So things are great with my new (6 months) boyfriend, but I'm tired of having to use lube every time we have sex. I've never had a problem with not producing enough natural lubrication before, and the only difference seems to be that my new boyfriend is not circumcised. He says if there isn't enough lube, his foreskin gets pulled back too far and hurts. The problem is that I hate having to actually put the stuff on, because it totally ruins the mood -- we might as well be using condoms too, because we have to stop and put on lube anyway. Grrr. I wish we could just go from foreplay to sex without having to go through the "formalities," lol. Any advice?



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I guess it isn't that horrible having to use lube.. I just feel inadequate not being able to produce enough of it myself, you know? Oh, and what sucks is that sometimes we don't have any lube, so we can't have sex, like when we were staying at his parents' house the other week. It's sort of like lying down in bed and realizing you haven't taken out your contacts or brushed your teeth or something -- neither of us wanted to go to the store to get lube.. I just think how nice and spontaneous it would be if we didn't have to use it at all.

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