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    So, I've decided to come out to a select few friends, mostly because I couldn't hide it anymore to my roommate, and now some of them want to come visit the club-- I guess it's one of those allure of the unknown things? Anyway, I'm thinking this is a bad idea-- yes or no? And how do I tell them that?

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    If you are uncomfortable with them coming to the club while you're working then let them know this. At the end of day this is a job and you are there to make money, If they are true friends they should understand. They can always check out the other clubs in the area if they are curious or even better visit your club with you as a customer instead of coming while your working a shift. ya' know make it a girl's fun night out

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    I like it when my friends come to visit me at work -- as long as they are tipping the other girls and understand that I'm working and might not be able to hang out with them there. But, if you don't feel comfortable with your friends seeing you dance, maybe tell them that you would be happy to go with them to another strip club, or visit yours on your night off.

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    Exactly what iseestars said. My firends come in alot, I like it so long as they dont get in the way of buisness or act like fuck-wits, which none of them have so far (-:

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    Once upon a time.... when I was brand spanking new to dancing I had my friends come in on me. I knew they were going to b/c they said so. I think it was more like we have to see it to believe it. It was cool with me.
    But I think the key is that they are there behaving and not just watching your every move.

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    OK, cool. That's good to know. I think the "we have to see it to believe it" allure is there with them, too.

    I don't mind them coming. I just didn't know if that was a stripper no-no. My roommate even asked if she could get a table dance. Haha. I'm sure they will behave themselves-- I will give them some $1s to give to the other girls.

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    If they come in to visit you, it's their dime, not yours. This is your job. If they can't afford 100 each for their night out, then they shouldn't come. Harsh, but nonspending leads to others nonspending.
    I wouldn't do it, but it is a personal choice.

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    Good point. I'll just remind them that if they're going to come, to come prepared.

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