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    So after my stint with dancing I was just like most dancers; not exactly shy about showing all bar the thong (was a topless dancer).

    Now that I don't dance, and most people don't know about my secret past, they get the impression I'm a total prude and conservative etc.

    I feel *weird* wearing cleavagey things or being overtly sexual for free! I see girls downtown wearing all manner of slutty gear and I just wonder why anyone would do it if they're not getting money thrust at them.

    I very rarely wear 'tittie' tops and such and I try to explain to my husband why I tend to only do 'shows' at home rather than wearing skirts up the wazoo and cleavage tops down to 'there' out in public (aside from it being so not cool for a 30 year old). Why on earth would I give all the blokes a free show and the opportunity to objectify me and not talk to my face?

    It is definitely a side effect of stripping. I have zero 'need' to show an overtly sexy side because I sexed myself sideways on stage all that time wearing crystal lycra and whatever....

    The irony is that people think I'm just a good girl who doesn't dress that way. Oh how I laugh... ain't no such thing as a free show from a stripper! (even after retirement).

    Which leads me to a job I did yesterday for a TV commercial where I was in a bubble bath... there was all kind of hushed speaking, 'closed set', blah blah blah for poor precious me because they thought i'd be shy about getting the girls out.

    I had a bikini on and they thought it was a big deal for me to get my top off under the bubbles! I would've been quite comfortable darting round the set in a thong and no top... but of course I didn't tell them that.. I just let them baby me...

    all that fuss for a hint of boobies.

    A stripper history is a secret weapon for conservative girl...

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    Haha. That's funny. Wonder what they'd have done if you had pranced around in your thong.

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    LOL, I dress like a prude most of the time. The rest I am just a blue jean chick. You for the life on me. I do not understand, why it is ok for a woman to dress skanky, slutty, or very sexy on the street. But when she dose it in a strip club it is degrading! I think a lot women have thier priorities mix up! It dose not make since to me to show your hot body for free.

    It's like knowing how many licks do it take to get to the center of the toosie roll in the tossie pop. I guest I will never know!
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    Thats the best part of what we do.... it doesn't define who we are when it comes to how we choose to carry outselfs in public.

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    haha i know what u mean!!!

    i hardly dress as sexy as i used too. i do like to show some cleavage, and yes, i also dont feel the need to dress "sexy", since i dress way too sexy at the club already, and im sick of guys checking me out OTC, because they cant give me any money for it! in the club, if a guy checks me out, i use that to my advantage, you know.

    its weird, i know some people look at me like im a total good girl, who doesnt wanna tottaly show her body off. i wear long hippish skirts and just tank tops, not that much makeup, and messy hair. they probably think i work at a thrift store or somethin. little do they know what i do at night! they woudlnt give me a second look on the street, but in the club, it would be different. some guys do check me out when i have no makeup, ratty clothes, and im thinkin 'wtf?'

    anyways thats cool u got to do a commercial..cant beielve they thought ud be all embarassed to be in a bikini, only if they knew , right!
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    I have such a sweet, quiet, good girl vibe about me that people are literally shocked if I choose to tell them what I do. I attend culinary school and the chef apoligized to me because another student said "shit" during class. If only they knew!

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    LOL me too... I'm all crunchy granola with jeans and tshirts or long flowy skirts. The other day I was skinny dipping with some new friends and they were shocked that I shave down there... imagine if they'd have known I wear make up and six inch heels and dance nekkid under the black light LOL



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    LOL! You are so right! Being so sexual at work definately changes the way you look at your body outside of work. I feel bad for my boyfriend sometimes though because I can be so conservative at times and I know he wishes I'd get dressed up like I do at work every once in awhile!
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    I'm not currently stripping and not only am I a sexual conservative, I never show anyone anything.

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    I'm still dancing, and agree with the OP. Most of my friends dres sexier than I do, out in public. I must look like a conservative prude when I go out with non-stripping friends. I do have slutty clothes that I wear to and from work...Gotta maintain that image!


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    I had a custy one time comment on all of us ladies coming into work dressed in our jeans and sweats and big non-form fitting tops. He looked very confused and said,"why don't you ladies wear sexier clothes to work and outside?"

    I just smiled and shrugged my shoulders.

    I'll never forget the first time I told my asst mgr that I was a dancer. She was in shock and told me when I had first interviewed her that she thought to herself the first time she met me, oh great Mary Friggin Poppins is interviewing me.
    I thought that was so funny.

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    I'm definately a jeans and t-shirt girl. But, keep in mind we are not all the same. I went out one night with a girl from work and we went dancing. She had a skirt that showed her cheeks every time she took a step, and rolled her top all the way up to her bra!!!! Damn, I cover myself up more than that when I'm walking around the club!!
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

    "Her apartment is littered with soggy G-strings and cheap 8-inch heeled shoes, along with empty tubes of body glitter, mascara, prescription drugs, zit cream, Aqua Net and Polaroid pictures of her and her "friends" engaged in some drinking and dancing on St. Patrick's Day last year. " My God....

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    Yet it seems funny that the same girls who will dress like that are usually the ones who put down strippers for dressing like whores, etc...

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