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    Default Thanks again Corsica =)

    So my question is this..

    I was fine with my recent breakup until i found out she got a job in the industy a week later... Im not the jealous type and am actually really excited for her, however I am a bit confused. I want to see her dance, but I am not sure if thats a good idea... I know I wont act stupid at the club, but do you think she will be ok dancing for me? We dated for less than a year, I personally dont think it would be a problem but is this a bad idea? Thanks always for your help =)

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    Default Re: Thanks again Corsica =)

    It just depends on the girl and the relationship and the way that it ended and whether its going to bother you that once you are done paying her she's going to need to move on to the next guy and the next guy, etc, and if you think this will upset you to see or to see her giving special attention to guys that tip her onstage, etc. Even the non jealous type won't usually love to see this. I would ask her if she'd feel comfortable. To some it would be awkward, to some money is money no matter who they are dancing for.

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    Default Re: Thanks again Corsica =)

    this stripper would have a problem with it. i would never want any ex in a club to see me.

    was her dancing ever discussed btwn the two of you?

    Love it!

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    Default Re: Thanks again Corsica =)

    I understand the dynamic of her position - I expect to see her working the crowd, stage, etc. I would be disappointed otherwise =) I am curious if anyone has danced for an ex and how it worked out..

    Just for reference we had a very amicable breakup, and did mention coming to see her. Of course she told me to come in, but Im not sure if that was a pattern response or if she really meant it. Also you should know she is new so I really dont want to make her feel uncomfortable..

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    Default Re: Thanks again Corsica =)

    This makes you look rather sheepish, beating around the bush per say, rather than just asking.

    EDIT: My bad, when I posted that, I thought this was someone who broke up with Corsica.
    Last edited by lunchbox; 11-20-2006 at 10:51 AM.

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    Default Re: Thanks again Corsica =)

    Many clubs don't allow boyfriends/husbands in the club. The same can go for exes if the dancer so chooses. You might think that it might be a good way to go support her/see her, but you'll both only end up being in a really awkward situation. Many dancers find it really difficult to dance for people they know, and would rather not do it.

    Your call, if you think she wouldn't mind, ask her yourself. But be forewarned, just because she says yes to you, doesn't mean it will be OK once you're really in the club with her.

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