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    Default What kind of custies do you go after?

    Or, go after more than others since the title doesn't need to be a mile long.

    At my club, the girl usually outnumber the guys -atleast- 2 to 1. Because of this, you really need to try and get -the- customer that helps your night. One customer is all it takes.

    For me, I jump at fat guys and old guys. These two groups are either much more polite and/or have low self esteem so they most likely dont get girls -> are definately there for a dance. (Also, I have an easier time talking to the nerdy fat guy since I was a nerdy fat girl once upon a time , now I'm just a nerd)

    The young guys here never buy anything, they just tell me that they wanna fuck me, and the middle aged rich guys just waste your time. It's kinda baffling.

    How about you? Do you prey on special types?

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    Alone is the first thing I notice and prefer. The older the better. Are they tipping? Regularly tipping each girl more than one dollar per song (while not at the rack) is a very good sign for me -- they're looking to spend money but they're not trying to get as much pussy in their face for their dollar as possible. I like to be able to see them interact with the waitress (see what they're ordering, if they tip, if she likes him) and then approach shortly after that.

    A very good sign, imo, is if they are alone but their friend is gone -- that means that a) they're more approrachable now than if their friend were there, and then they'll go ahead and introduce you to their tablemate and b) if their friend is getting a dance, then it's easier to sell to them in a 1-2 song stretch.

    A lot of times I like to do a big burst of customer interaction... like say I'm going on in 2 songs. Go sit very very briefly with as many guys as possible without obviously shuffling through the deck... "Hi, I'm __, what's your name, nice to meet you... I just wanted a chance to say hello and make sure you're having a good time before I entertain you on stage!" 80% of the time the guys will come to your rack when you get on and then you can just ask every guy at your rack if they want a dance (since you've already done the preliminary interaction so it's not just straight wannadance).

    Umm... oooh and also (typically) younger guys, esp. by themselves, who buy one or two dances per girl! He's probably not a total jackass (if multiple girls are interacting with him), he'll go with a wannadance and doesn't really need to be sold... they're just trying to get dances with as many girls as they have $$. It's a good way to just hit up a guy who'd love to give you money.

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    I really don't have a "type" but I mostly avoid sitting with guys in large groups. I look to see if they look bored, are they searching around hoping a girl will come over. Are they intensely watching the stage and don't want to be 'bothered'? I too, prefer guys sitting by themselves.
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    Men who are alone ALWAYS get some attention from me. I too tend to shy away from large groups. There was a group of maybe 10 guys who came into the club last night. The leader was loving him some CK, and so where his buddies. Had I not caught the group leader alone, by himself I wouldn't have went over there alone..

    Oh, and for the record all nerdy fat guys are not polite. Hell, sometimes they can be the most rude and obnoxious.







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    alone - usually older. also, there's just something about guys who frequent strip clubs and spend money. once you've done it for a bit you can usually spot them right them. they have certain "tells". it's hard to explain, but they just look like they want company. i tend to avoid guys who sit with their arms folded or tightly in their lap, who have a death grip on their drink. it's the "don't bother me" body posture. guys who look comfortable and are looking around are typically a better option.

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    Asian men. It may be stereotypical, but the ones who are here on business, well...the young blonde, giggly big boob thing tends to work. Plus I'm good at communicating through a language barrier, so it works. They usually spend well, even if they're Asian-Canadian. I dunno, but that is truthfully my first pick of the hustle, unless someone is clearly interested in me. I am generally successful with this approach, so who knows?

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    Most definitely the middle-aged businessmen with "jungle fever". Ha, just kidding (kinda).

    Um, but really I have just learned to go after every type of guy that looks approachable, whether he is young/ old whatever. I always seem to find money from the most unexpected places......

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    Fat guys, alone guys, old rich guys, middle aged working class guys. And guys who wear comfy shoes.



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    Wow..am I the only one who jumps at groups of guys? I've found that it is easy to get money off them....they arent trying to suck up your time by "getting to know you"..they are just out to party. Plus the second one of them does or says something stupid(and one always does) I make fun of him mercilessly....for some reason guys seem to LOVE it when one of their friends is being picked on! I dont get it...but it works. They'll tip me for for being a bitch..buy dances to look like a "player" in front of their friends and usually several in the group will be buying drinks so my glass is never empty. And if one guy doesnt tip....the rest of them will call him cheap or gay and tip me extra to "make up for him"!!LOL! I LOVE groups!!
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    ^^ I also like to go after groups.. I can act more like myself in the humor department and just rip on the guys, especially the alpha male.. the guys always love a catty/bitchy act complete with sarcasm, mockery, and words they don't understand.

    I like to find guys who enjoy sci-fi.. geeks love a geeky stripper.

    Old guys and black guys generally love me, too.. I'm small, young-looking, and white. Understand that you will appeal to some groups and not so much to others, but don't blow off someone from an age or ethnic group just because you don't think you're his type.

    I avoid, or at least use a quick hustle, on middle-aged "good looking" business types who are super dressed up and trying to act cool, as I find they can be the biggest time wasters.

    Business guys in groups who look like they are having a work-buddy-get-together are usually fun. Look for open, friendly body language.. they should be more interested in cracking jokes and ogling/tipping the strippers than they are with displaying their watches, clothing, cigars, expensive drink, etc.

    Most importantly, don't discount guys who seem to like you, but don't go up to the stage and tip. Many guys just don't tip stage shows. Lots of older guys and fat guys like to sit down and never move from a table, until asked for dances. True, some don't ever buy anything at all.. learn to quickly figure out whether he's waiting for the right girl to come along, or whether he just wants a free show (and your free time and attention).

    edit: oh yeah, and guys playing video poker! they are often an untapped resource.

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    Black guys, guys who are celibrating, groups of blue coller workers (construction, landscaping etc...)

    I dont do well with middle aged white guys OR business men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by badpixie

    I like to find guys who enjoy sci-fi.. geeks love a geeky stripper.

    Most importantly, don't discount guys who seem to like you, but don't go up to the stage and tip. Many guys just don't tip stage shows. Lots of older guys and fat guys like to sit down and never move from a table, until asked for dances. True, some don't ever buy anything at all.. learn to quickly figure out whether he's waiting for the right girl to come along, or whether he just wants a free show (and your free time and attention).
    i have found this to be true. guys are always impressed that i love star wars and kevin smith movies. they LOVE me after finding out.

    i've sold many dances to non-tippers, too. most were too shy to tip onstage but bought dance after dance later on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by $$$magnet
    Most definitely the middle-aged businessmen with "jungle fever". Ha, just kidding (kinda).
    Oh yea, that's definately my type too







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    Quote Originally Posted by badpixie

    edit: oh yeah, and guys playing video poker! they are often an untapped resource.
    I made some good money on an old asian man who wanted his nips pinched as I danced for him (not in this town). He was playing video whatever when I just stopped to introduce myself and move on.. we stayed for a long VIP session that night.

    I like to approach anyone alone. I do start with older guys not in suits then move down the scale.
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    it depends how i am dressed. If i look like a 50's pinup, classy girl--I go for older guys. If the crowd is young, I try to look as trashy and cheap as possible--LOL.

    I do well with Italian guys and Indian guys (i know a few phrases in hindi and it always blows them away-LOL). Japanese men will always get my attention--I made sure to learn phrases in japanese as well--and it goes a very long way. I love foreign businessmen--they dont come to fuck around--they want to spend $.

    waspy white guys or businessmen of any race or age are generally are 50/50 with me.


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    What's waspy???







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses
    What's waspy???
    White Anglo Saxon Protestant...very, very white people, lol. As in german, swede, english etc etc etc.

    No offense to anyone white or wasp-y
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    no, germans, and swedes are not anglo-saxon

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    no, germans, and swedes are not anglo-saxon
    yeah, i thougt about that actually...I know it means UK-ish people in background historically. Now it means more in terms of looks and attitude.

    In the context of living in the states--they aint dark, they dont tan, and they have last names like smith or jones, LOL ...the point is that WASPs are considered to have a lack of "flavor." thats all. As in your "all american white guy."

    Nevermind, it was supposed to a humerous generalization.....bad joke...sheesh, i'm not funny..long day at the office LOL.
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    i go after men that are alone, ages 30-50's i guess. i am more comfortable around blue collar men and it shows so i avoid the dressed up in business suit types, its hard to make a sale when you look uncomfortable or just out of place. i also avoid the white guys usually since i am one of the maybe two white girls in the club and chances are they are not interested. i mostly go after the hispanic or black men, once in a while asians if they look interested.

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    Oh yeah... since I'm Asian I find it pretty easy to sell to Asian men, since they often have never met/gotten dances with an Asian dancer before. They already feel connected to me by skin color and I always speak more articulately in those interactions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anomar
    Oh yeah... since I'm Asian
    LOL have you tried to get Greentea to visit your club? He only gets dances from Asians.

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    [QUOTE=cameronfl]Wow..am I the only one who jumps at groups of guys?QUOTE]

    NO! Haha I LOVE groups. A lot of times I will come up and small chat for a second and then ask something like "Ok, so out of (number of guys) I know at LEAST one of you want a dance, then after he comes back and tells you how wonderful it is, I'll get ALL of you to dance. SO who's going first?" It usually works. If you have confidence that you KNOW they will like you and you portray that, they will usually fall for it. Haha guys are dumb, I LOVE IT!
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    I know the types of guys that I need work on how to approach: the attractive, very well dressed guys - you know the rich ones in their 30s dressed in suits or expensive clothes, who are arrogant and want you to feel like they have women IRL who are just as hot as you, they bug me so I usually ignore them... AND groups, I need work on that. I only am comfortable with groups if they are blue collar and in a real party mood.

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    Middle-aged white guys alone or with another guy are the first ones I approach, although I mention private dances to anyone who comes up to tip me on stage. I also have good luck with black guys who are in there by themselves, not so much in groups.

    My problem with groups is that they want dollar dances, and I'm not really into that. I always go up and introduce myself, invite them to come up while I'm on stage, etc., but I don't go around and dollar.

    I like to introduce myself to as many men as possible without it looking like I'm "working" the room too much. I avoid having them see me go from guy-to-guy, it makes it look like I'm striking out. I much prefer approaching right as I'm coming off the stage or coming out of VIP. And if a guy is sitting near VIP as I'm going in I will lean down and whisper in his ear, "Don't worry, you can be next," as my current customer is buying his VIP admission.

    And let's not forget networking within VIP. It never hurts to wink at the guy across from you getting a dance with someone else. Don't feel bad about it, the other girls are doing it too.
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