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    Default Strip Clubs sort of depress me

    I go to strip clubs once in a while when I'm at home bored and want something to do and have money to burn. Most times though I get in there it starts to feel depressing after about 20 minutes and I usually head out and hang out at Starbucks or the mall. I have nothing against you dancers or what you do. I think maybe it's just because, and don't laugh! I want a real honest relationship in my life and not just a lap dance and it just feels empty sitting there. Lap Dances are fun and everything but it just magnifies the fact that I don't have a girlfriend and my life is pretty lonely. Excuse my Dr. Phil moment here, but seriously strip clubs can be pretty depressing.

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    If they depress you and you know that...why do you continue to go?

    Honestly...strip clubs/lapdances,etc and relationships are and should be two separate things. One shouldnt impede or take the place of another.

    Having said that...sounds like you'd be better off concentrating on meeting someone in real life...maybe try a dating service?
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    Default Re: Strip Clubs sort of depress me

    I haven't gone to a strip club in a year. Notice in my question I said they "sort of" depress me. There is fun side to them, but a good looking girl dancing in my lap can depress me afterwards.

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    Maybe you should cut your times you go to for celebrating or special events? That way you can make it special w/o you getting all down about going. At least you know they are different things. Relationships are for outside the club.
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    you're right. It is depressing. Being the apple of a gorgeous woman's eye who dances for you, drinks with you, spends time with you with absolutely no strings attached sucks, only because she wants nothing to do with you when the money runs out.

    Some people say that sucks....
    Others (myself included) are sooooo happy for this.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Mastridonicus, I want something deeper than that. I want the real deal.

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    Then go find it.
    you live like an ivy vine
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    that's your flaw
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    I wish it was that easy, TigersMilk!

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    Dont we all.
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    that's your flaw
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    If you haven't even been to a SC in a year, why are you thinking about / posting this??

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Downey_Guy
    Mastridonicus, I want something deeper than that. I want the real deal.

    The problem is that the two are mutually exclusive. You can go to a club AND look for a relationship elsewhere. You can enjoy the company of naked (or semi depending on the club) beautiful interesting women WHILE you are waiting for Ms. Right to come along. One does not preclude the other.

    However if it depresses you...easy answer..dont go. And if you havent gone in a year...whats the point of this question anyway?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Downey_Guy
    Mastridonicus, I want something deeper than that. I want the real deal.
    See that's the problem

    Going to the strip club and "looking for the real deal"

    The second you feel that coming on. Walk.

    It's best to resign yourself to "the real deal" not being there
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    I think it's like people who get depressed around the holidays because it magnifies that they may not have families or close relationships. So when they turn on the TV and see nothing but that it brings them down. I can accept leaving a lapddance just a lapdance, but it brings feelings to the surface afterwards.

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    Lap Dances are fun. VERY FUN! But damn if they don't make make me wanting the real deal in my life.

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    Default Re: Strip Clubs sort of depress me

    Again:
    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    If you haven't even been to a SC in a year, why are you thinking about / posting this??
    If you haven't even been to a SC in a year, what's the point? You haven't had any lapdances to make you depressed lately...

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    you're right. It is depressing. Being the apple of a gorgeous woman's eye who dances for you, drinks with you, spends time with you with absolutely no strings attached sucks, only because she wants nothing to do with you when the money runs out.

    Some people say that sucks....
    Others (myself included) are sooooo happy for this.
    Oh-Kay! Thank You! Buh-Bye! Buh-Buy Now!

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    P.S. I always did find strip clubs to be kinda depressing too. I suspect it is the BS alarm going off. In my once a year trip I almost want to tell the dancer "Shhhh. I don't want to hear your fucking lies." I just smile and remain silent and she gets the message we aren't going to be friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Again:

    If you haven't even been to a SC in a year, what's the point? You haven't had any lapdances to make you depressed lately...
    Have you seen some of his other contributions lately? Kind of puts things in perspective.

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sea...earchid=208652
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Try changing your name to "Got It Up Guy" and maybe the world will smile back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
    you're right. It is depressing. Being the apple of a gorgeous woman's eye who dances for you, drinks with you, spends time with you with absolutely no strings attached sucks, only because she wants nothing to do with you when the money runs out.

    Some people say that sucks....
    Others (myself included) are sooooo happy for this.
    ROFL.

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    Maybe you need a wingman when you go.

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    If the strip club makes you sad then dont go in one. You want a relationship then venture into one, simple as that. yeah its simple

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    I'm the opposite. Strip clubs are about the only place I'm not depressed. I'm a strip club addict. When I really get depressed is the next morning when I realized I spent a lot more money than I planned to and now have to wait a couple weeks to go back. (I'm serious here!) The only time I'm depressed at the club is when I run out of cash and know I have to go home.

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    Hanging out in the 3rd floor lobby of the state capital building in Bismark, North Dakota in March depresses me a little





    So I don't hang out there
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    Quote Originally Posted by X Evan X
    Hanging out in the 3rd floor lobby of the state capital building in Bismark, North Dakota in March depresses me a little





    So I don't hang out there
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    April is a much better month for that.

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