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    Angry More Madness From The extras girl.

    Hey everyone, I am back again to share another story of the girl that I posted about a week or two ago. I do not normally make a habit of just giving up, but over the weekend I found out that every girl in my club does something extra whether it be a hj, bj, and even all the way. the girl that I was telling everyone about is the top earner because of this. I had a chance to sit back and watch her and how she does. Get this she rubs their hair and just basically says to them when they ask how much a dance is she says. "It depends on how much fun you want to have, I specialize in fantasies, fetishes, and smiles. then if this doesn't work she whispers in their ear that she will give them head or whatever they want. She actually sat down and talked to me about doing these things to increase my money. I found out that I am the least paid earner in this whole club. we now have only three dancers and I work almost ten hours a day. I am about to lose my mind. I do not know what to do. The thing is that the club is well known for this and the cops do not care, so there is no chance what so ever that this girl is going to get busted. Going to another club is not an option. I enjoy private dancing which is basically what we do. This girl is making over 3000 a week and I am bringing home barely 250 I have been in this gig for almost six years and she just started. When I asked her why she crossed the fence so to speak, she said that the turning point for her was when she got offered 300 to do extras twice by the same customer and she decided that was it, she was going to do whatever she had to do to make good money. Help me please somebody. I do not know what to do anymore. I even spoke with my fiance about all of this and he said as long as I want to do it, then I can do it, just be safe. He makes his own money and I work for mine too, so I know he is not trying to pimp me out, I just do not know what to do or what to say. I do not want to become an extras girl, but I have little boy to take care of and I do not want him to grow up in a poor family like I did. My only thing if I did do things like this I have no idea what to charge. That is the only thing she will not tell me is how much she charges. She just says that she starts out high then works it down so they think they are getting a deal. Most of the time she comes out with over 400 dollars per dance. and our club is a small wanna dance club. Please somebody help me. Ps. if you want you can pm me that way we can be discreet about the whole deal.
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    Default Re: More Madness From The extras girl.

    1. Switching clubs is ALWAYS an option. When you say it's not, it's all in your head and you are doing yourself a disservice.

    2. If you want to earn money without doing the extras, you are going to have to suck it up and switch clubs. That's it.

    3. If you are not totally comfortable with sex for money, you will be doing yourself a great disservice if you go ahead and do it.

    4. If you ARE totally comfortable with sex for money, and that is what everyone is doing at this private dance club, then do it. Just make sure you are doing it SAFELY, and charge as much as you can get. The amount varies by area, club and girl. We can't really tell you that.

    5. I recommend private escorting instead of working in this club, if you are seriously comfy with sex for money. You'll get better clients and you can choose your customers, do your own screening. There are sources for information on escorting, if you search on the web. Obviously, a site for strippers isn't really the place for the best info on hooking / escorting.

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    If you are seriously ok with having sex for money...why not do adult magazine and film shoots? Safer, more professional and since everyone there has the same goal(doing a good job so money can be made) you run less of a risk that you will pick up a stalker, etc...
    Not to mention that anyone reputable in the business will be tested so health-wise it is safer.
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    Default Re: More Madness From The extras girl.

    I totally agree with Bridgette!!! If you are not comfortable doing extras (from the sound of your message, it sounds like you're not ok with it) then you should switch clubs. Heck, even if you have to drive an hour or more each way, it's worth it. Or, travel out of state for long weekends and have your mom or someone watch your son. You'd make a lot more money than $250/wk! Doing extras has never been an option for me and if I had to, I'd travel too because if you're not cool with it and you end up doing it, you'll end up hurting yourself and your family in the long run with emotional problems, guilt, ect. Check out the club reviews section, I'm sure there's somewhere else you can go, even if you have to do some traveling and stay in a hotel for a couple nights a week. You might be able to work 3 days and make 2-3 times what you're making now and do everything that's in your comfort zone, but you're the only one that can truely make that decision. Good luck!

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    I agree - figure out a way to switch clubs. I drive over an hour to work because it's worth it for my well being. Alot of girls drive more.

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    If doing extra is going to make you feel like shit(which it sounds like)...drive. I work in a club 4 hours away...I work my home club til I cant take it anymore, then I take a week or two and drive 4 hours to the good club and bank. Maybe you can do that...so you arent traveling ALL the time
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    I work in a club that's an hour away because I make more money there and they actually have bouncers (the other club I worked at didn't) so I feel safer and there are no extras going on at my current club. I only work weekends now because I can't travel that far on school nights, but it's worth it because in those 2 nights a week I work, I make more than what I made working a full week at my other club. If you don't want to do extras, find a club you can travel to a couple nights a week and make better money.
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    Default Re: More Madness From The extras girl.

    generally agreed with the other posters ... you have finally discovered the 'reality' of your club's business model, and realize that it will be necessary to compete 'stroke for stroke' with the other dancers if you want to earn decent money in this club. The next question, though, is how far would it actually be necessary to travel to another club in another market / jurisdiction that does have decent earnings potential without it being necessary to perform extras.

    For $250 a WEEK there are probably a lot of 'straight job' options out there as well that would also involve some benefits and some seniority building.

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