sign bigger or something...i cant imagine the girls feeling secure with even CUSTOMERS going in and out of there...thats bad. they should do something about that.

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    I wouldnt like it if custys came into the dressing room. That is like an invasion of space u know? that is the only place u can go and not worry about them being in there. Its PVT.
    I would just basicly ask them if they are looking for someone or doing amature night and then if not i would contct the manager. I wouldnt stand for that.



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    ive never worked in one either that was setup like that. the one Im at now our dressing room is up stairs , and youd have to go through the lobby and by front desk to get there. which works for us. Although im sure there has been randoms making their way upstairs on occasions.

    At a club in Indianapolis, female customers always came in the dressing room...why? fuck if iknow. It was annoying since most were in there hanging out in our one stahl bathroom all fucking night doing drugs etc etc.

    I do agree with female customers find our clubs to be more a " night club" thena strip club. I guess the music throws them off.

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    Holy Jebus ....I had no idea that female custies did that kinda stuff. Of all of the bazillion clubs I've been in, only 3 had the ladies bathroom attached to the dancers dressing room, and when I had to use it, I was in & out in a flash. It just felt really weird & uncomfortable being in there! Even tho I'm a girl, it DEFINITELY wasn't my space and I wanted out as quickly as possible.

    I'm glad most clubs (at least where I live) aren't laid out that way. Most clubs here have the dancers & female custies sharing a bathroom, but at least it's not attached to the dressing room.

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    When I was somewhat of a stripper newbie and had been at my club for about a week, we had a female customer wander through the kitchen and into the back dressing room. Myself and another newbie were back there, and this older, butch-looking woman meanders on in and sides up next to us and demurely says that she has been hired to give the dancers free "stress massages." I'm thinking, "Aww, how sweet our manager hired a massuesse for his employees." I've obviously had a few myself as it takes a few min before I realize that this woman is NOT legit and is tresspassing on our turf. I turn around to inform her and now ol' girl is holding up another dancer's costume, asking if she thought the dancer would mind if she tried it on. This woman was a good 175 and the dress she was holding up was a delicate spaghetti strap number owned by a petite waif-like 95lb dancer! Luckily, two bouncers were making they're way into the dressing room by that time.
    It's so crazy looking back on that because had a few of the veteran dancers been in there at that moment, it would have been over for that woman!

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    Just tell these customers that they are not allowed in the dressing room because of legal liability issues and that by standing there, they put the club in a liability risk and have to leave. That's usually a strong enough message to get them out of there quickly. Just say it nicely but firmly and and make sure you say it the moment they walk in and everything will be fine. Don't be rude, just be firm. This way, if she's in a party of good customers, nobody would be offended.

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    DW - yes they will get offended. For whatever reason, strip club customers will get offended at ANYthing, if we're telling they can't do something I realize they think all common courtesy goes out the window upon their entrance to the club, but ferfucksake


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    Holy Jebus ....I had no idea that female custies did that kinda stuff.
    This and worse. Now perhaps you understand the growing animosity around here toward female customers.

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    What if you kinda played a joke on them and said everytime a new girl comes into the dressing room, she has to be in the orgy- except since she's new, she's the designated bitch and all the girls can have their way with her.

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    Ugh. This crazy, clearly drugged-up bitch female custy came in tonight, and was hanging out in the dressing room, getting all up in girls' faces yammerin' on, 90 to nothing, like a total maniac. Just yapping about any and everything. She didn't talk to me - she took one look at me and the evil look I was giving her and went on to the next girl. I was trying to take my break and have some dinner, and listening to this bitch incessantly yammer at high speed was making my head hurt. Even though she was on the other side of the partition. All the other girls were rolling their eyes at each other but putting up with her shit. I finally stood up on the bench in order to look over the partition at her, and asked her rather annoyedly, "hey! do you work here?? "no" Are you auditioning??? "no" Then you need to go back out there with the rest of the customers! This area is NOT for customers, even if you have a pussy!! The one girl she'd been yammering at the most said "oh she's a friend of so-and-so stripper." Me: I don't CARE.

    Chic looked all confused and pretty much tucked tail and ran out. LOL

    Of course the other girls thanked me and commented they were ready to do the same thing. Fucken nightclub hos

    It was kinda funny - they all started saying basically the same stuff we've been saying in this thread. I couldn't WAIT to come relay the message here. heh

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    The club I used to work in was ridiculous in many ways. It was a tiny place with a shoebox of a dressing room, and the only ladies' stall was in there. Female customers had to be escorted to the dressing room to make sure they didn't knick our stuff, since management didn't like us hanging out there. There was a combination lock on the door but if it wasn't closed properly it didn't lock, so if a drunk woman wandered down there she could get in without people realising. It was mostly ok, though. We didn't like the bitchy ones seeing us in full light, but some were pretty fun, especially a lesbian birthday party that was in and out all night. Oh, and I was there when some TV presenter took drugs in our loo. How exciting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Ugh. This crazy, clearly drugged-up bitch female custy came in tonight, and was hanging out in the dressing room, getting all up in girls' faces yammerin' on, 90 to nothing, like a total maniac. Just yapping about any and everything. She didn't talk to me - she took one look at me and the evil look I was giving her and went on to the next girl. I was trying to take my break and have some dinner, and listening to this bitch incessantly yammer at high speed was making my head hurt. Even though she was on the other side of the partition. All the other girls were rolling their eyes at each other but putting up with her shit. I finally stood up on the bench in order to look over the partition at her, and asked her rather annoyedly, "hey! do you work here?? "no" Are you auditioning??? "no" Then you need to go back out there with the rest of the customers! This area is NOT for customers, even if you have a pussy!! The one girl she'd been yammering at the most said "oh she's a friend of so-and-so stripper." Me: I don't CARE.

    Chic looked all confused and pretty much tucked tail and ran out. LOL

    Of course the other girls thanked me and commented they were ready to do the same thing. Fucken nightclub hos

    It was kinda funny - they all started saying basically the same stuff we've been saying in this thread. I couldn't WAIT to come relay the message here. heh
    Way to go!!! I was so happy to read this. Especially since my club turned into a BYOB (Bring your own bitch) last night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    This and worse. Now perhaps you understand the growing animosity around here toward female customers.

    Of course I understand that some female custies are pains in the ass - I hate them as much or MORE than YOU do. They make things harder for female custies like me too, ya know.....if they weren't in the clubs, I wouldn't have to worry about dancers taking one look at me across a crowded room, assuming that I'm one of these bitches, and subsequently ignoring me. Who the hell wants that? It sucks from ALL sides.

    I completely understand not wanting these bitches in the club....what I had a problem with was some poster's solutions to keep them out.

    But that was another thread that I would not want to resurrect.

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