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    Domicile quandary...

    OK so I'm on the fence here about something and I'd like some input.

    I'm living with my parents ATM utterly free, which is nice, but it's very difficult and stressful trying to strip and keep it hidden from them, make up alibis, ect. I'm terrified that at some point I may slip up and they'll find out, plus, it's so difficult to coordinate everything on the sly that I don't dance nearly as much as I'd like to. So although I don't have to pay anything for livin there I feel it may be costing me more overall from time lost not dancing.

    The obvious solution to this is to move out, but where I'm at right now I would need a roomate to split bills with. I'm not comfy with rooming with a total stranger, but luckily I have a friend who really needs one too because she's divorcing and similarly strapped for cash, her lease expires in Dec (I posted awhile back that I was considering telling her about my dancing b/c she seems like she might wanna do it as well). The catch is that I know her from my day job, which I like very much and want to keep PT, so I'm worried that if she ever slipped about it I might lose that job.

    Looking at it objectively, it seems to me that rooming with her wins as far as worst-case scenario; I'd rather lose the day job than have my family find out I dance. Seems like rooming also wins for best-case scenario; I may manage to not get caught at home but I definitely won't make as much and I'll always be stressin, vs. her being cool and keeping mum, bonus if she joins me and we'll both make hella-bank dancing together.

    What do ya'll think?

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    Default Re: Domicile quandary...

    Don't share house with friends. Only share house with acquaintences. As for complete strangers, you can interview them and have them give you a non-refundable deposit .... then over the trail period (which the deposit covers in re: rent etc) you can decide if you like room-ing with that person or not.

    Plenty of people room with strangers.

    Otherwise, I personally would never move in back with my folks even tho they know full well what I do. They are still my parents and would parent me just like I was a teenager not someone who is closer to 30 these days. Living at home for free is not that great if you are stressing and forsaking your ultimate dreams/desires.

    It's the reason why I moved out originally.


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    Default Re: Domicile quandary...

    ^^^^ever see Single White Female?lol Anyway, I used to live with my parents the first year of stripping and they never asked questions for some reason. I loved that I didn't have bills to pay, but after a while, geez I just wanted my own place. My own privacy and being able to sit around naked if I want. I live by myself now and I personally prefer not to have any roomates.
    But u gotta be sure you'd be able to afford it. Just seems that a lot of times, females living together means drama.

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    Default Re: Domicile quandary...

    Thanks guys... I'm thinkin I really do need to move out, but shackin up with her is maybe too risky. What I already said, plus she has a kid and I'm worried I might end up being taken for granted as a babysitter. That also makes me feel guilty about not offering though- her kid is the main reason she needs help so bad and I feel like a shit friend for not helping her out just to cover my ass... ugh my head >.<

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