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    Sad I feel like a newbie

    I've been taking some time off to deal with personal and physical things (the majority of which I've already shared in other posts, so we don't need to rehash here). Tonight, I gathered up my metaphorical balls and had myself put on the schedule for next Friday. Then I came home and started freaking out like a newb.

    All of these unbidden thoughts keep coming into my head. What if I've forgotten how to make flirty small talk with repulsive men? What if my body isn't what the boys want? What if the girls who are there now don't like me? What if I can't get a locker? What if I fall on my face because of the 7" heels? What if I don't make any money?

    ARG!! I am not like this. I just keep flashing back to my newbie days and man, were they ugly. I do not want to repeat them. *so worried*

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    Default Re: I feel like a newbie

    Sweety--


    If I had to bet, I would bet that you will do fine. It may feel a bit strange at first, I get that way after an extended break. but, sooner then later-- I remember that this job is more fun if you have fun with it. Relax. Breathe. Smile.

    You will be great.
    No worries.

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    Default Re: I feel like a newbie

    aw! i think the same time, and it makes me less money when i have this mindset.

    u have to change it! go in there with a positive attitude(i know hard, especailly when u had a rough day and u dont feel like putting up with anyones bullshit anymore), but just PRETEND like yer in a good mood, evenetually, it will start to rub off on you.

    and yes, like classicsmonatna said, its more fun if u have fun with it.

    also, dont act like u "need" their approval about if yer body looks good and what not, u dont need their approval! go in thinking u ARE the sexiest one there, walk with yer head up, sway those hips, smile at everyone.

    and my god, it is hard to flirt with replusive men - i just try to pretend i relally do think theyre cute/charming, or at least i act like that towards them haha. and if the girls dont like u, take it as a compliment ..theyre probably just jealous! and if u fall ,laugh it off! and i try not to think bout not making any money, cuz when i do, i make LESS!

    anyways hope u feel better. i felt this way like last week and it was horriable. last nite i pretended i wasnt myself, i imagined myself to just be a hot stripper, that I"M not dealing with the bullshit, my "stripper alias" is. and i did way better last nite.

    go get em haha! (man sorry for the long post, i jus type so fast that i dont realize how much im wrirting!)
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    Yeah once you get back into the groove you'll be out of you newbie-ism
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    Default Re: I feel like a newbie

    i took time off early last year, 3 months, and when i went to go back, i felt the same way. i was freaked! i thought i'd forgotten it all, i had the same fleeting thoughts about making small talk to repulsive men, but in the end, when i got back there, it was truly like i never left. a wise moderator once said, "stop worrying! it'll be easy peasy. it's jsut like riding a bike." (Emily)
    i'm so glad she was right. and the same applies for you, rozz. you will be FINE! all this time spent worrying is for nothing, because you will walk back into the club and knock 'em all dead, and take their wallets too! just take a long bath the night before. relax. destress in all ways possible. and pep talk yoruself up before work on friday. listen to a good song before getting out of the car, and know you are one hot mama!

    edit: rozz, i LOVE your avatar... gir is one of my fave cartoon characters of all time, zim is a close second.

    Love it!

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