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    Is it rude to ask a dance if she could sit on your lap? should you offer her money to do so? should you get a lap dance from her first THEN ask her to sit on ur lap? whats the right way to go about it?

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    Why would I sit on your lap here for free when I can do it in another room for money?

    If you're gonna ask for it.. hand her some money and say, 'sit on my lap?'


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    Its not rude to hand her some cash and tell her to sit on my lap? just seems sleezy?

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    It was never sleezy to me unless you asked for it rudely or handed me a effing one. Hand over a ten-twenty and say something like, "Would you mind sitting on my lap to talk? I promise I'll buy dances" and if you continue talking for 10 minutes or more, hand her some more money and say Thank You and keep talking, etc. Then buy a few dances when you're ready.

    I always sat a little longer on laps for money than dancing would because I knew I didn't have to give a damn cut to the house when I did plus it was a little less work.

    Oh, and if she denies, let her keep the money.


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    Cool,I will try that next time! thanks!

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    Lots of girls make commission off of their drinks.. you could by her a big one and that should give her at least a couple of songs worth of sitting time (as long as it's relatively slow) until you either buy a dance or someone else wants one. Just remember that it's her job to hustle, so make sure you aren't trying to just have her sit with you when she could be making lots of money.

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    I personally don't prefer sitting on a mans lap while chatting. But I would much sit on the lap of the guy spending than on the chair next to the broke ass. Say something like "Can I get you a drink," after your request if they have a drink hustle at the club. You should still slip her tip for chatting, no less than a 5 although. If there is not a drink hustle then just give her money and don't take too long getting the dance(s) in either case. 5-15 min max, unless you are willing to pay her X amount for whatever the lap dances are priced per song. Dancers are just weary of lap sitting b/c I would hate to sit on a guys lap for nothing. It is sometimes just an excuse for lame asses to grope all over you for free, or because they so desperately want someone to talk to them. (For Free)
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    I don't sit on anyones lap. I have custies ask and I tell them "Why would you want me to just sit here when I can do much more on your lap in the back?" If they ask again I'll tell them I'll do it for $20, the same price as a dance.

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    I like it when they sit in my lap coming out the gate - I take advantage of the high mileage. I figure if they do this and stay awhile it must be professional image and intelligent conversation.

    Tell her "come over here and sit in my lap hon." If she won't flag the coctail waitress, give her a $5 bill and say "I need a woman who will sit in my lap."
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    I'm not a lap sitter-unless I am giving a dance. Why give it away for free? I also heard that it is a no-no at my club but then again, girls do it all the time. I get some guys that get pissy with me cos "well, so and so did it!" and I just tell them I don't have a problem with it, as long as we can do it back there (and point to the lap dance room).

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    If I'm undecided about getting a dance from a girl, when she asks if I want some company and starts the sale attempt, I'm more likely to buy if she sits in my lap during the conversation than if she sits in the chair.

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    as long as you make it obvious that she will be compensated for her time, and you ask politely, you shouldn't have a problem. that is of course if the club rules allow it. some clubs do not allow lap sitting.

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    Default Re: Lap Sitting?

    also u might wanna make sure they are allowed to.
    we are not allowed to sit on guys laps at my club. it's an airdance club - so there is no lap sitting during dances or at any other time either.

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    If she won't sit in my lap I usually won't take a dance from her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    Why would I sit on your lap here for free when I can do it in another room for money?
    Cause you love me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback View Post
    Cause you love me!
    Oh, but honey, we all know you're different!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan-Va View Post
    I don't sit on anyones lap. I have custies ask and I tell them "Why would you want me to just sit here when I can do much more on your lap in the back?" If they ask again I'll tell them I'll do it for $20, the same price as a dance.
    hehe. I do something like this as well. I say, since we're no contact durring a dance I'll sit on your lap, but it's the same price. I'd really rather do the dance, but 20$ a song to sit, ok! Or I'll tell them we're only alowed in the vip rooms!

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    Default Re: Lap Sitting?

    I must hang out at a pretty laid back club because a lot of the girls will climb right up onto your lap when they first approach you, especially if you're sitting in one of the cushioned chairs. They just make themselves at home. I guess if you're already in one of the chairs, they figure you plan on getting a dance sooner or later.

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