Hello all I am new to this site. I am not happy with who I am. I am a successful business man but have never had luck with women. This is because growing up I had unbelievibly bad acne. Even through college I had it bad. On the plus side it has cleared up and I think I am a good looking guy now. The problem is that I still don't think I am capable of picking up women. I am trying to change that but it is a long road.
It seems to me that women don't like nice people or men that have there life together. I don't know what my problem is. I have been out on dates recently and as soon as I think things are going well it goes bad! For instance if I tell someone after a few dates that I like them I won't here from them again. This only fuels my depression on who I am. I guess I just don't say the right things. I am not looking for a serious relationship but just a friend or something more.
I am suprised by the reality of life sometimes. I look at other people and see what assholes they are and women just flock to them. This got me thinking that maybe I have to become a asshole myself! Well I just can't do this and don't want to. My friends have told me that I shouldn't change who I am but I just want to be close to someone everynow and then. I really don't know what to do.
I started going to stripclubs a year ago. Not just to see naked women, but generally everyone there is very nice. I guess it is a stepping stone because I have a hard time talking to women in general and at a stripclub it is a lot easier even if the person is being fake.( most of the time it is but I still appreiciate it)
I am pretty much thinking of becoming someone that I hate because it seems that that is what women want. I don't know but was just looking for some help.
Thanks


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