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    Default so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    I went for my first time last night and I was so intimidated I didn't even end up doing anything. I know this is a very broad question but how are you able to start making money when you don't know what the hell your doing? Could a custy find that cute and I could sell the fact that I'm new and don't know how to strip?

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    Default Re: so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    My first night I never even sold a dance. I was WAAAY to scared. Its been about 6 weeks and I'm really starting to get a hang of this.... Observe observe ovserve!!! You will get better in time! Stay within your comfort zone and dont conform (do drugs extras etc) to make money

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    Default Re: so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    we were all there once....just give it some time to feel comfortable.

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    Default Re: so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    When I first started I was observant as well. A girl was nice enough to give me a lap dance to show me how it was done. I have a suggestion eventhough it makes you nervous to talk to guys just go up to one and say hi. Try to say hi and do a little chit chat to X amount of guys. This way youll at least get a little more comfortable with talking to guys.
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    Default Re: so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    yeah i know what u mean...the first night i didnt even approach any guys for a dance. i was too afraid of rejection! i still am a bit, but im starting to get over it. its not the end of the world just cuz he doesnt want a dance from u, u know?

    u cud play out the "im new" thing..thats what i did. maybe u cud approach a guy and smile sweetly, "im new, can i try my moves on you in a private dance/lapdance/wutever"
    or maybe to get some stage tips, u can go like, 'hey im new at this..maybe u can come visit me on stage and give me some support!"

    just smile at guys as u walk by, come sit down with them and shoot the shit. dont be too embarassed..remeber, they think ur a goddess!

    goodluck!
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    Default Re: so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    You should really read this community as much as you can before work. I did my first night and it really pumped me up to try new sales techniques.


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    Default so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    Yah, I was way too scared to approach anyone. All of this great advice has given me a lot more confidence for sure. Thanks!

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    Default Re: so i went but i'm still shy, new, and clueless

    Tell them you're new and that new girls don't know all the rules.
    Of course, when you do a dance, follow the rules of the club.
    Just use that to get him going...

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