OK so I'm on the fence here about something and I'd like some input.
I'm living with my parents ATM utterly free, which is nice, but it's very difficult and stressful trying to strip and keep it hidden from them, make up alibis, ect. I'm terrified that at some point I may slip up and they'll find out, plus, it's so difficult to coordinate everything on the sly that I don't dance nearly as much as I'd like to. So although I don't have to pay anything for livin there I feel it may be costing me more overall from time lost not dancing.
The obvious solution to this is to move out, but where I'm at right now I would need a roomate to split bills with. I'm not comfy with rooming with a total stranger, but luckily I have a friend who really needs one too because she's divorcing and similarly strapped for cash, her lease expires in Dec (I posted awhile back that I was considering telling her about my dancing b/c she seems like she might wanna do it as well). The catch is that I know her from my day job, which I like very much and want to keep PT, so I'm worried that if she ever slipped about it I might lose that job.
Looking at it objectively, it seems to me that rooming with her wins as far as worst-case scenario; I'd rather lose the day job than have my family find out I dance. Seems like rooming also wins for best-case scenario; I may manage to not get caught at home but I definitely won't make as much and I'll always be stressin, vs. her being cool and keeping mum, bonus if she joins me and we'll both make hella-bank dancing together.
What do ya'll think?



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