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    Angry I hate lube!

    So things are great with my new (6 months) boyfriend, but I'm tired of having to use lube every time we have sex. I've never had a problem with not producing enough natural lubrication before, and the only difference seems to be that my new boyfriend is not circumcised. He says if there isn't enough lube, his foreskin gets pulled back too far and hurts. The problem is that I hate having to actually put the stuff on, because it totally ruins the mood -- we might as well be using condoms too, because we have to stop and put on lube anyway. Grrr. I wish we could just go from foreplay to sex without having to go through the "formalities," lol. Any advice?

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    Default Re: I hate lube!

    Maybe put it on before hand, or use one of those lube shooters that are like a syringe that puts it in, to make it kind of sexy and like foreplay.

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    Links: http://www.alibaba.com/catalog/11147...e_Shooter.html also you could try http://superstore.sextoyvibes.com/de...e-Squirter.htm and put lube in it, so you're playing and doing lube at the same time.

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    Default Re: I hate lube!

    Put it on your fingers and masturbate in front of him with it all sexy... masturbate him with it...

    After awhile, with intact guys, you get used to having to reach for the lube.


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    Integrating the lube into sex is fun, shouldn't be awkward. Keep it by the bed in a tube. Also, maybe he needs to get you wetter down there too! Give him a wet. sloppy hand/blowjob and use flavored lube so he is oiled down before fucky fucky.

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    Default Re: I hate lube!

    I use condoms with everyone, and I always put lube on underneath the rubber so it feels better for him. It doesn't spoil the mood for me at all! Yeah, it means it can't just slip in, but it prolongs the anticipation which I like. When I want him in me I get the lube out and give him a hand job, which feels great with lube and I enjoy watching the reaction. Then I put the condom on and we're really ready to go.

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    Default Re: I hate lube!

    Wouldn't putting lube under the condom encourage it to slip right off?

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    Default Re: I hate lube!

    I've had two slips, one was when I accidentally used a large condom and one was when I waited too long after he'd come to get off him. Lube could potentially make slipping more likely but it hasn't been a problem for me, it also reduces friction so it should be less likely to break.

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    Thanks for the advice. I guess we still need to get more comfortable with each other to try new things.. It's only been 6 months and sex is already starting to get kind of routine. I'm so proud of myself, I took his virginity, lol I guess it isn't that horrible having to use lube.. I just feel inadequate not being able to produce enough of it myself, you know? Oh, and what sucks is that sometimes we don't have any lube, so we can't have sex, like when we were staying at his parents' house the other week. It's sort of like lying down in bed and realizing you haven't taken out your contacts or brushed your teeth or something -- neither of us wanted to go to the store to get lube.. I just think how nice and spontaneous it would be if we didn't have to use it at all.

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    I think
    (just a guess really)
    but maybe a lubricated condom would be faster? I know that just takes a second, and you can keep condons in your purse or w/ev for spontinaity. They also sell "single serving" lube things, so those would also be easier to keep w/ you. Or, more foreplay=more natural lube.

    I've never even seen an uncircumsized one, besides in photos. I dodn't know there was that much of a diff, besides being less attractive....to me at least.

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    Just be sure to keep flavoured lubes away from your kitty--the sugars can cause infection, they're only meant for oral.

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    Default Re: I hate lube!

    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Put it on your fingers and masturbate in front of him with it all sexy... masturbate him with it...

    After awhile, with intact guys, you get used to having to reach for the lube.

    really? My guy is intact and its been 3 years and I've never really HAD to use lube for vaginall intercourse. I guess we do just the right amount of foreplay.

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