Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 123 LastLast
Results 26 to 50 of 57

Thread: What kind of custies do you go after?

  1. #26
    Featured Member redhothoney's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2006
    Location
    In the South
    Posts
    855
    Thanks
    17
    Thanked 134 Times in 14 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    I have noticed that the white collar workers in suits seem to pinch their pennies. I have a friend that works at a fast food restaurant and the customers driving expensive cars are the ones that freak out if you short change them accidently (by a dime!!!) lol. The blue collar workers work hard so they can play hard, they like having a good time. Once this girl said this guy looked homeless and he spent a 1000!

  2. #27
    God/dess Pretty_Penny's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Location
    your moms house
    Posts
    5,050
    Thanks
    269
    Thanked 648 Times in 256 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    older guys, esp those who look "professional".

    i also go after guys around my age who seem to have the same taste in music. since my musical taste is sort of older and more obscure, i can actualy have REAL conversation with them, which typicaly leads to better money for me. on the off chance that they actualy have a lot of money and are the "regular" type, it winds up working out for me for a long time. of course, the reason for this is that these guys are SIMILAR to the types i date in real life, so the coversation is easy and it makes more of a realistic fantacy. oh.. and i go for out of towners in groups. typicaly they buy rounds of dances.

    now who do i usually AVOID? young (college) guys, esp. the attractive ones. people from countries that are repressive/abusive to women who haven't been here very long and/or don't speak english. i'm not racist, it's just a cultural thing. 95% of the time it has ended HORRIBLY. guys who obviously look broke, torn baseball caps - dirty - grease covered jeans - etc. although, i HAVE made some money from them, i will avoid them if i have a better option.

  3. #28
    Veteran Member sassfire's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2003
    Location
    Las Vegas, Nevada
    Posts
    294
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    I rarely went for black guys. They don't usual buy dances from black girls they want something different. As far as asking, I will ask every guy regardless of class or race. Of course if the guy looks skanky then no I will not ask him. I ask the black guys quickly, no need to waste my time on a no. For the ones I think will give me a dance, I put in a little more effort. I got most of my dances from white guys, I can't recall getting one from an asian.

    The best thing is when they come to you... "Me, you want a dance with me? (Big Smile) Sure."

  4. #29
    God/dess
    Joined
    Oct 2005
    Posts
    6,948
    Thanks
    2,846
    Thanked 5,526 Times in 3,113 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    no, germans, and swedes are not anglo-saxon
    Saxony is a part of Germany. Many Germans are Saxons.

  5. #30
    God/dess Embyr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Schlong Beach, Cauliflower
    Posts
    2,558
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 14 Times in 5 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    BIKERS. if you come in with moto-boots, a jacket, gloves, bandanna, or any shirt with a bike brand on it, then you are MINE, baby. I will make a beeline for you, plop down next to you and chat you up about your bike, then proceed to tell you about mine, and then we can move into other areas of conversation until you are so totally convinced that god sent you into this strip club to meet this hot, intelligent, creative biker-chick of your dreams that you get a dance from me. 95% of biker-targets get dances. the ones who don't all ride harleys. haha

    other than that- here are major generalizations- no one get mad.

    asian guys don't want me. EVER. they go for blonde/big boobs... the traditional stripper-beachbunny look.
    hispanic guys aren't usually too into me, either...
    Businessmen (sales, corporate)- so-so. Intelligentsia and financial guys- (teachers, some lawyers, writers, often mortgage brokers, realtors and bankers, i dunno why) definitely. These are the ones I try to seek out- someone who can appreciate my education, sense of humor, personality (more than looks-- my club is NOT a wannadance club, so talking with custies is a must) and who likes an engaging woman both funny and sensuous. Really any guy who looks like he isn't a total jerk (talk on cell phone in small club=bad) who might want some company.
    The other types of guys I cater to (right now I am the only girl on dayshift who fits any of these descriptors): men who like nipple piercings, men who like redneads, and men who like short hair.

  6. #31
    missalovelady
    Guest

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Guys that would approach me first were my favorite targets and the easiest.I try to sit alone at the bar when first get on floor.Guys will come right up to you.Also I approach the quiet guy sitting alone that has made eye contact or had previously offered a drink.Or someone who went to the stage to tip you.Or if you are just unsure or none of the above go talk to the guy who gave you the best compliment on your previous tip round.Hope it all helps you.

  7. #32
    Veteran Member sassfire's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2003
    Location
    Las Vegas, Nevada
    Posts
    294
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by anomar
    Oh yeah... since I'm Asian I find it pretty easy to sell to Asian men, since they often have never met/gotten dances with an Asian dancer before. They already feel connected to me by skin color and I always speak more articulately in those interactions.
    Hmmm funny, when I worked I noticed that sometimes asian men will refuse dances from an asian dancer. They usually pick the barbie doll type.

  8. #33
    God/dess cinammonkisses's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2002
    Location
    Some Fat guys Lap!
    Posts
    9,647
    Thanks
    11
    Thanked 90 Times in 67 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by sassfire
    Hmmm funny, when I worked I noticed that sometimes asian men will refuse dances from an asian dancer. They usually pick the barbie doll type.
    I'm not asian but I have noticed that as well. They tend to go for the tall, lean blonde barbie types.







    Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"


  9. #34
    Member Eve21's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2006
    Location
    Michigan
    Posts
    52
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    All cats look the same in the dark! Everyone gets "Hey, sweetie/honey/sugar, how you doin?!" lol or, "You look lonely!" and a stripper in their lap. For $20 they're all Brad Pitt, lol.

  10. #35
    Veteran Member casaubon1's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2006
    Location
    East
    Posts
    371
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 14 Times in 4 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by Eve21
    All cats look the same in the dark! For $20 they're all Brad Pitt, lol.
    Some of us are a little thinner. We turn into George Clooney.

  11. #36
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Most groups, but I don't generally approach the group, they come to me. Or I'll approach ONE member of the group and either get alot of dances off him or get passed around the table. Either way is fine by me.

    Any guy alone in the back is usually looking for a dance.

    Businessmen in groups.

    Young, awestruck boys

    Computer nerds and salesmen (especially sales managers).

    White-collar self-employed types in their 30s-40s. You know the ones, they've got their own contracting business or something, so they work hard, and have money that they don't mind spending.

    I avoid suits. Always. Waste of time, pain in the ass. Trying to get everything for free. Ugh.

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  12. #37
    God/dess Chrissy68's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Over the hills and far away
    Posts
    4,902
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 368 Times in 56 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    Fat guys, alone guys, old rich guys, middle aged working class guys. And guys who wear comfy shoes.
    notice the Bruno Malis
    I do the same . Any guy alone for sure, even if he's young. I once approached a young guy alone, and he ended up becoming a short-lived high-spending VIP regular. he was like 22.

    Love it!

  13. #38
    Veteran Member Scout's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2006
    Posts
    335
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 6 Times in 5 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    notice the Bruno Malis
    I do the same . Any guy alone for sure, even if he's young. I once approached a young guy alone, and he ended up becoming a short-lived high-spending VIP regular. he was like 22.
    The only man to give me a $1500 tip in addition to our VIP time ($500) was a early-20s white kid dressed in oversized Rockashit. He wasn't a drug dealer like I had assumed. I learned from the owner that he had inherited millions of millions.

  14. #39
    God/dess jaizaine's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Location
    melbourne australia
    Posts
    10,144
    Thanks
    328
    Thanked 219 Times in 133 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    anyone who is looking at me i instantly approach.
    i dont approach grumpy looking guys with arms folded or bad look on their face.
    i dont approach very drunk people.

    i really hope this does not offend anyone ehere and apologise if it does but i refuse to approach or dance for indian customers.
    my reasons are: they do not buy dances, i have never seen them buy a dance from anyone yet they sit at the tip rail and dont tip or buy table dances, they are tight arses - i had one ask me last week what the price for a dance was (at my club we do the $20 for one song dance but i just said $50 for 3 songs coz i didnt want to dance for him) he goes "oh $1.50?" i laughed in his face and said "yeah we dance for $1.50 pfffft" and walked off on him.

    the dancers who have actually somehow sold dances to them said its not worth it coz they try to touch non-stop and expect sex for $20 - i would not waste my time. id rather go without the money and try to dance for someone else who would be less trouble.

  15. #40
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Nov 2005
    Location
    Indianapolis, IN
    Posts
    465
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    I always look at the shoes. Even when a guy that is gonna spend is dressed down, his shoes are always nice. Never dingy. Other than that anyone that looks at me I'll atleast approach.

  16. #41
    AlexxaHex
    Guest

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    I sell really well to Black men and some Caucasian businessmen. Black men love me for some reason. Maybe it's because I dance to old school hip hop, or have a Tupac-style tattoo on my stomach. Maybe I'm just some fantasy of a freaky white girl they have in their head. Maybe it's because I think they are powerful and more fun to talk to than stuffy old white men.
    Before moving to LA, I had never met an Armenian man before and I thought they were women hating assholes, but now I realize they can be really nice and spend a lot on a woman they like sometimes.

    With Mexicans, it's really hit or miss. I think they just tend to go for the Spanish speaking girls in my club since I can't seem to relate to them as well. I can understand a little bit of Spanish, but can only speak a tiny bit of it and my pronunciation is REALLY off. Many of the ones straight from Mexico are used to "Tijuana rules", where they can get a lot more than a lap dance for $35. I've never had a Mexican get a VIP and something like 70% of the population here is Hispanic. I'll definitely approach them, but I don't expect to sell large amounts of dances to them.

    I don't necessarily relate better to older men, but I find that the presence of young guys in the club can ruin my flow, since they tend to be in the club more for the experience of seeing naked women and less for buying dances. They also tend to be more rude and crass, IMO. Their immaturity annoys me. This is the primary reason I don't work on weekends anymore.

    There are exceptions to every rule and every race and I try really hard not to assume anything. Sometimes that little scruffy dude not buying drinks and not tipping will fork over a few hundred dollars. It's just so important to put away judgements and ask everyone.

  17. #42
    Member Piper_Eve's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2006
    Location
    Philadelphia, PA
    Posts
    34
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by sassfire View Post
    I rarely went for black guys. They don't usual buy dances from black girls they want something different. As far as asking, I will ask every guy regardless of class or race. Of course if the guy looks skanky then no I will not ask him. I ask the black guys quickly, no need to waste my time on a no. For the ones I think will give me a dance, I put in a little more effort. I got most of my dances from white guys, I can't recall getting one from an asian.

    The best thing is when they come to you... "Me, you want a dance with me? (Big Smile) Sure."
    Very true. I've danced for many black guys and have usualy seen the black girls dancing for white guys. I never see black girls dancing for black guys.
    Was DestyDoll, just changed to keep up with my new dance name.

  18. #43
    Veteran Member Tara Nicole's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2006
    Location
    ABQ
    Posts
    274
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    My prefered customer ( ie- the ones I always did the best with) were the CEO types. They always appreciated my style, convo skills and business sense the most.
    The essential humanity of men can be protected and preserved only where government must answer--not just to the wealthy, not just to those of a particular religion, or a particular race, but to all its people.

    Robert F. Kennedy
    June 6, 1966

  19. #44
    God/dess twisterinAZ's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2004
    Location
    Scottsdale
    Posts
    2,228
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 12 Times in 9 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    I go for middle aged golfers who have been drinking since noon and are on golf trips away from wifey.

  20. #45
    Featured Member Victoryx0x0's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2006
    Location
    Jerz
    Posts
    750
    Thanks
    25
    Thanked 12 Times in 6 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    I go after the ones who give me eye contact or watch my ass as I walk by... lol.

  21. #46
    Featured Member flickad's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2006
    Location
    Melbourne, Australia
    Posts
    1,860
    Thanks
    268
    Thanked 103 Times in 67 Posts
    My Mood
    Pensive

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Like others, I find older guys to be the best spenders. Young guys are often either there to look or don't have that much money to spend.

  22. #47
    Member Blasiancutie's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2006
    Location
    Atlanta
    Posts
    67
    Thanks
    18
    Thanked 20 Times in 9 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    I usually go after older guys as well. They love a young girl sitting on their knee. Go to approach them from behind with a hug. Also guys that tip me on stage or keep in direct eye contact when I move on stage. I like to go into a party or group of guys as well, because for the same reason they are there to have a good time and dances goes to the first girls at the tables. Plus I don't feel I am forced to hustle, convo. comes quick or they just get a dance.


    As for other guys, it depends where I am dancing I guess. I don't go for the asians guys in Chicago, I lead my best friend with her bubbly and blond attitude in their direction. I don't really go after the young black guys unless I am asked. Now your older, heavy set black gentlemen I might appoarch. In Michigan, I get all kinds again, whoever I make eye contact with. But the business men in Michigan I felt I knew most the top movers and shakers because they come in everyday and we talk about heated and world topics its no thing for them to pay you for your time, dancing or not. If you in Detroit long enough, you meet the same people at least twice in the city. At least I thought that way being from Chicago and all.
    "All you care about is dancing."

    "I beg to differ, what is sports than a dance between two teams? What is business but a dance between two companies, I like to learn about every kind of dance." ----Memoirs Of A Geisha.
    (For those that know the movie I replaced sumo with sports, it seems fitting here.)


  23. #48
    Newbie
    Joined
    Jan 2007
    Posts
    7
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    The older guys that are retired tend to like me, so I try and get them, but then they only end up getting a dance or two. This is going to be my 3rd week so I haven't gotten the complete swing of things. I introduce myself to as many men as possible as well, and that seems to get me enough dances throughout the night. My issue is picking the right people to get VIP. Our minimum is 150 and the people that I have told this to are flabbergasted and refuse and settle for two dances. Everyone is my target though...

  24. #49
    Featured Member sophiemarie's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Brighton Beach, Brooklyn
    Posts
    831
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Big, fat , ugly and lonely the better. I go up to who ever is looking at me. Eye contact is key. Body language knwledge is essential to know as well as to understand.



    I Love Life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  25. #50
    Featured Member sunnie's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2006
    Location
    The strip club...duh!
    Posts
    868
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 69 Times in 9 Posts

    Default Re: What kind of custies do you go after?

    Quote Originally Posted by cameronfl View Post
    I make fun of him mercilessly....for some reason guys seem to LOVE it when one of their friends is being picked on!
    It is because you do it so well, mwahaha.

    Lately, for a quick hit, I go couples before the girl gets drunk. Which is cool because I think I have gotten a lot more comfortable dancing for girls...I am working on getting the reluctant types more comfortable for multiples.

    Which reminds me, the other night a girl grabbed me to give a special to her friend. The BIGGEST obese man I have EVER danced for. I mean his "lap" had so much fat where the hip crease should be it felt like a butt. I am gagging as I write this. And he had this smell... He was asking for gross extras in the VIP and I had to turn around so I wouldn't puke. I am not joking, then I went in back and bathed with baby wipes and started gagging when I smelled him on me.

    I don't know if I would ever see a guy that big (we're talking 500+ lbs) in the club again, it was a first, but easy mark for sure.

Page 2 of 3 FirstFirst 123 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 18
    Last Post: 11-11-2011, 02:08 PM
  2. Custies:What do you want?
    By MysteriousMystery in forum Customer Conversation
    Replies: 58
    Last Post: 05-21-2008, 11:20 AM
  3. Getting Personal w/ Custies?
    By ITgirl in forum Customer Conversation
    Replies: 25
    Last Post: 09-07-2007, 01:14 AM
  4. These are our future Custies....
    By kikiwiki in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 17
    Last Post: 08-22-2007, 01:47 AM
  5. DO you like when custies dress up for you?
    By High_Heel_Lover in forum Customer Conversation
    Replies: 32
    Last Post: 08-13-2007, 11:55 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •