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    Hey y'all---
    So I'm doing a private bachelor's party in NYC (six guys, all nondrinkers and self-professed nerds, so I don't think I'll run into any huge misbehaving problems), and I've done one private party before (which was the opposite, and a pretty bad experience), so I'm just wanting to know how to fill the hour/1.5 hours I've committed to. I'll be the only dancer, and I'll do a striptease and lapdances, obviously, but I am worrying about filling up the time. It's taking place in a hotel conference room... not the most sexy locale.

    Also, I don't think I asked for a high enough minimum, so I need to figure out nice ways to encourage them to tip.

    I normally work in clubs so I'm just worried about not having enough to do unless I get ideas. These guys seem pretty docile, so I know that I'll definitely have to take control of the situation, cause they don't really know what they want. Plus they'll be sober!

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    Default Re: doing a private party, any suggestions?

    Try actually looking through all the other threads. Do a search. This HAS been covered.

    BTW, why won't they drink? Will they do shots at the very least? I actually prefer the crowd to be a little buzzed .. not drunk just buzzed. It helps ALOT.


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    Default Re: doing a private party, any suggestions?

    Thanks, will do. I can't believe it, but they won't drink! It really does help loosen up the vibe. I guess they're just not drinkers...

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    I know some "nerds" like that. They are likely to politely stay in their chairs. Some will make a little noise, while others will just shyly watch. If they seem that tame, maybe its OK to do a little dance WITH some of them. Take one of them by the hand, do a little number, then another, and so on, before you strip completely. Guys like this don't usually go dancing, so it will probably put a smile on their faces. Obviouusly, some parties like this are completely non-contact, but if you dance with them before you're naked I think it will be more comfortable for all.

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    Hehheh... sometimes I dance with the bachelor while naked. Geeky guys really dig it... for some reason they're too shy to say they hired a stripper but they'll go, "A naked lady danced with meeeeee!" Just get 'em standing and do a cute dance and some bootyshake and a twirl... they eat it up and it wastes much time.



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    those are great ideas, ladies....thanks!!

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