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    I've been having a problem with some of our customers - I find it happens most often with Hispanic guys, so it might be a cultural thing - they don't want to buy dances, but want to pay me for sex or to meet them OTC. How do you guys counter this? More importantly, how do you turn it into a sale? I don't make any money by being told I'm beautiful and propositioned.

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    Just explain to them that you do not offer those services. When a customer has his mind made up that what he wants is sex, a bj, or a hj then nothing you can do or say is gonna change that. You "may" be able to get 1 dance out of him but tha'ts about it. Trust me, you'll be propositioned by ALL men from all walks of life, not just men of Hispanic decent.







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    "NO SEXO" and walk away. Repeat as often as needed.

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    ^^That's about right. You aren't going to get money from these guys - they want to buy sex, you aren't selling sex, so you're really not gonna accomplish anything with them. Just move along immediately to someone else. Spend your time trying to sell to guys who are more likely to buy from you, and you will make more money.

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    I think the funniest way to deal with those guys it to make it known to the public what they are asking for. Just reply in a loud (but not yelling tone), "SORRY, WE DO NOT PROVIDE SEX FOR MONEY. YOU WILL HAVE TO GO ELSEWHERE FOR THAT AS THIS CLUB IS NOT A BROTHEL." ...then just walk away. Say it loud enough to where the customers and dancers at all the tables around these idiots hear it lound and clear and you'll see those morons' faces turn bright red.

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    Yes, I'm all for DancerWealth's way. Que comico!

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    Ahaha I use DW's way A LOT!! I LOVE that... I used to just roll my eyes and tell them to fuck off then when DW mentioned that in the seminar I got hooked and use it rather often now. Its funny to watch the guys like slide down their chair all embarassed

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    Yep...depending on my mood i have several responses:

    "Oh..sorry I'm a DANCER not a WHORE"

    "Awww...you have to pay women to have sex with you? Thats the saddest thing I've ever heard...you pathetic sad ittle man...." (walk away shakingmy head and looking very sad)

    "Hmmm...nope not in the mood to catch herpes today...try again tomorrw maybe I'll feel like it then"

    "oh...you want a PROSTITUTE...you're in the wrong place baby...you want to be at the Texaco on the corner ..thats where all the crackwhores hang out"
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    A few times, I did this and it worked great... eyes wide, lower lip starting to quiver, and in a hurt voice exclaim, "Are you calling me a WHORE?" They get all embarrassed and start carrying on, "No! No! Absolutely not, no, I would never say such a thing!" At which point I get upset and cry, "Yes, you did. You called me a whore. You've completely ruined my night! Aren't you at least going to tip me for that?"

    Twice I got $20 from this before the guy ran out the door, and once I got $50. Heh.

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    Although many strippers do NOT work on their backs OTC, there are still those that will... Just a numbers game for dancers finding guys that are happy with just laps as it's just a numbers game for the custies finding dancers who will play for pay OTC. Ironically, the more restrictive the laws become-the greater the liklihood of dancers willing to pay for play as thir income becomes severly lowered by the laws-which leave them the greater option of offering more bang for the buck and $$$ OTC.

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    I've had that and find u will waste precious time arguing with the guy than just telling him no and walking away. You probably won't turn it into a sale. The worst are the guys that expect "something" for paying for the VIP rooms. I hate that!! "what do i get for that? Thats it? Nothing else".

    You will spend more time arguing with them than just walking away.

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    I dont even bother with those guys because they are always to touchy during dances and never tip (dancers are 15 and they NEVER give 20 always just 15)

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameronfl
    "oh...you want a PROSTITUTE...you're in the wrong place baby...you want to be at the Texaco on the corner ..thats where all the crackwhores hang out"
    That's classic! I am definitely going to be saying this from now on when I get propositioned.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah
    A few times, I did this and it worked great... eyes wide, lower lip starting to quiver, and in a hurt voice exclaim, "Are you calling me a WHORE?" They get all embarrassed and start carrying on, "No! No! Absolutely not, no, I would never say such a thing!" At which point I get upset and cry, "Yes, you did. You called me a whore. You've completely ruined my night! Aren't you at least going to tip me for that?"

    Twice I got $20 from this before the guy ran out the door, and once I got $50. Heh.
    I would LOVE to do that. If only I could keep a straight face.
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    Maybe I'm the only one, but I am sometimes more offended when they try to get me to fuck them for free, lol. This creepazoid last night, well...the language barrier was strong, but I could tell he wanted some OTC whoredom, and I said "no, I don't do that" (doesn't even bother me anymore with these international customers...honestly, I think strip clubs are just too confusing for those from saint/whore cultures)...

    But then later on the guys he was sitting with whistle me over. I go and they're all like "what'd you think of our friend?". It takes me a minute of convo, but I realize they want me to date him (a 50year old fat CREEPAZOID). They were asking me in all seriousness if he was "my type". THAT pisses me off. Like, are you kidding me? WHISTLE me over for that shit?! Ha. When I wouldn't touch that for $10000? Anyway, NEXT...

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    And if they offered 11000, Molly?

    I'm just joking...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katherine
    And if they offered 11000, Molly?

    I'm just joking...

    Oh well, maybe if he was cute and it was $11500, lol!! Really, when they pull that whole "everyone has a price" I say "$30000", up front, and only if I like ya. Haha. They say "ha, c'mon, seriously" "Seriously!" (eye rolling, etc)

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    You're price is so low! I put mine up to a rediculious price to kinda show them how ridiculious they are being in a way:

    "everyone has a price"
    me: "you're right. I do.. it is 3 million dollars and I require half of that as a non-refundable cash deposit... and the other half an hour before the deed is done... if I'm going to sell myself like that I might as well do it once and be able to live off the proceeds for the rest of my life even if I only have the deposit ... I can still live off that... so... do you have 1.5 million dollars?"

    I say with a serious look and tone.

    Here in Australia we don't have raids or any LE worries. It is only the LL (Liquor Licensing) that "raids" the clubs and they don't really care about the girls more so that the club is obey-ing its liquor license. I've only seen one club have problems with LE (law enforcement/police) one time and that was only because the club was shady anyway (*cough*the topless club that used to be in broadbeach*cough*)


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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon
    Oh well, maybe if he was cute and it was $11500, lol!! Really, when they pull that whole "everyone has a price" I say "$30000", up front, and only if I like ya. Haha. They say "ha, c'mon, seriously" "Seriously!" (eye rolling, etc)
    When they do the "whats your price" game I tell them this:

    Ok...here's what you have to do...take out a second mortgage on your home, sell your cars, empty all your bank accounts, max out all your credit cards, sell your kids on the black market, pimp out your wife for a month, and borrow $20 from a friend. THATS my price...let me know when you raise it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DancerWealth
    I think the funniest way to deal with those guys it to make it known to the public what they are asking for. Just reply in a loud (but not yelling tone), "SORRY, WE DO NOT PROVIDE SEX FOR MONEY. YOU WILL HAVE TO GO ELSEWHERE FOR THAT AS THIS CLUB IS NOT A BROTHEL." ...then just walk away. Say it loud enough to where the customers and dancers at all the tables around these idiots hear it lound and clear and you'll see those morons' faces turn bright red.
    that's exactly what i do. i do -not- try to sell dances to these guys anymore. it's never worth the trouble.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    ^^That's about right. You aren't going to get money from these guys - they want to buy sex, you aren't selling sex, so you're really not gonna accomplish anything with them. Just move along immediately to someone else. Spend your time trying to sell to guys who are more likely to buy from you, and you will make more money.
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    i've worked in clubs where loudly proclaiming that the club wasn't a brothel would just have been met with laughter from all and sundry, including other dancers. but naming an outrageous sum, or simply and repeatedly stating you do not do that (and when they ask why as they often do, simply stating that you don't have to/need to/wish to) generally tend to quiet them about the matter.

    in my experience, such guys after that level of refusal will stage tip and sometimes get one or a few dances later in the night, or they will leave if you were the one they were dying to take home or get sex from.

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    Hehehe, I do the same thing I do when guys ask for extras girls.....I simply say, go ask the man standing by the door to give you the list of which girls would be willing to go home with you, have fun!

    Then Walk Away.

    Some guys have actually gone up to the bouncer, some guys take the hint, but NONE of them get any more attention from me. They will not make you money and they WILL waste your time. They're shopping for something most of us don't sell.

    Move on.




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    Quote Originally Posted by ExoticEngineer
    Hehehe, I do the same thing I do when guys ask for extras girls.....I simply say, go ask the man standing by the door to give you the list of which girls would be willing to go home with you, have fun!

    Then Walk Away.
    You guys are killing me!!!!!

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    Thanks guys. It's good to know I'm not the only one continually exasparated by this.

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