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    Default Walking out of a dance.

    When do you guys walk out on a dance if it is not to your liking? Is it the first minute, 1/2 way, or do you wait until the end and demand to get another dance for free (seen this happen).

    I've actually seen guys literately get up from lap dance, proceed to another dancer, and tell the original dancer to get out of the LD-chair.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    Well, I've never walked out of a dance. If the dance isn't to my liking then I'll just get one dance from her instead of the multiple dances I'd usually get. Unless she was literally hurting me I don't think I'd walk out on a dance.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    The only time I was ever tempted to walk out on a dance was when a well-meaning dancer grinded SO hard on my coochie that I almost wept. God bless her, she was trying to please, but I don't think she realized just how hard her contact was.
    Needless to say, I didn't ask for another dance.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    When I first started I've done a few awful dances. When the guy complains nicely of course, I give a second dance at a discounted price. Good customer service is the key, besides he may get a vip from me later. Its best to deal with it customer and dancer. When the customer goes to the mgr and complains, the mgr will make you do the whole dance or vip again for free (seen this happen a few times too).

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    I've never walked out on a dance no matter how unpleasant. I'll usually do karaoke in my head until the dance is over.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    i've only had a couple guys "walk out" on me or tell me to stop...... each time it was because i wouldn't let them finger me, wouldn't give them a hand job, etc. after they insisted.

    whatever

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny
    i've only had a couple guys "walk out" on me or tell me to stop...... each time it was because i wouldn't let them finger me, wouldn't give them a hand job, etc. after they insisted.

    whatever
    Too bad for them if they didn't understand the rules. I guess they took their rightful option to leave. You did get the money first, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bob_Loblaw
    I've never walked out on a dance no matter how unpleasant. I'll usually do karaoke in my head until the dance is over.
    LOL!!! What do you sing? "Don't go breaking my heart", "One is the lonely number", or "I didn't mean to turn you on"

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    If its not my liking ill sit and finish the dance. Wont get anymore though from that dancer.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    I'm a tool apparently, if I am buying dances from a girl, then I like her enough to actually let her learn, and pay full price per song, plus tip.

    But she gets to deal with my corny jokes.
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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    On the flip side, I have seen where a dancer is giving a customer a shitty dance. Some places have lap dance rooms with open stalls. That is my chance, after my dance is done (done perfectly of course) I wait until the dissastified customer's dance is done. I ask him if he wants to get a dance from me, and guarantee that my dance will be much better. Sometimes this will automatically get you a VIP.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    Never walked out on a dance, just won't get a 2nd one.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    That's ONLY happened when I wouldn't let a guy lick me or finger me. And I got the money up front.

    I've only ever seen it happen in this instance.

    Even if it's a bad dance... there's still a nekkid girl on your lap.


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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    If a guy doesn't like a dance, then I think instead of walking out, he should tell the dancer what he likes. I've had a few guys tell me moves that they didn't like and in the long run, it really helps me out. I see it kind of like sex, I like the guy to tell me what he does and doesn't like and give me tips on how I could improve.

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    I got a vip from this man. As soon as we walked into the vip area, he was hell bent on having sex. He started unzipping his pants and was about to whip it out exclaiming "Come on, lets go. I want some sex now". I always decline extras nicely if the guy asks nicely, but this guy took the cake. I just laughed, and told him "no you aren't getting anything but a dance and an air dance at that". Well the guy walked out and complained to the mgr. "I paid for a dance and she said she was only going to give me an air dance, blah blah blah". I of course told the mgr that he wanted sex. I don't know what he said to the guy, but the mgr told me that I had to continue the dance because he paid in advance. He kept his hands to himself, but I still gave him a shitty dance.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    I just wait till the end and say thank you and cough up the cash... geez ending early seems rude...

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    Wow, not one guy said that he would walk out. Guess that proves that men are nice afterall

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    I had one guy walk out before the dance even started. He approached me for a dance and when I took him to the back to the dancing booths he started to unzip his pants. I told him to put it up. He was like - so what do I get? All appalled. And I was like you get a great lapdance. And he was like well I just got a divorce and I wanted to celebrate by getting some action and thought this was the place to go. I said maybe but I'm not the girl to go to. He told me thanks and that I probably helped him more than if I'd done what he wanted because he didn't need it or something gay like that, but paid me for two dances and walked out before I even so much as took my top off.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    similar to pooka, i had one guy walk out. and it was after i told him he couldnt touch me. and he tried the "but she let me," and i said, oh want me to get her for you? and then he tried the, well then what do get bit, and i said a great lapdance from a sexy lady, and he just shoved $20 in my hand and practically ran away. he ended up being thrown out later for touching someone else. karma's a bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sassfire
    When do you guys walk out on a dance if it is not to your liking? Is it the first minute, 1/2 way, or do you wait until the end and demand to get another dance for free (seen this happen).
    I wait until the end and don't demand anything.

    Word tends to get around about bitchy high maintenence people, so I've found it a better salve to just cut my losses, pay the gal her money, and move on to someone else.

    Sucks when it happens, but what can you do? I mean, its not like there is a money back guarantee.
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    Oh yah...the only club I go to is one where I know a few of the girls. One night, there was a new girl that was so hot I about started crying. I went up to her, mentioned VIP, and she said she'd meet me up there as soon as she finished a promised dance. Anyway, she came up, and she started dancing very fast, and kept pushing her ass on to my chest. What killed it for me was her style, and that her shorts and long sleeved half top reeked like Suavitel® (I hate the smell of that stuff). I told her that I wasn't into the dance, gave her 30, told her thanks, and got up and walked down to my former seat on the floor. I'll be damned if she didn't come up to me 5 more times on the floor and ask me to go back up to VIP, that she had "warmed up" and wanted to dance for me some more "in the dark"...

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    I may not have ever walked out on a dance, but I've certainly mentally checked out early a few times. The worst was a poor girl who turned out to have some hygiene challenges who was compounding her issues by trying to sell some extras that were really not wanted. In retrospect she may have just been trying to earn enough money to pick up some badly needed body spray or perfume.

    I couldn't fathom walking out on a dance before the song was over but then I'm not going to actually get a dance from anyone I don't find attractive to begin with (even the smelly girl was cute).

    I'm more troubled by trying to figure out the best way to say "no" when getting hustled for a VIP from someone I don't want to be with. A quick "no thank you" seems rude but any subsequent conversation just takes away the time she could be using to hustle someone else. I've been developing the perfect technique of picking my nose the minute a dancer I don't want to be with sits down. Most find that pretty repulsive so it has cut down on the number of unwanted solicitations. The downside though is that it's also resulted in the rest of the girls giving me a pretty wide berth as well so perhaps it needs a bit more refinement.

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    Default Re: Walking out of a dance.

    I have never walked out on a dance but have certainly had some where the first one was the last with that gal.
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    Yeah, I wouldn't ever walk out of a dance..... That would be SOOOO rude. I would just finish it and not buy anther one.

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    I walked out on one chick before. I put up with alot of stuff, but this girl just really put me off. We went to the back and she ordered a drink while we talked. It was the middle of the song so I told her to wait till the next one started. Anyways before this I told her I didn't drink, she had asked because I had ordered a sprite. Anyways as the next song is about to start she says she has to go do something and if I would wait and give her the money up front. I didn't really mind, until she was gone for like 6 songs. She finally gets back and the first thing she does is ask me to drink some of her wine. She had left it on the table and basically accused me of spiking it. She then made it worse because I didn't wanna drink it and making it look like I did spike it. I finally took a sip to show her I hadn't spiked it and then she get's all bubbly again and asks if I'm ready for the dance. (I was ready 6 songs ago!) Anyways the song starts and this chick starts fidgeting with her costume and talking about how cute it is for like a minute and a half. This is a topless bar mind you. Song is probably halfway over and she sit's on my lap she barely does anything then gets up and gives me a peek at her pink and said it's a treat for waiting so long. I got up and left. I told her I had to work in the morning and I had overstayed my visit. She already had the money for the dance so I didn't feel bad about that.

    That's the only time I've walked out on a dance, but considering the situation I think it was the best course of action. I wasn't about to sit through it and get more aggravated or ruin another girls night so I felt leaving was best.

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