NOTE: I WILL BE MAKING GENERALIZATIONS, please take what I am saying in context. thanks.
- For those of you unfamiliar with Orange County, it is not only the home of whites, Asians, and Hispanics (not a lot of black people, weird...)but a big Arab (and/or Muslim, because technically Persia was not originally considered "arab") & Indian population as well. Of all the Muslim cultures, there is a HUGE Iranian/Persian contingent, and they are the only Muslim guys that come into the club. SERIOUsly.
not ONE TIME have I ever heard "Egyptian, Iraqi, Kuwaiti, Jordanian, Lebanese..." NOTHING. they are ALL PERSIAN. so, what's the problem?
they treat women (here comes the generalization) like shit. Every Persian guy I have talked to/danced for has been 1.) rude 2.) cheap 3.)REALLy dirty/won't listen to the word "no" 4.) all of the above.
My problems with this: first of all, after yet ANOTHER bad episode with a Persian customer who wanted me to be his cheap-little-whore-running-napkins-TWICE-to-clean-up-premature-ejaculations-and-yelling-at-me-when-I-refused, then attempting to rip me off for dances, I almost WANT to discriminate in the club and stop asking them for dances!! which is terrible!!!
Second problem: Before i started stripping, my first experience with a Persian guy was one I dated quickly, and it rocked! He wasn't too connected to the culture, but it was very fun, and he was very respectful, NOTHING like these guys as the club. This threw me for a loop....
Third problem: Why is it that whenever I feel myself put down by foreign-born men in some sort of authoritative position (boss, customer, etc.) I want to say "this is America, you respect women here." I never feel much patriotism, except when it comes to women's/human rights, and I see how i could be treated. I hate the sense of automatic entitlement to women that some cultures think they have... This reminds me of when my old very very awesome Egyptian GNC boss sold the store to a very very NOT cool Korean boss and for the next 3 months I trained his entire family in how to run the store, and was rewarded by being yelled at every day in broken english and listening to him yell at his wife, too.
My bottom line- I am open to (people and custy-wise) any shape, size, color, background; just treat me right and don't be an asshole. However, when almost every person belonging to a certain group acts in a certain way, there must be a certain pattern to ascertain.
PLEASE i'd love to get some feedback on this......



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