First, to colour the feeling behind this post, "ugh". I know the general advice for guys looking for 'more' than dances is to ignore them. But I need to emphasize that, on some nights especially, every second guy I speak to is like this. So as not to go home empty handed, I try to convince them that my dances are still "fun", without involving hand jobs, and all the rest they might imply. I don't lie exactly. I might "wink" and say "I'm the best". An opinion, so not 'a lie', but not honest either, if I think they think I mean what I don't. Does that make sense? I don't like doing this, but I admit I sometimes do to not go home emptyhanded.
Now as for VIP at my club, I have yet to sell one. I think that, given the expectations for $20 at my club, I could only imagine what a guy might expect for $400/ hour ($300 to me). This one guy last night asked just that after he spent $40 for two dances from me. He said "well, I guess it'd be quite a lot for $400". I said "oh yeah, it's a lot of fun. Nice and private...". At this point, I could have 'winked', emphasized the fun, and have gotten a VIP. I didn't though, since I knew he expected more than I would do, but he never said anything outright about extras. Neither did I, but I sensed that was the implication, so I didn't go through with the sale. I hate being 'dishonest'. However, it would be the very, very rare customer I meet there who might consider that kind of money for the actual 'vip experience' I'd be willing to give (re: nothing more explicit than I'd do anywhere else in the club).
Am I wrong to be misleadiing like I am? I know I'm not right, but I think that they're a little wrong to expect sex in a strip club when that is clearly not the normal offering. So it's two wrongs...like two lefts, I know that doesn't add up to a 'right'. I'm just wondering if other girls do this too. What would others do in the VIP situation, for example? It's frustrating to feel like a bit of borderline shady carsalesman.



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