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    Exclamation Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    Alright, without giving too many details, I just have to get this off my chest to somebody...

    The club i work at has apartments upstairs that dancers can rent for the nights they work in case they live too far away to commute nightly or cabs at night would be too costly. Couple hours after work and the club had closed in early hours one of the girls who was staying upstairs left the building to go down the street to the 24 hour shop (about a 5 min walk away) and was attacked on the road back... By a customer.

    police have taken all our cctv images for identification. As it was a few hours after the club closed, this person was waiting around, maybe it was opportunity, maybe he targetted this girl deliberately, I don't know... What I do know is it was a severe attack the details of which are undisclosed....

    I was working that night, and walk down that road to get to the club. How long was it after I left for home? Was it a customer I spoke to? There was one man who was an octopus and quite intimidating. was it him? Did I see this monster with my own eyes that very night? Is this person going to strike again, has he targetted other girls? I don't know... She is a beautiful and intelligent creature, and I feel extra pain that she was the unfortunate victim of this monster, as I know she is new to this country and has no close friends or family here, I'm worried for her. By rights we weren't even given her name but it was figured out pretty quick...

    The club has issued us all with personal alarms and safety devices, and no girl is leaving the premises without a bouncer escorting her to her car, cab etc... we text the mananger when we get home to let her know that we're safely behind locked doors... It's good, but it makes me feel worse that it's even necessary.

    I can't tell my boyfriend about this because he would be too upset and worried for my safety. Fair enough I suppose

    I'm also angry because I know that the conviction rate for sexual crimes in this country is SO fucking low it's an absolute disgrace, and if justice isn't done then I can only hope a mob of us get together and tear this maggot limb from limb.

    I wish I knew how to offer some kind of support, but as we only know each other in passing at work I'm pretty useless to do so...


    I just had to get this out... Thanks Ladies xxx

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    Oh man, that is so terrifying to even think about. I hope the dancer is alright....

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    Yes, I'm sorry that this happened as well. In the future, maybe if all the girls who live in that building/apt upstairs could all meet up around closing and walk home together.

    I dont know about you..but once i'm in for the night..I'm in. I don't make trips back out into "society" after I've gotten into the house..but that's just me.







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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    I hope very much it was just an isolated event. It's good that ya'll have taken extra safety measures, but sorry ya'll had to go through all of this and that this happened to her. It won't be good for you to dwell on who it was. Just be cautious, don't walk alone at night after work, and keep talking about it.

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    This is so scary and terrible. It makes me want to form a stripper vigilante team, like the working girls in Sin City. Someone needs to get rid of fuckers like him.

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    Is the girl ok?

    God, that is like everyone's worst nightmare...well, one of them. It is unfortunate and scary how bad it can really get.

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    don't know if she's alright, she hasn't been back...

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    That is horrifying. I don't walk aroung my club at night but I have walked around my neighborhood in Jersey. I take off my makeup and jewelry and dress down. I do it because I like walking alone at night and enjoying the city. I'm so sorry to hear this predator fucked up her night and her life.

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    That's so scary. Why is the conviction rate for sex crimes so low in your country? That's so sad because i'm sure her being a dancer will affect his level of punishment.

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    I bet the conviction rate is about the same, maybe better than the US. It seems that Americans are just not aware of how fer rapists go to jail. Europe has roughly, estimated about 1/8 the rapes that occur in the US.

    Sick, weak, pathetic man.

    He is obviously a loser. Real men aren't so afraid of women they have to brutalize them. If you can, let her know how weak and sad and pathetic a man is that wants to steal strength that way.

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    that sounds like a club i useto work at back home. THe apts upstairs but they were Shit holes and i was always scared to be alone because of it. I really hope that she is okay



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    Wow. If she really has no family, I would try to get the club to help her out. I would feel really guilty and also lucky. It could have been anyone. It's really sad that we have to be so suspicious and not trust anyone nowadays.

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    have they caught him?

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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    Wow, that is terrible for this girl and scary for you others as well. All I can say is that I wish her a good recovery. And hopefully the rest of you can all stay safe.

    People are just so sick, and you never know who you can trust or who people really are. I'm so sorry.






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    Default Re: Serious Shit Ladies: I need to get it off my chest

    Why is the conviction rate for sex crimes so low in your country? That's so sad because i'm sure her being a dancer will affect his level of punishment.
    The problem is that there is now a major 'lack of credibility' regarding 'strippers', compounded by a stereotype image of 'strippers' that is based on Hollywood productions plus news stories like the Duke Rape case. Thus many members of the general public ( equals members of the jury at a rape trial ) are ready to believe a guy's testimony in his own defense that the 'stripper' was actually involved in selling the guy sex for money outside the club, or that the 'stripper' is attempting to falsely accuse him in exchange for an under-the-table payoff to drop the charges, or that the incident was tied to the 'stripper's connection to gangs and/or drugs ... i.e. that the 'alleged rape victim' stripper was the one actually responsible for the incident developing, and that the 'alleged rapist' was somehow actually the victim in the situation.

    If it further turns out that the guy in question is a local resident with a clean criminal record, whereas the dancer has a (bogus) prostitution bust on her criminal record (from doing private dances too close to a customer), this only compounds the credibility problem. Throw in some local cop testifying that the club the dancer works at has been the object of drug / gang / prostitution investigations in the past, and a situation starts developing where not only is the 'alleged rapist' likely to escape conviction, but the 'rape victim' may actually be at risk of being charged with something !

    Bottom line is that there are very few countries where 'mainstream public opinion' considers 'stripping' to be a reputable profession, and considers 'strippers' to be regular girls simply doing a particular job in the 'entertainment industry'. Similarly, there are very few countries where cops and courts don't bring into play some level of presumption of guilt on the part of any 'stripper', vs a presumption of innocence on the part of an otherwise 'fine, upstanding' local resident.

    PS my heartfelt condolences to this poor girl ... however, I have to be blunt and state that walking alone in the wee hours of the morning near a closed strip club in a big city was an immensely dumb thing to do.
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    Last edited by Melonie; 10-27-2006 at 06:26 PM.

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