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    Ok, last night I was in VIp with about 5-6 girls and 5 customers. The customer I was with was a total a$$hole!!! We work in an airdance/one way contact club, meaning the customers are not allowed to touch us. The main guy in the group who was paying for all of his friends apparently is a good spender in the club (he spent close to $25,000 last night), that money was mostly all the VIP "hourly" money that went to each of the girls that were in there. Anyway, my guy was so difficult to deal with. He kept on grabbing my breasts, my butt, trying to touch my kitty, he bit me I can't even count how many times, kept trying to lick me, etc. I had firmly told me a million times he's not allowed, etc. I ended up acting physically fighting him off! I was elbowing him in the stomach, bending his fingers back, I also bit him back too!!! He has pissed me off so much that I was in a payback mood and was fighting him off. I guess he thought it was funny because every time I'd hit him, he'd laugh. Close to when the first hour was up I told one of the floorman what was going on but that there was only 15 more min left and I could handle it. ( I didn't want to have him kicked out because I didn't want to "ruin the party" and it affect all the other girls money), so I just dealt with it.

    Well, when the first hour was up, I found out we were staying for a 2nd hour. By the beginning of the 2nd hour he started to "behave" a little better. About 20 min into the 2nd hour he asked me to show him to the restroom. On the way to the restroom, he smacked my butt again!!! So, I walked in a way that he couldn't touch me inappropriately. I walked him to the restroom and he said he'd be right back. So, I decided to go to the restroom also. When I got back to the VIP area, my guy wasn't there. They kept asking where he was and I told them he went to the restroom. Also while I got back there was a new dancer in there!!! They were trying to put her in my place and get rid of me because the main guy was saying he thought his friend left because I wasn't showing him a good enough time. I asked the main guy if he wanted me to leave. He said no, just go find my friend. At this point this was 30 min into the 2nd hour. I got paid for it and went out in the club and found my guy. He was at the stage tipping girls and said he was having more fun at the stage and REFUSED to come back. I tried and tried to get him to come back there but he wouldn't. I go back to the VIP and tell the main guy that he said he'd rather be out there and I tried to get him to come back but he wouldn't. The main guy was being a total prick and saying "You obviously didn't try hard enough, this is America and you need to work for your money that I paid you..." I said to him, I tried, what do you want me to say to him, he wouldn't come back, I can't make someone do something, I can't carry him, what do you want me to do. He said "you have to work harder, you obviously can't do your job properly"

    At that point I was even more furious than ever!!! I talked to the funny money girl who had witnessed a lot of it earlier and talked to one of our managers and told me they'd deal with it and for me to forget about it and to not go back to the VIP area. They said I did what I could, they guy was breaking the rules and for me to not worry about it. So I went up on stage, did some dances and then the night was over.

    As I was walking back towards the dressing room & passing the funny money booth, one of the girls that was back there in the VIP, got up in my face and said something like "Oh, why don't they just give all the money to you" and then walked off. At first I had no idea what her problem was and what that was about. Come to find out, the girls in the VIP room were so pissed at me and were saying that I just took the money and ran. That just pissed me off!!! I actually put up with this guy's shit for an hour and a half so I wouldn't f$ck with their money and look what I get for it. I also followed the directions of 2 managers in the club, I did what I was told. It just surprises me that girls don't work together and stick up for each other, that instead they blame someone else for a situation they don't even know what they're talking about.

    That just pissed me off and I had to get this off my chest and share it with all of you. Would it have been better if I had had the guy kicked out right from the beginning and ruined the whole party? Because that would have been the other option. When I told the manager the story, he said, this guy should have been kicked out right from the beginning. It pisses me off that I was trying to keep everyone else happy, trying to not hurt all of the girl's money in there by putting up with that guy and then when it's all over, they still blame me!!! What do you all think? Would have done anything different? Thanks for listening and for any advice!

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    wow...! i think u did the right thing. i bet no matter what u done, they would of blamed u anyways! ugh, well u know how some girls are. i mean u tried yer best to make everyone happy, but i guess u can never make "EVERYONE" happy , u know???

    i cant beileve that guy said < 'oh this america, u gotta work for yer money, yer not doing a good job.'

    screw him. id be pissed also. i hate guys who think we need to WORK for their "approval" or something. or we need to work even "harder" for their "precious" money. so lame.
    i jus ignore those guys.

    sorry for yer bad night. i wudnt worry bout it. u did wut u thouht was best, whats so wrong bout that??? u had good intentions, so who cares what anyone else thinks!

    p.s - i hate dealing with gropey guys like that...and who think u are no "fun" jus cuz u dont want their gross hands all over yer body! [email protected]!
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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876
    You obviously didn't try hard enough, this is America and you need to work for your money that I paid you..."
    Yeah right...I would have told him that since his friend was not following the rules..for the amount of crap I put up with they actually owe me MORE money. And here in america...the land of Paris Hilton...you take whats handed to you and fuck off! You ALREADY worked for your money...a LOT harder then you should have been made to.

    I'd also have told the other girls to blow me..they saw what you were putting up with and you should have told them that you only didnt have him thrown out so THEY wouldnt lose money so they can kiss your ass!
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    Wow... Just, wow! At least you got your money... Were the other girls being dirty? I can't fucking believe the other girls pulled that shit! As if it's YOUR fault they were being assholes?!
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    "Hunny I put up with that asshole BITING me for an hour and a half instead of kicking his ass out so the rest of you could make your money with the party. Piss off."

    No matter what, those cunts / assholes would've blamed you. At least you got your money and your managers didn't screw you over. AND you got to leave early to hustle some more money

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    Thanks for the support guys!!! I for the life of me could not understand the girls problem! They got paid too, it's not like I got paid and they didn't, plus they all saw what I was having to deal with. At one point he bit me really really hard and I yelled out "OUCH! DON'T BITE ME!!!" And one of the girls made a comment, don't bite her, it'll leave a bite mark bruise. But yeah, the other girls except for my friend back there were acting kinda dirty (according to our club standards) They were allowing the men to group their breasts, smack their asses, they were bending over & bouncing their ass up & down like picturing what it would look like if they were doing it doggie style. The one girl that got up in my face was acting the dirtiest!!!

    The only thing I can think of is they were pissed that I got paid the same amount they did and got to leave a half hour early and got to go out and make more money. The turning point for my guy was I told him the next time he bit me, touched me inappropriately that it would cost him $100 per incident. That's when he wanted to go to the restroom and never returned. The funny money girl and manager told the main guy that was saying all that crap about that I should work for my money and all told him flat out that his friend was grabbing me, biting me, etc. and should have been thrown out and was lucky that I didn't have him kicked out from the beginning and all the guy did was roll his eyes. They then said to him "Don't roll your eyes at us, you know our rules and if you and your friends can't follow our rules then you need to go to another club". My guy was also saying thoughout the time I was with him, "let's go find a place where we can have sex". Ughh!! What dicks!!

    Anyway, karma does work in mysterious ways. Tonight I had an AWESOME night, with nice customers and made a ton of money!!!!! So, I guess nice things do come back to nice people!!!

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    I got so frustrated while reading your post, only because I can relate to it so well and can completely feel ya. I've had this kind of shit happen in many OTC/personal life situations...I would compromise my best interests for other people, and then in the end everyone would get up in my face and blame me for shit anyway. I've found that during times that I ran around like a "chicken with its head cut off" trying to please other people, that I end up exasperating myself and then no one appreciates me for it in the end, anyway. Sometimes I think I am too nice to people who do not deserve it. ITC, I've had assholes try to grope me and behave terribly during a dance, and instead of walking out of the dance early, I've sucked it up and finished the dance for them. It is annoying to think that I've finished a dance for guys that don't deserve my dance after they tried to touch me in forbidden places. If I were in your situation, I probably woulda done exactly what you did...I do not know if that was the best idea though. Come to think about it, maybe a better idea woulda been if you'd told a manager or the hostess early on about the asshole's grabbiness, and then maybe they coulda stepped into the VIP room and told the guy not to touch(at many clubs, managers are allowed to step in if they see a potential problem). Obviously those dirty bitches in the VIP didn't listen good enough when they heard you scolding the asshole...but maybe they woulda paid more attention if the manager stepped in and scolded the guy? I do not know. But I'm glad to hear that you had a much better night the next night...hope everything continues to go up from there for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    No matter what, those cunts / assholes would've blamed you. At least you got your money and your managers didn't screw you over. AND you got to leave early to hustle some more money
    Yup, that's the way I look at it too. At least you know now that those girls dont' have your best interest at heart. It also sux ass that they brought another girl into the VIP to replace you.







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