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    Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    I'm not trying to make a rant here but:

    I used to be a prostitute and i decided that it would be best to clean up and become a dancer. I know that i will probably get blasted for this but, are there any extras girls on here? I would love to hear what they have to say about this.
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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    You won't get blasted for it, but you're also not going to get very many responses. This is like shopping at KMart. Nobody admits to doing it, but the parking lot is always full.

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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    thanks for telling me. I just had that thought and decided to put it out there.
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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    I don't do extras. Not because I have a problem with prostitution, but because I feel it has no home in a strip club. If you're gonna be a pro, be a pro, but not at a strip club.

    I have an acquaintance who got into escorting through dancing, but she stopped dancing when she started escorting. I don't know if they're still considered extras, but she didn't do them at the club and she charged very high prices for any of the custies she got from the club. Like I said, she stopped dancing and decided to become an escort.

    I have no problem with escorts and have personally known a few.

    BUT as a dancer, selling sex at the club just doesn't make good business sense because you are devaluing your product by offering substantially more for what is often not that much more money. And if your cusite can buy sex at the club, why is he gonna pay for anything less than that?

    As far as advice for a former pro turned dancer, if you are still going to prostitute, while you may be tempted to get johns at work, keep the 2 VERY separate. Do not pick up johns at work b/c you'll be known for it and fewer men will be willing to pay you for just dancing. The more business-like you can be about it, the better.

    If you're going to be a pro, be a pro. If you're going to be a dancer, ber a dancer. Just DO NOT do them at them same time in the same arena.

    No judgement here babe, it's just business and the extras girls fuck with potential cash flow of the business. Just like the pro who is willing to screw for a $20 fucked with your money back when you were a pro charging a more appropriate price.

    Having said that, my customers, the type of men who generally hand their wallets over to me, are generally not the ones looking for extras so it doesn't hurt my dough all that much.
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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by IsabellaRouma
    I don't do extras. Not because I have a problem with prostitution, but because I feel it has no home in a strip club. If you're gonna be a pro, be a pro, but not at a strip club.



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    Damia, is your plan to be an extras girl? Is that what you're saying?
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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    Good question. I didn't quite get that either... I'm hoping the answer is a resounding NO... if only b/c it makes no fiscal sense and will only hurt your money as a dancers and possibly other dancers' money too...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    You won't get blasted for it, but you're also not going to get very many responses. This is like shopping at KMart. Nobody admits to doing it, but the parking lot is always full.
    yes, well said. Most girls who do it say something like, "what?! no! never!" when asked if they do it. but offer them the right kinda cash, and they will do it behind a semi closed door.

    so, are you saying you will become an extras girl? really i hope not, because like the other chicas said, it has no place *inside* of the club. totally does devalue the product and puts the club at risk for shutdown.

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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    extras as far as what?

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    ^^i think extras are extras. a bj, a hj, fucking. all one in the same in a SC, in that they don't come standard with a lap dance. right?

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    I should say that extras vary a lot depending on what club and city and state you are in. Some clubs allow air dances only and no touching at all. Some clubs allow the men to touch the women all over their bodies.

    Not to say that all of the points about providing extras are invalid -- it certainly is not the best strategy for a lot of reasons -- just that when you say 'extras girl' it might not be remotely related in physical activity to your prostitution work, just in ethics. In some clubs, letting a guy brush his hand against the outside of your thigh will get you called a hooker by other girls in the club. In other clubs, he might be allowed to fondle your breasts as par for the course.

    When thinking about extras you should look into the club culture and figure out what that means so that you can figure out your boundaries and comfort levels (very important to keeping sane), not to mention what is and is not good for the club as a whole.

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    ok, ill buy that too anomar. way to make me eat my words right back up. yum.

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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    yea that is what i meant because it varies from club to club.


    Yea iv'e done it prob will never do it again. Low end spectrum of extras that is.

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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    Depends on what you mean by extras. By many a girl's standard I am a complete whore.
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    lol jenny....

    Just for being a dancer i am sure i am considered a complete whore... but to other dancers maybe just a partial one

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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    Well, maybe there was a LITTLE self-aggrandizement there. Maybe I'm only 60% whore.
    Seriously, though, I am willing to do a lot of contact that other girls on this board wouldn't do. I'm willing to do some non-contact things that a lot of girls in my club are unwilling to do.
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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    My club is suppose to be fairly non contact but it's quite high mileage. A lot of touching in the champagne room... But the girls who are iur big earners have all sorts of rumors swirl about them of being 'extra' girls. I wonder how much of it is the fact that they make the most money and have that slutty air about them? They def. go farther as a rule then most girls but not *that* much farther even then me! I can't imagine a hj,bj, etc in my club, it's much too open plan (and speaking to the head waiter who drives me home, he's never seen even a glimpse of that, having been there 5 years, and I believe and trust him to be honest on that note) He aknowledges it gets naughty but not pants undone naughty!!

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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    I have never had any kind of contact for money. However I have touched myself (masterbated) for a bigger tip. Also before I got married I would allow my regulars to touch my waist, shoulders, or hips during a lap dance, which was not allowed in my club.

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    Definition-

    Extras= anything you personally allow that goes beyond the rules of the club you are working in. Rules at clubs vary greatly, as do actions that may be considered "extras".
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

    "Her apartment is littered with soggy G-strings and cheap 8-inch heeled shoes, along with empty tubes of body glitter, mascara, prescription drugs, zit cream, Aqua Net and Polaroid pictures of her and her "friends" engaged in some drinking and dancing on St. Patrick's Day last year. " My God....

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    ^^Good definition! That about sums it up.......

    In that case, then yah, I guess I have done extras before. I have let a guy put his hand on my butt for a bit, or let him graze my nipple, stuff like that which the club frowns upon (simultaniously turning their heads to the girls getting a custy off with a 3 minute butt grind)




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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    there are "extras" and then there are "EXTRAS"

    I think most of us (probably all) have done something that pushed the limits of the rules, but were were we sucking and fucking?

    When I think of an extras girl, I don't think of a girl that lets guys feel her tits or rubs her ass on his bulge.

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    Sure, I'm an extras girl who does extras all the freakin time...the thing is, I'm only an "extras girl" in my personal life on a volunteer-only basis.





    (in other words, I can be slutty but I'm not a whore)

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    Default Re: Is there anyone on here that's an extra's girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    there are "extras" and then there are "EXTRAS"

    I think most of us (probably all) have done something that pushed the limits of the rules, but were were we sucking and fucking?

    When I think of an extras girl, I don't think of a girl that lets guys feel her tits or rubs her ass on his bulge.
    Neither do I. When I think of extras, I think of HJ, BJ, fingering, or just full out sex.

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    well, i've worked clean in a few clubs and I've made no money what so ever. I was considering going out to the higher mileaged clubs in SF and LA and try my luck out there. But if it's really that bad I'm not going to do it. I'm just rethinking my plan of action, trying to look at all of my options.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    there are "extras" and then there are "EXTRAS"

    I think most of us (probably all) have done something that pushed the limits of the rules, but were were we sucking and fucking?

    When I think of an extras girl, I don't think of a girl that lets guys feel her tits or rubs her ass on his bulge.
    Most Definately. I'm sure almost everyone on here has done some tiny things that have stretched the rules. It's everyone's personal opinion on how far is "too far"
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

    "Her apartment is littered with soggy G-strings and cheap 8-inch heeled shoes, along with empty tubes of body glitter, mascara, prescription drugs, zit cream, Aqua Net and Polaroid pictures of her and her "friends" engaged in some drinking and dancing on St. Patrick's Day last year. " My God....

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