I live in aluquerque. and i used to trvel to LA to dance cuz i didnt want my family to find out. I got so tired of all the traveling and i told my family that i was going to start dancing here in town, i told them that i wanted to be honest. They freaked out and they made feel like shit. My mom told me: If u love money more than u love us then go for it my brother told me that he was gonna go to the club and make a huge scene and not to ever talk to him again. I didnt want to brake the family apart. So i told them that i wasnt going to do it, everything went back to normal. But i did started dancing and am making great money, i know they r gonna find out eventually, cuz this is a small town. I dont know what to do! i dont wanna lose my family but i dont wanna quit dancing either.



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Also, not long after I avoided dancing, my mom disowned me anyway. At that point, my parents were giving me no support and refused to talk to me, and I was in a worst financial situation than ever, so I felt I had nothing to lose by dancing and so that's how I got into this industry. Because my parents cut me off and give me no support at all(they didn't even give me a place to stay when I needed it), I feel no obligation at all to "be honest" with them and tell them what I'm doing. Besides, I am an adult who can make my own choices. So yeah, technically I'm "allowed" to dance, since I am no longer under my parents' roof, but it is just soooo much easier to keep them out of it. Not only do I keep dancing from my family, but I hide my implants under sports bras and baggy sweaters, too!
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