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    It seems that whenever I tell a customer that he can't touch me with his hands, they always seem to think it's okay to kiss on my neck when I lean back on him during a dance. It makes my skin crawl!! How do I handle this? What do I say without being rude and maybe risking another dance?

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    The only thing you can do is tell him no and risk another dance. If it's a deal breaker, it's a deal breaker. You pipe down for the guys who want their hands all over your tits, too? Seems to me the neck kissing thing is a lot more intimate.

    Or just don't lean back on him.

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    no matter how nice you are about it, they get offended.

    i hate when they try to put their mouth all over me (which is most of them). usualy they do it before i can stop them, like when i'm leaning back. i tell them no or give subtle hints that i didn't like it.... but they keep doing it. i used to think "why would a guy want to do something to a girl when he knows it offends her/grosses her out/etc. then i realized the answer "because most of them don't CARE how it makes you feel". simple. obvious. true.

    sorry.... i am in an -extreamely- bad mood right now.

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    Put Bitter Apple on your neck, or tea tree oil. LOL

    I'm not going to say how I deal with this, but it's not as nice as reprimands and odorants.

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    Just put bitter apple on your neck. Hell bathe in it. Maybe then, if we all do it, the fuckers will keep their damn mouths OFF of us.

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    How fitting that a product for misbehaving puppies is just as effective on men!

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    So if a dancer gives me an unsolicited kiss on the cheek should I be grossed out too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by skanklover
    So if a dancer gives me an unsolicited kiss on the cheek should I be grossed out too?
    wouldn't you be if you found her repulsive or if she licked/slobbered all over you?

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    If you made your contact rules to her ahead of time and she broke them to give you an unsolicited kiss on the cheek then sure, be grossed out. A kiss on the cheek is alot different than someone trying to slobber and lick and make out with your neck IMO. Its even better when you try to hint subtly by moving away from them and they practically hold you down and grunt in your ear.

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    Y'know... I've gotten dances and I can totally understand the urge to lick/kiss the strippers, I can. You are REALLY tempted to... it's just so close and.... lliiiick....

    The difference?

    I don't actually DO it.

    Fer Chrissakes, men need to learn self-control!

    And until then, I vouch for the Bitter Apple Spray.


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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Fer Chrissakes, men need to learn self-control!
    Self control? What's that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan
    Fer Chrissakes, men need to learn self-control!
    I challenge you to a month of non-general man hate... actually generalities at all.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PookaShell
    Its even better when you try to hint subtly by moving away from them and they practically hold you down and grunt in your ear.
    agreed. it's damned EXCELLENT. /sarcasm

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    urgh i need to get some of that stuff. it makes me feel ill and actually makes me shudder when customers try to nuzzle my neck, let alone kiss it. i think i'd walk out on a dance if someone kissed my neck, eew.

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    I only do the neck kiss/nuzzle after my 8th bag of fungions and Heinekens. Sometimes I hold a burp in but let it seep out my teeth.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    I only do the neck kiss/nuzzle after my 8th bag of fungions and Heinekens. Sometimes I hold a burp in but let it seep out my teeth.
    Ahhh, so that was YOU the other night! I was wondering what that god-awful smell was.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by virgoamm
    Ahhh, so that was YOU the other night! I was wondering what that god-awful smell was.......
    mmmmm fungions, Heineken, Plastic and Vaseline... it's a unique smell... come here... I want to take you away from all this.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laylas
    How fitting that a product for misbehaving puppies is just as effective on men!
    OMG!!!!!!!!!
    I laughed so hard reading this my tummy hurts!
    The funny part is I rub my husbands ears to calm him down (it works really well), the vet said to do this to my pomeranian to calm her down. I've never told my hubby where I learned this though.

    Jasmine

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    this is similar to my issue of ear licking/nibbling. but bitter apple in my ear just doesnt sound like it's a good thing to do lol. in any case, i feel your pain! not ok to lick my neck or stick your tongue in my ear... EUW. *shudders at thought*

    Love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine
    OMG!!!!!!!!!
    I laughed so hard reading this my tummy hurts!
    The funny part is I rub my husbands ears to calm him down (it works really well), the vet said to do this to my pomeranian to calm her down. I've never told my hubby where I learned this though.

    Jasmine

    It works, doesn't it! I rarely get into arguments with women, but when I do, those who just argue back toe to toe don't get very far. On the other hand, those who reach out, touch, and disarm -- they carry the day every time.

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    Alright, a case of bitter apple it is!!!!! Thanks.

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    I would act spastic, like you were super ticklish on your neck and for him not to do that or you may pee on him accidently but do it all giggly and flirty and if hes handsy then say you really like it when a guys rub your knees, it makes you want to cum all over. i would occasionally see my friend getting these intense knee massages in the back, and wondered why....

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    I said to this to the last guy (and truth be told I have said it to more than one guy) who licked my neck or any other part of me, I sat up, turned to him and said..."Ya know you just licked me in the exact same spot that guy did, want me to have him come over so the two of you can make out in person?" And then I point to the closest unsavory looking guy I can find......

    Cruel, but effective...... This can be followed up so many ways, I personally take a stern tone and say, "Next time you might want to think before you stick your mouth in strange places."




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    so is it ok for a dancer to give an unsolicited kiss on the cheek? I think that it all depends on how well you know the person...dancer or customer.

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