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    I went to work last night , well, technically this morning, and when I got there, so many girls were leaving, complaining about how bad it was.. "there's no money out there" etc... I almost wanted to not check in and head back home, but I'm so glad I didn't get sucked into the negativity. I ended up making great money!!! True, it was a lil bit slower than usual but I ended up with the right one and made sure he stayed "the right one" all night. There are so many times we come into work and it's automatic negativity. I'm glad I was able to brush it off and have enough confidence in myself to know that even though other girls were struggling, that had no bearing on what I was going to make.

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    Awesome. The same thing happened to me last night. I was there for 4 hours and made nothing. there was so many girls, and it was slow...but finally some girls staretd to leave, and i met that one guy, and ended up making money. I was glad I stuck it out.

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    Yeah, I went in last night, not my usual night, and two hours later than usual. I was really off my game for the first few hours. I even asked to go home (which I rarely do). Eventually the housemom (who rocks) basically kicked me out of the dressing room and told me to go make some damn money and quit my bitchin'.

    I ended up doing pretty well. Sometimes you just need a good kick in the ass.
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    I loved that - there is always at least ONE guy willing to drop baller dollars, even on slow nights. Make yourself visible to everyone, and chances are his money will be yours. I always made my best money on Sundays, Mondays, and Tuesdays.

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    Yeah, this happens to me almost every night. Girls are ALWAYS bitching about not making money at this club, or that it's slow, or the customers aren't buying, or whatever. But I always manage to make money, so obviously they're just not doing something right. I learned to ignore that shit a long time ago. Definitely, what other girls are doing has nothing to do with what you can do

    In fact, when there are alot of girls leaving because it's 'slow', I know I'll usually make more money because of less competition

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    Once, I stuck it out and all the girls left but one other, and she was the largest girl we had. I made two hundred in the last fifteen minutes because guys were BIDDING to dance with me and then lined up. Ah, one thing I miss about America. Money in clubs was actually pretty good and easy if you know what you're doing. Problem is, most don't.


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    I found that the vast majority of girls who complain that there is no money are the ones hanging around in the locker room or in a corner of the club with a group bitching about there being no money.

    I left my last club ONE time with making no money...but, there was money to be made...I just wasn't in the mood to be there.

    Never listen to another dancer when they say that there is no money to be made. What they are really saying is that THEY are not making money...not that you cannot.

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    This happens to me all the time. Girls bitching about how there is no money (but they're just hanging out in the freakin' dressing room). All it takes is that one "right customer".

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    Amen! I need to remember this for when I go back to work next week.
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    1 thing i leared early on was dont listen or pay attention to what any other dancer say to you or you over hear.......just get your butt out there and start husteling and you'll start making money.....

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    They were generalizing when they said there was no money. Obviously the customer count was down and money wasn't flowing as freely as it could have been, but a few customers are always spending. It just depends on who they will spend their money on.

    In this business nowadays with large amounts of dancers and less customers in cities like Vegas, every day/night someone will do well. Everyone won't necessarily do well on the same nights.

    You just have to keep an open mind, work the floor properly and persistently, and take what comes out of it.

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    I sometimes get the feeling that some girls are just saying there is no money to be made to psyche me and others out. Truthfully, if I already don't want to be there, it does. Otherwise I will just forget what they say when I hit the floor/stage.

    Haha, as a matter of fact, (I just remembered this), there was a girl tonight at the start of the shift complaining and and huffing and puffing around the dressing room ab having to be at work and how Saturday nights often "suck". I swear she was following me around, too! Lol, I literally told her, "Hey, stop talking to me about that-I don't want the negativity to rub off." Heehee.

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    ^^I have done that too. Heh. Especially if they're REALLY bitching hard. Last thing I want to hear when I'm arriving at work is how cheap and annoying the customers are, etc.

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    i dont know whats going on with me,,maybe its all the years in this industry, but im so sick of the whole stripper drama..i just cant tolorate it anymore....i just do my job and i go home,im not in this to make freinds....

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    As for making friends goes.....I too approach the idea very skeptically. I say this not bc we're strippers and can't make fabulous friends BUT because well, we are all in competition with one another. I am not naive enough to believe that doesn't come into play in any friendship I make at work.

    That being said, I do relate well with some girls in particular whether it be because of age or school or.... (lol) guy problems. We've all got those and it's an easy way to "bond"....at least for one shift, right?!

    But back to the competition amongst dancers.....it's like I said in my last post, girls will try to psyche you out sometimes and more often than not, it's your "friends" (or, ppl. who assume they are.)

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    My goodness!
    Girls BITCH and MOAN at my place all the time! That's because they are lazy and don't want to work the floor. Because girls make big bucks in the private rooms, they wait around all night in the hopes that a floor host puts them in a room. Meanwhile, they don't even try on their OWN to get into rooms! They don't work the floor! There is so much money to make here it's sick, and plenty of lap dances to give-
    But instead, the girls bitch that there's no money to be made, that it's slow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by nychaos99
    . Because girls make big bucks in the private rooms, they wait around all night in the hopes that a floor host puts them in a room. Meanwhile, they don't even try on their OWN to get into rooms! They don't work the floor! There is so much money to make here it's sick, and plenty of lap dances to give-
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    I agree.. So many times girls leave a customer because after 2 or 3 dances he's not ready to go into VIP. All they are doing is prepping him for me!! Even if he WONT go to VIP girls cut their chances of doing 2 or 3 hundred worth of dances on the floor. The big bucks ARE in the private rooms but just because they arent jammed doesnt mean there isnt money being spent.

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