From a lot of the posts here it sounds like some dancers do not really enjoy dancing for men, some seemed to be grossed out and really turned off by their customers. I understand that when a customer goes overboard and crosses personal boundaries that anyone would be disgusted and angry.
I can only imagine (since I don't dance publicly) that in the beginning dancing would be a turn-on, like 'look all these guys think I'm hot!' and somewhat ego-boosting.
So...I assume this feeling changes over time? That maybe a couple of bad experiences changes the way a dancer feels towards the majority of customers? If so, why would anybody want to go into a club an pay for the dances when he might think that the person dancing for them is mentally rolling their eyes and thinking they are better than you?
I get that not all customers are respectful, good tippers, and everything that would be desirable.
Anyhow, here are my questions; do you think that you started out enjoying dancing and getting a rush from it, and that feeling went away? Do you still dance only for the money? Or are there some of you who generally enjoy dancing for the feeling you get from having all eyes on you and being lusted after? Are you grossed out by all customers?
I'm truly only curious because of the insane amount of posts that seem to be screaming "EEEEWWWWW!!!, this customer....." Because to a person that doesn't hang out in strip clubs for any other reason than pleasure, it makes me think "Then why are you freakin dancing, if all you do is complain about the customers?"
No offense meant to anybody, again, just curious.





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