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    I'm trying to get a typical guy perspective on this to see if this is how most guys are or if this particular guy just has issues. So this guy I'm seeing:

    1. Has had a threesome with me and his other girlfriend but says if I had an MMF threesome with him and one of his male friends he would think I was dirty.

    2. Has had sex with over 100 women, but says if I had had sex with that many men he wouldn't find me interesting

    3. Says he would like me better if I had been a virgin when we met

    4. Feels men should be in control of the relationship (even though he apparently doesn't feel that men should pay)

    So what do you think? Is this typical? Do you agree with him? Or do you think he's just a weirdo?

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    Agree on #1, couldn't care less on #2 (pending test results), absolutely not on #3, and even less so on #4.

    You ladies certainly know how to pick 'em.

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    He's a fucking hypocrite. But is it normal? Probably; I've ran into plenty of 'em

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chili Palmer
    Agree on #1, CP
    Really? Like would you just not want to do it, or would you actually think she was dirty (in a qualitatively different way than if she had done girl-girl-boy with you - a hypothetical you)? That's just not what I would have expected.

    I don't think this is normal; whether it is normal or not, I wouldn't deal with it.
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    The fact that you are posting the questions pretty much says he owns you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    I'm trying to get a typical guy perspective on this to see if this is how most guys are or if this particular guy just has issues. So this guy I'm seeing:

    1. Has had a threesome with me and his other girlfriend but says if I had an MMF threesome with him and one of his male friends he would think I was dirty.

    2. Has had sex with over 100 women, but says if I had had sex with that many men he wouldn't find me interesting

    3. Says he would like me better if I had been a virgin when we met

    4. Feels men should be in control of the relationship (even though he apparently doesn't feel that men should pay)

    So what do you think? Is this typical? Do you agree with him? Or do you think he's just a weirdo?

    Does this loser realize that it is no longer....I dunno..... 1953?
    Dump this a-hole.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR
    The fact that you are posting the questions pretty much says he owns you.

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    No, I don't think they're typical, don't many women see the typical guys as boring and undateable though? Could his thoughts on these issues be one of the things that draw you to him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head
    No, I don't think they're typical, don't many women see the typical guys as boring and undateable though? Could his thoughts on these issues be one of the things that draw you to him?
    Yah, but i know theres good in him and maybe if i try harder to please him, he'll change for me! what those? those are just love welts... errr, i fell down the stairs. we live in a ranch? i meant i was climbing a tree and i fell.

    yawn, typical. next!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    I'm trying to get a typical guy perspective on this to see if this is how most guys are or if this particular guy just has issues.
    ah yes..a MB full of SCJ, mongers and perverts. it's the perfect place one would seek out an issue free opinion. but hey, it's your dime.
    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    1. Has had a threesome with me and his other girlfriend but says if I had an MMF threesome with him and one of his male friends he would think I was dirty.
    now, i'm not saying he's right or wrong. however, for a number of reasons, i could see how that would make you a nasty skank in his eyes.
    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    2. Has had sex with over 100 women, but says if I had had sex with that many men he wouldn't find me interesting
    it wouldn't matter to me, but i like slutty women. OTOH, one guy is one too many for some guys.
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    3. Says he would like me better if I had been a virgin when we met
    told ya.
    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    4. Feels men should be in control of the relationship (even though he apparently doesn't feel that men should pay)
    LOL..that sounds like stripper pimping 101.
    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    So what do you think? Is this typical? Do you agree with him? Or do you think he's just a weirdo?
    weird? typical? i have no idea. although, he sounds like a guy that's perfect for a stripper.
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    The fact that you are posting the questions pretty much says he owns you.
    big time, FBR.
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    is this the same guy that told you that he liked his other girlfriend better than you?

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    yes it is. I was embarassed to recap on the pink side, but here we go. I stopped seeing him for two weeks, but he kept calling and calling, begging me to see him, so I went over. I didn't feel attached to him anymore, so that was a relief. I was prepared to turn him into a fuck buddy, but then when he started saying those things, it made me very depressed. I'm been upset the whole weekend. I thought I could be a happy bad girl, but now I see that guys look down on that. So I don't know what guys want anymore. I've down the virgin queen bit and I was treated horribly. I asked him if he likes good girls or bad girls and he said good, and then proceeded to try to stick a beer bottle up my shaft and I kept having to say no. I'm so confused.

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    he does like good girls and he sees you as a whore...which is why he treats you like shit. And you let him. So he does it more. And you let him. And then you come on here asking ridiculous questions about male behavior.

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    ^^^
    I'm sorry, baby, this confuses you? To me this seems fairly straightforward.
    a) you obviously like this guy more than he likes you. That makes him a bad "fuck buddy" (shudder. I hate that term)
    b) if you are really a "happy bad girl" you DON'T NEED THE GUY'S PERMISSION. That mean's it doesn't matter if he looks down on it.
    c) he obviously doesn't care too much about your sexual boundaries and doesn't respect you physically. This is important in a friend, boyfriend and fuck buddy.
    d) he doesn't care about your feelings or respect your feelings. Also important in every possible relationship you can have.

    Geez. I don't normally tell people how to run relationships, but what the hell are you thinking? Kill this now.
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    Damn it sucks that back in my day the women never fell for the crap that this guy is pulling. I was born twenty or thirty years too soon. Today would be a cake walk.

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    You mean back when you were dating it was considered socially inappropriate to shove a bottle up a girl's ass despite her repeated refusal? Is this the "chivalry" we've heard so much about? See, it really is dead.
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    I'm with FBR. Why would any woman fall for this crap?

    Bottom line -- he is lying on every count save #4. It's all about control. Hey, woman, YOU are supposed to be the one in control of your relationships. Dump him and keep away from his kind. And discover some way to rebuild your self-image, because it ain't helping.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    You mean back when you were dating it was considered socially inappropriate to shove a bottle up a girl's ass despite her repeated refusal? Is this the "chivalry" we've heard so much about? See, it really is dead.
    yeah, can you believe that some chicks aren't into this?

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    It would seem that part of women's sexual liberation is the freedom to make stupid-ass choices about men.
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    *raises hand*

    I will openly admit I have made MANY stupid ass choices about men. And learned from them. Hopefully LSV will too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    You mean back when you were dating it was considered socially inappropriate to shove a bottle up a girl's ass despite her repeated refusal? Is this the "chivalry" we've heard so much about? See, it really is dead.
    Jenny, no, what I was saying is that back in my day you were lucky to get a tit feel. The women knew exactly what was up. Fast forward 30 years, this guy fucks her and his ex gf in a threesome but says if she did anything similar with other guys shes a ho. And she buys into it and posts here whining about it. Clueless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire
    *raises hand*

    I will openly admit I have made MANY stupid ass choices about men. And learned from them. Hopefully LSV will too
    Okay, I have too. But I can say that I have never pleaded for respect from a guy. If a guy treats me with disrespect I'm out the door (or whatever entry/exit way is appropriate to the situation). Keep in mind that generally I could not care less what he is thinking or what is in his heart. I care a lot more how he acts and things I will not abide, even for a second, are guys calling me a slut for fucking them (in a pejorative sense), guys who imply that they would rather be with someone else than me, guys that won't kiss me after I go down on them and guys that try to control me. Those are BIG mistakes because you are letting someone else define your sexuality for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LilSweetVixen
    I'm trying to get a typical guy perspective on this to see if this is how most guys are or if this particular guy just has issues. So this guy I'm seeing:

    1. Has had a threesome with me and his other girlfriend but says if I had an MMF threesome with him and one of his male friends he would think I was dirty.

    2. Has had sex with over 100 women, but says if I had had sex with that many men he wouldn't find me interesting

    3. Says he would like me better if I had been a virgin when we met

    4. Feels men should be in control of the relationship (even though he apparently doesn't feel that men should pay)

    So what do you think? Is this typical? Do you agree with him? Or do you think he's just a weirdo?
    No, it's not typical among normal men. The fact that you are still seeing this guy raises more questions about your judgement than it does about men in general. Dump the loser.
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    thanks guys

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR
    The fact that you are posting the questions pretty much says he owns you.

    FBR
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    Seriously, to the OP. Guys like this exist because it works, because a lot of women are attracted to this type of personality. If it was really that big of a turn off you would have left him already or never gotten involved in the first place.

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