It was the start of my Saturday night and a bunch of guys came in to celebrate one of their friend’s recent engagement. So one of the guys brought me over to the guy who’s getting married soon to take him for a dance, and the expression on his face was one of dissatisfaction and his friend sitting next to him had a similar expression. He was really hesitant and said, “Nah, I’m looking for somebody else to get a dance from.” He also said, “I want to choose a dancer that I like.” So I said ok, smiled, and turned to get ready to move on but the guy who brought me over to the table pulled on my hand to stay while he asked his friend why not because he was offering to pay for him. Only then, the guy said “Fine only because I don’t have to pay for it.” So I took him back for the dance and he was very uncomfortable. His posture was tense and his legs were crossed, etc. I started to dance and I slowly unwrapped his unwelcoming posture during our dance. Towards the end of the dance he said that my dance was the best dance he had all night and my body moved exactly how he likes it, yadda yadda. So I said, and to think you almost missed out because you judged me solely on my appearance. I could see he felt bad after I said that and apologized for his behavior earlier after he told me his type was white girls. He tipped me double what his friend who paid for the dance gave me and asked me to join him and his friend at their table so he can tell his friend about me and what not.
I didn’t go back to his table because I didn’t want to feel like I had to prove anything to this guy’s friend after the face expression that resembled the one of when you smell spoil milk. How would you have handled the situation? Would you have even suck it up and danced for the guy like I did? I would just like to know for future reference if there is/are better ways to deal with a situation like this.



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And, hahahaha, glad that guy not only tipped you double, he also ate his own words!!! How awesome is that!!!

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