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    So maybe I am a stupid newbie, only been at it 4 months, but after feeling like a whore this past weekend I took a few days off and came to a very simple conclusion: I am putting my foot down.

    The extra $10 or $20 or $500 I make for letting the little things slide is not making me happy, so there will be no hands on my boobs, ass, whatever while i am at your table trying to make a sale....Your lips will not make contact with any part of my skin (except the back of my hand)...and you will NOT make the same mistake twice of trying to touch under my g-string.

    I was super stern about it tonight, and I think I did better than I would have normally. Weird, I think the guys like being dominated. And I switched how I dance onstage to match this new stern persona. Once my temper is fully under control, I will be sweet talker again. But for now, this is safer (so I don't risk blowing up at a custie) and far more satisfying.

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    Congradulations! I'm proud of you!

    Now you know your comfort levels and boundries. Insist upon them, and you will get a lot more satisfaction out of your job. Know how to avoid the guys just looking for extras, as it will just be a waste of your time.

    It is so fun turning down customers who ask for dances. The first time that an extra's customer asks you for a dance and you say "I can't I'm too busy right now." while playing the video crack machine is freaking hiliarious.

    Sometimes I turn down dances because I like the power trip. It usually puts me in such a good mood that I make more than usual that night.


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    good on ya babe, its not worth the money to let them away with things that make u feel bad about yourself.

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    That's great you have recognized what your boundaries are. Stick with them. Don't ever take any disrespect from anyone. Good girl!
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    Woo hoo!!! Its great that you are setting your limits. Its great to have that "You can't fuck with me" pride in yourself.
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

    "Her apartment is littered with soggy G-strings and cheap 8-inch heeled shoes, along with empty tubes of body glitter, mascara, prescription drugs, zit cream, Aqua Net and Polaroid pictures of her and her "friends" engaged in some drinking and dancing on St. Patrick's Day last year. " My God....

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    Good for you!! I know what you mean about the whole dominating/domineering thing when it comes to your boundaries-you do end up making more $$ like that-it's so strange!! It shows that you're confident and know what you will/won't allow and you're a sexy bitch regardless, so if they don't shape up you'll ship their ass out!

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    Quote Originally Posted by virgoamm
    Good for you!! I know what you mean about the whole dominating/domineering thing when it comes to your boundaries-you do end up making more $$ like that-it's so strange!! It shows that you're confident and know what you will/won't allow and you're a sexy bitch regardless, so if they don't shape up you'll ship their ass out!
    This is exactly how I handled myself..I put them in their place..

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    Default Re: Feeling like a whore-reality check

    Most of those guys just think "ehh, she doesn't want my money - I'll find someone who does." And that is FINE.

    Respect your boundaries and you will do MUCH better at this job. Good for you girl! I wouldn't bother going back to the sweet-talking. Keep that attitude - it works for me

    The hard-core mileage hounds will simply move on to other girls, and those who aren't so demanding will submit. I make much more money by sticking to my boundaries than I ever did otherwise.
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    The customer reaction is pretty simple, I think -- dancers who respect themselves get the respect of customers. Most of us like confident women -- we are looking for someone who knows how to show us a good time. If you give off the vibes of a confident professional, men are going to assume that you know how to do that.

    So by setting boundaries you are showing that you respect yourself and know what you are doing. And a lot of us find that quite attractive!

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    Good for you!! I had that problem when I was new and I felt that telling a guy to stop would sound mean. (I hate being touched at all during dances, anywhere) Now I tell them not to touch before the dances.
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