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    Default Friends with a custy? any suggestions

    Hi all...it has been a while since i have been on here? Anyone ever become really good friends with a customer and kind of have feelings for him, but havent done anything about it! Im not sure why he isnt more aggressive with me..we have become quite close and screw around when drinking, but never have had sex...anyone with similar situations. Is it wierd that I still dance for him at the club even though we see each other as friends outside the club????

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    Ummm, while it isn't impossible for dancers and customers to be pals (or even, heavens, date!), the fact that he still gets dances from you (and pays for 'em, one assumes) is weird, yes.

    You two need to sort out the nature of your relationship. From his point of view, he is understandably confused about your motives, since you continue to charge him for your time inside the club.

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    Default Re: Friends with a custy? any suggestions

    Quote Originally Posted by Alexis123
    Hi all...it has been a while since i have been on here? Anyone ever become really good friends with a customer and kind of have feelings for him, but havent done anything about it! Im not sure why he isnt more aggressive with me..we have become quite close and screw around when drinking, but never have had sex...anyone with similar situations. Is it wierd that I still dance for him at the club even though we see each other as friends outside the club????
    Alexis, if your non-dancer best friend was in the same situation, what would you tell her...

    That's right. It's either "Sweety you need to remove all doubt and level with him" Or "He's just not that into you."

    Chances are he is, but you need to come out and let him know. Anyone who's beautiful gets hit on regularly, He may be afraid of rejection considering the nature of your relationship. Be direct. It rocks. Trust me.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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