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    Ok, how many of you are so freakin sick of hearing "Do you need any help with that?" when you're putting your clothes back on? So many customers say that all the freaking time!!! WTF, do they think it's some cute, funny thing to say? I'm so sick of hearing it!!! No I don't want/need your help and if I did, I wouldn't ask/let you anyway!!!

    Sorry, had to vent, it just irritates me to death!!! I guess I should say "Do you need help with emptying your wallet?"

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    Default Re: "Do you need help with that?" Ughh!!!

    Yeah. It is kinda sad. Like the community dollar. Or the "Do you have a boyfriend/husband."

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    Default Re: "Do you need help with that?" Ughh!!!

    I actually dont mind it. I think it's cute. The only time I usually let guys "help me" is if they've spent a nice amount of money. I guess it just makes them feel worthy.

    I dunno, but at my club, after the dance I get alot of guys who just like to sit there and watch me get dressed. Now THAT irritates me.







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    Default Re: "Do you need help with that?" Ughh!!!

    I don't mind either after a stage show. I just smile and politely refuse the help.

    I have to agree with CK though, I hate when guys watch me get dressed after a private dance. Luckily, the dressing room is right off of the lapdance room at my club, so I just grab my stuff and go into the dressing room when the dance is over.

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    At my club we walk off the back of the stage to get dressed, and we dance in booths and so we get dressed in there before we come back out onto the floor. But we also have two podiums and two poles on the cocktail bar, and it's always a frantic rush to get dressed at the end of a song because there's another girl waiting to take your place. I'd love it if someone helped me, I've got all these akward halter and back ties to do up - great getting out of them, getting in again is a bit of a mess!
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    ^^Don't untie stuff, just pull it over your head or pull it down. Our stuff is stretchy so it will stretch enough to pull over or down.


    I find the "need help with that" thing a bit annoying because I know they think they're being sooo clever and original. As if we haven't heard it 4000 times before At my stage in the game, I don't think there's ANYthing a custy could say that I haven't heard before. And while that in itself isn't annoying, the times when they think they're being oh-so clever, can be totally annoying. Sometimes I just get tired of coming up with a clever/cute way to say no.

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    One of my biggest pet peeves was when they tried to help you get something OFF. Yes, I made sure to take a looooooooooong time to get my clothes off, that was my MO. Few things pissed me off more then trying to seductively pull my bottoms down as I was bending over and flinging my hair back, then Mr. Grabby reaching over and try to pull it down. Fucking relax already bro! It didn't help that every girl around would just rip their shit off right before the song even began!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    ^^Don't untie stuff, just pull it over your head or pull it down. Our stuff is stretchy so it will stretch enough to pull over or down.


    I find the "need help with that" thing a bit annoying because I know they think they're being sooo clever and original. As if we haven't heard it 4000 times before At my stage in the game, I don't think there's ANYthing a custy could say that I haven't heard before. And while that in itself isn't annoying, the times when they think they're being oh-so clever, can be totally annoying. Sometimes I just get tired of coming up with a clever/cute way to say no.
    That's what I was talking about on why it irritates me because I hear like a million times a night and they think it's sooooo funny! And even if I did need help, I wouldn't allow them to help me!!!

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