It's not about a hug. Or even cuddling. I mean,
it doesn't feel weird to, while conversing with the
customer, sit on his lap (if I'm being paid. I have a
strict no-cash-no-lap policy because it really ticks
me off when customers touch me and then don't buy the
dance) or sit with his arm around you. But it's weird
and stifling when he wants you to sit close to him,
repeatedly hug you tight, in between hugs looking into
your eyes and saying things like "Tell me all about
yourself. I want to know all about you" and then
interrupting to say things like "You're so special."
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