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    Growl! I usually stay off of scl.com, but I moved clubs and customers from my old club get to asking me my schedule, and it's an easy way to communicate with them. But whenever people start posting me questions and generally talking all "Molly", some asshole comes on and makes up ridiculous, slanderous lies about me. What in the hell did I ever do, except come in and do my job? Our club...our area I guess...there are so many people who go to that damn site. For my club alone there are 1700+ postings, and for my old club over a thousand. So it's in my best interest to refute the lies, right? I can't stand to let strangers thinks crap like that about me. What's worse is I have no idea who's doing this...the last entry was posted from "Jon" (saying I had a pimp, etc), and what creeped me out is that is the spelling of my crazy ex's name (guy who broke into my apartment last year, stole my money, and every once in a while still sends me emails or txts...scary guy who I just ignore). Or it could just be one of the girls I used to work with. I wouldn't figure anyone knows me well enough at the new place, not even my name.

    Am I overreacting? I know I need to grow a tough skin for all this stuff, but the bad comments make me worry it will hurt my money. Any effective way to deal?

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    On SCL? No. There most effective way of dealing is to buy a membership in order to have the comments removed expeditiously.

    Honestly, it could be sheer coincidence. SCL has its share of trolls; it probably has nothing to do with you personally and is just some person wandering the comments waiting for something nice to said about ANYONE so he or she can leap in and say that you are a drug addicted whore. And trust me - engaging with it only makes you look worse. The last thing you want to do is engage with one of these people in an argument about whether or not you are a drug addicted whore (-No I'm not - Yes you are - No I'm not-). So contact the site and ask them to take it down, or get a membership (this is, I think, how they sell memberships) and take it down yourself.
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    Thanks, you're right. I'm still too immature to do the mature thing most of the time. I should just tell said customers to come to the club on weekends, and hope for the best. I don't have many regulars anyway.

    Thanks! I've already calmed down. I don't know why I go there.

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    Molly, repeat after me...

    I will not read SCL
    I will not read SCL
    I will not read SCL
    (and if I do, I will not take it to heart)

    Honestly, that board is the bane of our existence. It serves no purpose other than to let cowardly people say the things they're too chicken to say in person...most of the time it's just jealous girls.

    You should read the war that went on after I became general mgr of my club...it makes most other posts sound like playtime in kindergarten. Yet, here I am, still intact and still plugging away.

    Screw them and use it for free advertising. There is no such thing as negative press.

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    Seems to me like SCL for strippers is tabloids for celebrities.

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    Whats that sayin that as long as they spell your name right, all news is good news?
    btw if you mentioned your ex to someone they could be trying to screw with you.

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    For scheduling purposes - can't you get a myspace or livejournal page or even a yahoo or msn group? That would be way more effective that SCL anyway. I can imagine that there are 10 000 guys dying to know when you work. Free. Easy.
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    You musn't read SCL. Really- it's just garbage spewed by the l owest common denominator.

    AND, for what it's worth, from what I've noticed of SCL in Vancouver, it's always the hot, popular girls that get libelled. So there you go.

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    I was slammed on SCL after 2 customers made a point to praise me. SO, feel glad that these sorry sh*t talkers have given several customers the curiosity to come in & see what "Molly" is all about.

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    SCL is da debbil!!!! Seriously... im the worse one for getting into arguments with the fucking imature freaks on there... but i've stopped because I couldnt see a point to it anymore, they are just trying to get a reaction out of you. Ignore it and keep on doin what yer doin cuz yer hot shit

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    So what you have a few haters, who doesn't...that just means you're doing something right or something they would like for themselves. SCL is truly like the tabloids for dancers. Work on getting 20 more haters by next summer lol. Keep doing your thing girl!

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    I'd hazard a guess that the naysayers on SCL are avid SW readers.

    You do nothing for yourself by reacting; that's what they want. They're just angry that they couldn't fuck you if hell froze over. Besides - what percentage of your spending custies actually come from SCL anyway?

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