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    i was going to post this in the ladies only section but i kinda want guys opinions too!

    ok, so i've been posting a lot recently about my ex. but then i met this reeeally cute guy who seemed super sweet. he knows my ex, and said he thought i deserved to have a nice guy in my life and gave me his number. this was on halloween. we havent hung out yet, but thats mostly because we are both super busy.. he bartends, i dance, plus im in school. we did talk for almost 2 hours last tuesday though, and we text almost every day, even if just to say hi. we made plans for monday, and today we were talking and he asked if i wanted to hang out at his place tonight. i said i'd be at my parents til 10:30ish but i'd give him a call when i was leaving and come over. he said ok with a smiley face, so was i wrong to think we were hanging out? HE suggested it, HE seemed ok with it being later in the night.. and then i text him around 9:30 with no answer. I text him again at about 10:15, said i thought we were hanging out. it is 12:20 and i havent heard from him. I didnt want to call after i sent 2 text messages with no response, should I have? And now I'm wondering if we're still going to go out tomorrow..

    any ideas?

    by the way, i heard from a friend of mine who knows him that he's a decent guy, so even more reason to be a little confused..
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    Don't be confused. Did you hang out with him or not? Understand the miscommunication, question why, and listen to the answer. It will make sense, apply the newly learned behavioral understanding next time. He'll do the same.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    Did you hang out with him or not?
    no! i never heard from him

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    Once you attempt contact and they don't respond...drop it...move on. If he really wants to contact you, he will do so. Texting and calling him relentlessly is only wasting your time.

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    And a little bit of a turn off (to me anyway)

    However I will say this. Text messages are unreliable.

    Don't jump to any conclusions yet, there are about a million things that could have happened. It's a little flakey yes but I say take it with a grain of salt until it becomes a pattern from him.

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    You've made the effort, now see if he makes an equal effort. Just don't jump to conclusions or get your hopes too high.

    Wait it out and see what happens.
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    If it helps, once it took almost 7 hours for my boyfriends text message to get to my phone....
    Other times it only took a minute or two.
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

    "Her apartment is littered with soggy G-strings and cheap 8-inch heeled shoes, along with empty tubes of body glitter, mascara, prescription drugs, zit cream, Aqua Net and Polaroid pictures of her and her "friends" engaged in some drinking and dancing on St. Patrick's Day last year. " My God....

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    well it is now 3:30 on monday and i havent heard from him.. except a comment on myspace saying 'oh i see you found me!' because i added him. yeah, i give up. i dont get why HE made such a big deal of hanging out and making plans and kept texting saying he couldnt wait to.. and then.. yuck.

    britt=done with guys. i have enough stress in my life.

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